Newly Pregnant with #1 after more then on loss. If you can relate come on in...

[monro84]

Hey don't need to wait for friday i've had awful cramping today and the start of some light bleeding so this must be start of AF annoyed though as theres been no reason for it being late so at fertility tests tomorrow i'm going to ask them to look into why its been this late.
xxx

AWe so sorry I hope you get answers soon.

 

[monro84]

I had 2 previous miscarriages one at 11+6 and second one at 6+2.. Hopefully this one will be my sticky bean! I'm praying that everything will be okay this time and I hope everything works out for you too.. I am only a few weeks pregnant but i have a very good feeling i am hoping too get an early scan but it probably wont be for a few weeks yet.. Keep me updated with your progress Toriia x

So sorry you had to go through them the farthest I have gotten was 6 wks 3 days that was the MMC when the baby passed and I had heard the hb at 6 wks 2 days. I go for a scan this Fri at5 wks 6 days and hoping to hear HB then but I know I might not b/c it will still be to early. How far are you? I have a good feeling about this one also. I believe that that reason I lost it was b/c of my partial septate uterus and I had that fixed last Dec. I did get pregnant in July but it was a late impalnter so I did not have hope for it. I just feel realxed with this one. I Hope this is our sticky babies also.

 

[toriiabje]

I am about 4/5 weeks it was very hard at 11 weeks as it was my first and i would have NEVER expected anything like that too happen.. Also i was so close too getting out of the 'danger stages' and thinking about getting everything sorted after the 12 week scan it was very traumatic also as i bled alot and lots of clots.. I do feel very hopeful about this one and im hoping this is your sticky bean too feel free too send me a private message if you like

 

[monro84]

I am about 4/5 weeks it was very hard at 11 weeks as it was my first and i would have NEVER expected anything like that too happen.. Also i was so close too getting out of the 'danger stages' and thinking about getting everything sorted after the 12 week scan it was very traumatic also as i bled alot and lots of clots.. I do feel very hopeful about this one and im hoping this is your sticky bean too feel free too send me a private message if you like

Oh no that is a terrible experince. I can kinda relate. The BO was my first and still seeing nothing at 10 wks but they were dating me at 12 even though I know I was not I had a D&C rigth after. Then in Aug after I heard the HB I felt so much better b/c it decreased to 3% of MCing but week later no HB. I cannot imagin a losse at 11 wks though you are a very strong woman

 

[toriiabje]

Thank you I try too be as strong as I can although it was very hard! The hospital was horible that I went too but had no other choice as its the nearest one too me.. The staff was no help at all, I'm sure I've said this in another post.. I wasn't really thinking either as the ambulance just took me there! I was in a bad way :/ like I said though I know this one is the one also like I said pm me if you need too talk!

 

[Sproglett]

Fx for Friday for you hunny, don't forget they don't always see anything this early on. I was 8w with Jacob before they picked him up on the scan. X x

 

[monro84]

Thank you I try too be as strong as I can although it was very hard! The hospital was horible that I went too but had no other choice as its the nearest one too me.. The staff was no help at all, I'm sure I've said this in another post.. I wasn't really thinking either as the ambulance just took me there! I was in a bad way :/ like I said though I know this one is the one also like I said pm me if you need too talk!

Oh no that does sound like a terrible ordeal. I would be really upset if staff was like that unfortunently last time I made it this far it was the OB that was not very much help. It is weird to explain it. He was a very nice, soft spoken, but considering this was my 4th pregnancy he treated it as it was my 1st like there was no sense of urgency. When I MC a twin he was not there so another dr saw me. He told me that I was very strong for what I have gone threw. The other dr never said anything like that to me. He was never empathetic or personable like that. So I am switching back to the OB that I wanted in the beginning. However the OB I want to go to is 30 min away but great I went to him for a second opinion on my first pregnancy that was a BO and he even gave me a copy of the ultrasound even though he confirmed a BO also. No one gave me a copy of the ultrasound except him. I might even end up going to him anyways if I do not like the way this dr treats me. I have never seen him on a pregnancy but been to him for paps. He have about 30 yrs experince so I figured he may have seen a few things. I have alittle higher risk of other problems due to having a partial septum and haveing it removed. Like shortening of cervix, preterm labor, placenta previa, and higher risk of c section but I could still have a normal pregnancy with no complecations. I am also little nervous since my numbers Mon was 9988.4 wed they were 14460.5 so they are slowing down I think it is still appropriately going up though because I have read that once it gets past 6000 then it takes over 96 hrs to double and mine were at 89 hrs so that is still above normal doubling time. I have my scan tomorrow so nervous about it. I am praying there is a HB I read somewhere that usually over 10k there is a HB and I will be 1 day from 6 wks. but then I will have to wait till at least 7 wks 2 days before I can go back unless I make an appt with my regular OB here in town instead of my RE 2 hrs away. The manager will be out of town next week and I have to stay here unless it is absolutely necessary for me to have an US next week at my RE. I appreciate the offer. When is your scan? since you have had 2 losses are they montering you any closer now?

 

[monro84]

Fx for Friday for you hunny, don't forget they don't always see anything this early on. I was 8w with Jacob before they picked him up on the scan. X x

Oh wow 8 wks do you have a tilted uterus maybe I know that with one they can take longer to see hb and baby. I know it is till early I am expecting at least a yolk sac though the last time I had made it this far I had a scan at 5 wks 2 days and saw 3 sac and 1 yolk sac even though I could see 2 in the pic. However I know ever pregnancy is different but if they do not see anything I will fear that is a Blighted ovum again. However my numbers were lot higher with it.