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[scollins04]

hi all

im Shaz im 31 and married to steve 52 and we been ttc#2 for over 6 years now

my story:
we started trying for 1st on our wedding day in 2004 but not preventing before that
we got pregnant and found out on our 1st wedding anniversary but I miscarried at 7+3
we started trying again and tried for 2 more years before I got pregnant again with our daughter who was born in jan 2008 4 weeks early by emergency C-section as I developed pre-eclampsia
when she turned one we started trying for our second and its been 6 years now
on 29 april this year I got pregnant finally but 2 days later lost it

currently getting af cramps but af not due for another week and I feel wet but when I check I have a ton of white lotion cm af cramps usually come day before on the day af due

 

[tommyg]

Hi 🙋 6 years is a long time to be trying. You are welcome to join the "35+ and trying for 2.5 years plus" thread. Don't worry about your age esp given your DH's age.

Do you have any idea what the problem is, ie have you had and tests or treatments?

 

[scollins04]

hi thanks for replying I lost my log in details until recently

both had tests and all normal and working and specialists wont give us treatment
only problem they see is I'm a bit overweight and me and hubby have underactive thyroids which we have meds for

 

[tommyg]

I think after that amount of time trying I would seek a 2nd opion even if it means going private.

 

[scollins04]

cant afford to go private otherwise I would but I'm my husbands carer and he is disabled

 

[tommyg]

I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe try your Doc again.

Just a wee point you seem to have given a lot of personal details away. I'm guessing your user name along with the name in your 1st post is your full name and you have given your wedding date.

 

[scollins04]

yeah -have edited out some details thanks x

 

[tommyg]

Your welcome its easy to forget that anyone can read what you write