Newly Pregnant with #1 after more then on loss. If you can relate come on in...

[monro84]

I just found out I am pregnant at 9dpo I am 11 dpo today 3wks 4 days. Due July 27 2013. I have had 5 losses. My first was a BO which was a surprise pregnancy after the D&C we officially started trying Feb 2011. That June and begining of Aug I had a chemical, but the very last days of Aug I found out I was pregnant. At 5 wks had ultrasound at er and showed 3 sacs. MC one at 6 wks 2 days but had 1 hb that same day dr wanted me to come back for another US the next week hb seemed weak. Went back no hb baby passed a few days after US. Induced mc at 8 wks. Got referal to RE (Reproductive specialist) blood test normal, found out I had parital septate uterus and that was the reason for the mc. Had surgery to remove that Dec. Began trying again this past May. Dr sad if I was not pregnant w/ n 3 months of trying come back and they will do follow up to make sure the septate was gone. I got pregnat that this past July 4th but it was a late implanter so mc on July 26 at 5 wks. So now caustiouly expectinga again I have a good feeling about this one so we will see.

What is the rest of ya'll stories?

 

[Bumblebee2408]

Hi there,

Unsure if I am pregnant yet however I am 4 days late today I was due AF on sunday tested a few times all bfn's on an FRER test

However I know how you feel I have myself have lost 3 babies in the last year and a few months the 1st one was at 6 weeks and was just one of those things that couldn't be explained the 2nd one was at 5 weeks due to BO and the 3rd one was 7+3 and they're unsure why this happened also.

I am worried that if this one is a BFP then as its not showing on a test early it could be the same situation but hopefully not trying to remain positive.

Like I say I know the feeling of worry when you get pregnant again but if your gut instincts are telling you this one could be different then who knows??

I have my fingers firmly crossed for you xxxxxx

 

[monro84]

Bumblebee-- thank you so much . I have everything crossed for you also that you are pregnant and it will be your sticky baby. Since you had 3 losses have you been able to get testing done? I would look into it if you have not been told to do so because you have to be your own advocate (I know from experience). I pushed my OB to refer me after the mc last yr in August and if i had not I would probable still be having losses because of the septum. GL FX and alot of

 

[Bumblebee2408]

Yes we are booked in for next week but as I'm late and freaking out as we're not allowed to be pregnant during testing we're hoping for the best that this is a positive and as sticky bean but as yet all negative results 5 days late now and have overly sensitive breasts and they look loads bigger already even my partner noticed and had slight cramping like period pains but not if that makes sense which is what i've had with my last few.

I hope we are cos it'd be nice to be pregnant again but at the same time I just want to know before we go for fertility tests
xxxxx

 

[monro84]

Oh wow. It is kinda hard not to try when they tell you not to luckly I didn't get pregnant then. But I hope you are and this is your sticky did you. Temp or opks this cycle?

 

[Sproglett]

Hey, I'm not pregnant now, but wanted to share y success after loss story for you. nov 26 th 2010 I had a missed mc - I went for a scan at 11w baby's hear stoppe at 9 1/2 it took me 3 weeks to miscarry naturally. 2nd pregnancy I had a bleed so went for an early scan couldn't see anything did hcg and repeat hcg (which were rising) after 2-3weeks of repeat blood and scans decided to do an exploratory laparoscope 6th may 2011 as there was no sign of baby, turned out this pregnancy was ectopic and I had 1/2 my right tube removed. 3rd time I did a pregnancy test 9th September 2011 BFP and lost baby on the 10th scan confirmed this. Got my next BFP 31st Dec 2011 and expected the worst, even told my husband we would be trying again come march, and I'm now a very happy mommy to Jacob, please keep positive and good luck for your pregnancy x x

 

[Bumblebee2408]

I know its madness well another day and still no sign of AF we're secretly hoping this is it as i'm having loads of symptoms xxx

 

[monro84]

Hey, I'm not pregnant now, but wanted to share y success after loss story for you. nov 26 th 2010 I had a missed mc - I went for a scan at 11w baby's hear stoppe at 9 1/2 it took me 3 weeks to miscarry naturally. 2nd pregnancy I had a bleed so went for an early scan couldn't see anything did hcg and repeat hcg (which were rising) after 2-3weeks of repeat blood and scans decided to do an exploratory laparoscope 6th may 2011 as there was no sign of baby, turned out this pregnancy was ectopic and I had 1/2 my right tube removed. 3rd time I did a pregnancy test 9th September 2011 BFP and lost baby on the 10th scan confirmed this. Got my next BFP 31st Dec 2011 and expected the worst, even told my husband we would be trying again come march, and I'm now a very happy mommy to Jacob, please keep positive and good luck for your pregnancy x x

