Not Knowing Whether I'm Ovulating or Not is so Frustrating :'(

[cmarie33]

People haven't got bfps until a couple of weeks after af is due! You're not out yet! why are you stopping trying? Will you go NTNP?

I'm ok now. Been reading things and concluded that it was probably trapped wind after a curry last night! well that's the preferred diagnosis anyway! Lol! Back to work tomorrow so that'll keep me busy.

xxx

Did you manage to call the midwife today Cmarie? ow was school?

We are stopping TTC as DH lives away and I am going to hopefully apply for jobs where he is. Being a teacher we worked out that if we concieve this month or next I could leave on Maternity from my school at the beginning of September and then apply for jobs when I am living there and just not go back to my current school.
Trying to look for schools and do interviews is a nightmare with a full timetable. If we don't manage to concieve it will be Easter or September before I find a new post and then I would have to do a year in role before we could TTC again!!!! NIGHTMARE. I guess maybe we are putting a little too much pressure on - I just really want everything to work out.

Ameeann - isn't seperation a nightmare. We did it through uni too and then I lived abroad for a year!! At least we are closer now but it doesn't make it any easier. I enjoyed the holidays so much and now the house is all empty again.

ImSoTIred - Any news on the OPKs? It is so rubbish waiting. I just starting temping too and Ithink some of my early ones were a bit out. I also just stated the 20 lesson course on FF so I could learn more. They send it to your email daily and it is really interesting and has givem ne a much better insight into all the hormones and signs your body give you. Its in the Education section if you are interested.

Anyone else got any news?

Thanks again for being so supportive. x

Yeah I rang them but I need to register at my local drs, not my old one. Moved house 18months ago and like my drs so wanted to avoid changing as long as possible! Lol! Guess I'll do that tomorrow.
School was ok, training day so nothing special. Also discovered gaviscon- it's amazing! Really helping me and the cramping!
Aww that is poo, though I did think you only had to be in a school 6months before you could get maternity leave? I may have made that up!
xxx

 

[Sparkle12]

People haven't got bfps until a couple of weeks after af is due! You're not out yet! why are you stopping trying? Will you go NTNP?

I'm ok now. Been reading things and concluded that it was probably trapped wind after a curry last night! well that's the preferred diagnosis anyway! Lol! Back to work tomorrow so that'll keep me busy.

xxx

Did you manage to call the midwife today Cmarie? ow was school?

We are stopping TTC as DH lives away and I am going to hopefully apply for jobs where he is. Being a teacher we worked out that if we concieve this month or next I could leave on Maternity from my school at the beginning of September and then apply for jobs when I am living there and just not go back to my current school.
Trying to look for schools and do interviews is a nightmare with a full timetable. If we don't manage to concieve it will be Easter or September before I find a new post and then I would have to do a year in role before we could TTC again!!!! NIGHTMARE. I guess maybe we are putting a little too much pressure on - I just really want everything to work out.

Ameeann - isn't seperation a nightmare. We did it through uni too and then I lived abroad for a year!! At least we are closer now but it doesn't make it any easier. I enjoyed the holidays so much and now the house is all empty again.

ImSoTIred - Any news on the OPKs? It is so rubbish waiting. I just starting temping too and Ithink some of my early ones were a bit out. I also just stated the 20 lesson course on FF so I could learn more. They send it to your email daily and it is really interesting and has givem ne a much better insight into all the hormones and signs your body give you. Its in the Education section if you are interested.

Anyone else got any news?

Thanks again for being so supportive. x

Yeah I rang them but I need to register at my local drs, not my old one. Moved house 18months ago and like my drs so wanted to avoid changing as long as possible! Lol! Guess I'll do that tomorrow.
School was ok, training day so nothing special. Also discovered gaviscon- it's amazing! Really helping me and the cramping!
Aww that is poo, though I did think you only had to be in a school 6months before you could get maternity leave? I may have made that up!
xxx

I think it may be 6 months - it was more for me as would be moving to a total new area and making new contacts etc so thought it would be better to give myself a chance to settle in so I knew what I would be going bck to after mternity. Also I didn't think new school would like it very much if I just started and then got pg!!!

