Newlyweds TTC

[Betheney]

AHOI HOI!!!

got my positive OPK!!! wooooo!!! so for the first time over i could ovulate from CD15-CD17 whereas i always ovulate at CD22!!! last month was CD18 because i did soy-isoflavones from CD6-11 but this month i did CD2-7 and here i am ovulating SUPER EARLIER!!!! so happy! so excited! ready to

ALTHO!!! i did BD with hubby this morning and i am really kinda funny about baby making BD it has to be in a baby making position AND i like it if we at the same time because i know orgasm helps to suck the spermy up through the cervix and this morning we didn't finish together and we were in a crap baby making position and i had saved that sperm up for a couple of days so i'm kinda annoyed! I sound like a cow saying that. Like "Bad husband". But i don't mean it like that, i'm just worried we didn't do it right.

 

[Lucie73821]

Yeah for positive OPKs Betheney! I think I got my first one earlier this week too! I know what you mean about worrying about position, etc. I'm the same way!

I guess now begins the TWW for me. I feel like this is my first cycle that I've really "tried", I've been charting my BBT, and using OPKs for the first time. Ugh! I am horrible at waiting! How am I going to make it through the next two weeks?

 

[starcrossed]

I'm with Betheny I got a OPK so lots of BDing to do!!

to everyone!!
Lots of Love

Delly xxx

 

[mummy to be]

Oh you go girls woot woot... Hope your all having loads of fun hehehehe
unfortunately for me right at this moment in time that is the last thing that i want. I dont know why!!!!! It is not like me at all. But i just dont want it.... I should be wanting it 24/7 cause we are trying to have a 2nd bubba but i just dont HELP!!!!

 

[Betheney]

Oh you go girls woot woot... Hope your all having loads of fun hehehehe
unfortunately for me right at this moment in time that is the last thing that i want. I dont know why!!!!! It is not like me at all. But i just dont want it.... I should be wanting it 24/7 cause we are trying to have a 2nd bubba but i just dont HELP!!!!

Mummy to be there is no bigger turn off than feeling you HAVE to have sex. The first month me and hubby were TTC we really had no idea when i ovulated so we had sex like 8 days in a row and it was so crap! he wasn't into it at all and we fought every night and we had to like force ourselves into the mood it was pretty horrible. Not only that but if you don't have sex for a week your more up for it after you've had it everynight you don't need it. I try every second day from about CD10 then if i get a +ve opk i TRY everyday for 3 days but it doesn't always work.

 

[Betheney]

Lucie and starcrossed we are all in the TWW together!

Lucie i noticed on your FF chart that you stopped OPK once you got the positive, you shouldn't stop because your first OPK can somtimes just be your LH on its way up... i know some cycles i get positives for 2-3 days in a row and it gives a better idea on when i actually ovulated. Plus temping everyday would help as you could see exactly what day your temp rise happens to better pin-point ovulation. Not that it really matters in your case because you and hubby have BDd like crazy.

LOVE LOVE LOVE

GOOD LUCK TO US ALL!!!

 

[dreamofabean]

Hi guys, can i join you? I got married last August and we're on cycle 2 of ttc our first x

 

[Lucie73821]

Welcome dreamofabean! I got married in August too!

Thanks for the advice on OPKs and temping Betheney. This is my first month doing both, so it's more like trial and error. I had a pretty hellish week at school so that didn't help the efforts. Next month I will try to do better, but hopefully I won't have to. And I know what you mean about the turn off of feeling you HAVE to BD. The other night we were both sooooo tired, and it was like Sex???? No Thanks!

Wow, three of us are in the TWW! Next stop, BFPs for us all!

Have a wonderful day ladies!!!

 

[starcrossed]

TWW together, least we can cheer each other on!

My OPK was a bit darker today than yesterday so I reckon I'm going to ov any time now, so been BDing and then soft cups after so fingers crossed it'll be pink all round for all of us

I wish they could invent a way to say if you'd got it right without the 2WW LOL

to everyone and FX'd

Delly xxx

 

[Lucie73821]

I wish they could invent a way to say if you'd got it right without the 2WW LOL



Delly xxx

I wish someone would invent that too!!! I am soooo impatient. And this is my first month of really "trying", so these next two weeks will be a killer!

 

[starcrossed]

Yup
IT WILL BE HORRIBLE!!!

How long before you crack and pee on an early pregnancy test?! LOL

 

[lolley]

whoo hoo go girlies, 3 of you together, if mine is the same as last month i should O on sat so will be joining you a week behind

sending you all lots of

Lucie- wow thats one nice thermal shift you have today FX for you

Betheney- waitning to see ours should be any day now good news on the soy seems to be doing its job wonderfully

i decided not to go with soy yet as we go away april 2nd and if the witch shows up it will be timed nicely that she wont be with me while im away. if i dont have my BFP by the end of April again when the next witch shows (FX she doesn't) im going to try it then.

 

[Lucie73821]

I have a question about my temp today. When I woke up and reached for the thermometer, I realized it wasn't there. It was out in the other room on the desk. I got up and took my temp. I know you're supposed to take it laying down, but really didn't want to skip another day. Do you ladies think I should discard the temp, or leave it?

 

[Betheney]

Hey girls my temperature took a big dip this morning although i only had 4 hours of sleep, but i'm guessing it could be an ovulation temperature dip????? I had two positive OPKs over 2 days and i read that you can ovulate anywhere from 12 to 48hrs after a positive OPK with it on average and most commonly 36hours so i'm guessing i ovulated 36hours after the first one and 12hours after the second one which would put ovulation exactly on today! Me and hubby BD this morning at about 3am, i know kinda an odd time but it was when i went to bed so i had to try and wake him up. He didn't mind tho. He's like me, LOVES middle on the night random sex. SO i BD at 3am and should ovulate any time today...... possibly last night as i had a tiny tinge in my right ovary for about and hour subtle tingle tho.

Lucie - I would leave it there it can't hurt, and then in a week if you look back and its sticking out like crazy i would discard it then

 

[lolley]

Lucie - put the temp in but mark it as youwere out of bed just for your reference. when you put the temp in i will have a look.

Betheney - looks promising and good timing

sending as always x

 

[Betheney]

3rd +ve OPK! WTF!!! Don't these OPKs know i'm running out of quantities of DHs !!! i better ovulate soon because i don't think hubby has much left!!

Not to mention he is totally over BDing at this point. I had to bribe him with to get it tonight!

LOVE LOVE LOVE

 

[Lucie73821]

Good luck Betheney! Bribe him with whatever you need to!

 

[Betheney]

Hello Ladies

Please Check the first post as i have added more Banners!! and i know some of you will like them

LOVE LOVE LOVE

 

[lolley]

oh pants again!!!

i have got to wait until i get home, this stupid comp wont let me see the piccys just the writing

hope your doing ok, keep working on DH i am hoping you will have a lovely thermal shift tommorrow x

 

[lolley]

oh yes look at my new siggy

Thank you Betheney