Oh wow you have been through it but that is great you have a healthy baby boy out of it. It does give me hope. I did just hve my second set of blood test done but I don't know because my test are darker but not as dark as the should be. I have my test from last time in July and I had 3 betas done then the first was 24 the second was 51 the third was 12. I have test from the first and second beta and have been comparing them well last night I took a test after a 7 hrs hold with nothing to drink. It was hardly dark at all it was as light as my test 2 days ago but then I ttook another test 2 hrs later with something to drink and it was the darkest yet . That test was darker compared to the first July beta test but not as dark as the second July beta test. And its about the same darkness as the rest from the day inbetween the betas. I know people say quit testing snd don't judge it by the test there are different dye amounts and other factors that can affect the darkness but by testing up the hcg it has always worked for me in determining if the pregnancy was progressing. And my progestrone was pretty high so if my betas don't come back much higher than before then I am going to say it is a good probability that it is etopic because that is associated with high progesterone when the numbers do not go up much. I really hope I am wrong but I have not been wrong about my pregnancies yet.

I know the above is kinda confusing.

 

[monro84]

Bumblebee---I will keep my FX for you and toes.

 

[monro84]

I also just check the portal from the RE's office and the Dr. messaged me the 14th (my first beta) and said he could not wait to see my #'s go up. Then asked if I was on progestrone supplements lol. I told him no but I was suppried it was that high too because it was not that high with the twins/triplets in Aug last yr. I am not sure how often he cks his messages so it might be a while before I hear back from him. I did mention that "I have been having different pains in my lower abdoman around my left ovary area than any of my other pregnancy. They are sharper and make me have to stop what I am doing. Asked if there is a possibliity of etopic if the numbers don't rise like they should or am I just over reacting."

 

[Sproglett]

Really hope you are wrong hunny, I got pains on my left side when I was pregnant with Jacob and thought the pregnancy was ectopic, fingers crossed like I was, you are wrong

 

[monro84]

Thank you I hope it is a normal pregnancy. I think if it is etopic I have had every other pregnancy there is besides molar (thank God) and a normal one.
Blighetd Ovum
Chemical
Triplet/twin mc due to septate
and if this one is etopic I can mark it off the list.
Are there anymore left beside normal and molar.

 

[monro84]

This is message I received from RE's nurse

Your pregnancy levels are rising well. Repeat once again. Thank you

o Return to clinic on Monday Nov 19, 2012 for the following test(s): HCG Beta

But they have not posted the levels on the portal AAAGGGGGHHH

 

[monro84]

OMG just got my numbers 80.50 they trippled.
that is 24.7 hrs doubling time.
I think I got my STICKY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Sproglett]

Omg hun that sounds really promising, fingers crossed!!! Your hospital should take really good care of you as they'll be aware if your history, so you should get a scan soon hopefully. I've got my fingers and toes crossed for you x x

 

[Bumblebee2408]

OMG that sounds sooooo great I am so happy for you!!

You deserve this so much hun

Well quick update for me I am 6 days late and counting defo no signs of af going to buy a test tomorrow and see what happens if nothing I am going to contact my GP tomorrow for tests although got up this morning feeling queasy which is a good sign I guess. FX'd sooooo tight

Hi Sproglett I feel like i've been rude and no said hello yet
xxxxx

 

[Sproglett]

Hey bumblebee, don't worry about me, I've only popped on to help others with my story, fx for you too with your test tomorrow hunny x x

 

[Bumblebee2408]

Thank you soo much sproglett i'll update on here tomorrow i'm not holding hopes out as had so many negatives this week xxx

 

[monro84]

Omg hun that sounds really promising, fingers crossed!!! Your hospital should take really good care of you as they'll be aware if your history, so you should get a scan soon hopefully. I've got my fingers and toes crossed for you x x

Thank u. I should be able to get a scan done between 6and 7 wks. I will probably ask for 6 and a half weeks. That is 2 & a halfvweeks away

 

[monro84]

OMG that sounds sooooo great I am so happy for you!!

You deserve this so much hun

Well quick update for me I am 6 days late and counting defo no signs of af going to buy a test tomorrow and see what happens if nothing I am going to contact my GP tomorrow for tests although got up this morning feeling queasy which is a good sign I guess. FX'd sooooo tight

Hi Sproglett I feel like i've been rude and no said hello yet
xxxxx

Thank you so much. I hope your able to figure out what is going on. Maybe you will get a great christmas present if you don't get it this time. That would be the perfect present.