Glad you discovered Gaviscon. My SIL spent the whole 9 months munching Rennies!!!

 

[ImSoTired]

Sparkle my opk was neg this morning.I'll continnue the one a day until they get darker. And I'm gonna do my best to temp better.

I have an awful headache for some reason. Maybe sinus problems. I'm hoping and praying I ov within a week. I am also hoping this headache goes away! I have so much to do but my head is killing so I had to sit down. I was having some weird cramps the last few days, not today though. I heard some girls on here that had ov symptoms up to a week prior to actual ov so I'm hoping that's my case. Dh and I have been bd'ing every few days so I hope we continue right up to and after ov to catch the eggy. I'm so tired of waiting already! Boo!

 

[cmarie33]

Don't think my heads best pleased, both me and the other reception teacher will be off at the same time. There's only 10 weeks between us :-/ ah well...
Yes it's true they prob wouldn't be best pleased but if you'd worked there the minimum time then.... Though I understand you'd want to be settled xx

 

[Mrs. JSH]

Hey all my ladies! Happy new year to all of you!

I'm sorry I've been kind of mia lately. I've been preoccupied with some projects I've been working on, and catching up with some friends during my week off of work. It was nice to have a break from everything. I barely even used the computer.

I can't believe how awesome things are going with everyone! HUGE congrats to cmarie33 on the bfp! It's so exciting! And to imsotired for getting af. I'm sure ov will come so don't stress, you need to keep your positivity going you were doing so good! ameeann, I will be stalking your preggo journal soon, once I catch up on some things and free up some more of my time, but I'm happy to see from here that you are feeling good!

I have my fingers crossed for you mrs. martinez and sparkle!!

I don't have much new to report on my end. I had a wonderful Christmas and great new years. My hubby and I worked new years eve (we dj weddings as a side job and had one that night). It was fun though and we still got our kiss at midnight, even though we aren't usually affectionate when we work. But the couple was really great and they really enjoyed us giving up our new years eve to work for their wedding, so we decided what the hell. Spent new years day with some friends and their super cute kids, and then had monday off to relax together. Now it's back to the grind, but I'm trying to keep positive even though it's hard getting back to a job I hate and being super busy again. But I have big plans for this year and I know it's going to be a great one. Can't wait for us ALL to be bump buddies!! I know it will happen for us all this year! (Sparkle, hopefully it already happened for you so you don't have to wait another year).

Well, sorry I wrote a short book here, just wanted to catch up with everyone. Now I'm going to change my signature to reflect cmarie33's BFP and then read ameeann's preggo journal

 

[ImSoTired]

FF says I mayh have ov'd on the 10th due to my last temps but I completely disagree. That would mean a very short cycle which I have never ever had. That would also mean that I missed the egg probably. I think it is due to my messy temping because I really really doubt it. I'm still gonna keep my eye out for ov and keep trying to temp and use opks. This really sucks.

 

[ImSoTired]

have any of you, who chart, ever had ff detect a surge that wasn't ov but they said it was? I'm sooo nervous!

 

[ameeann]

No i havent sorry hun :/ you said something the other day that made me think you might have already... But maybe not :/ it doesnt mean youll have a short cycle you could have a long lp! Sorry hun, i hope ff is wrong! Maybe ask about it on the ttc forum a bit more?

 

[mrs. martinez]

It's 5dpo and have felt some heartburn last nights this morning but only last a very short time and goes away. Hope that is not iny head but I never get heartburn so idk how I make it up in my mind lol!

 

[Sparkle12]

ImSoTired - FF said I Ov on a different to the one I thought but I think it was because I hadn't temped properly. It is the first month so it is trying to gather information about you. Keep going and it'll sort itself out in the end.

AFM - My temps have dropped the last 2 days and I have cramps so I am sure I'm out. I think AF will turn u Fri/Sat.

Big huhs. xxx

 

[cmarie33]

sparkle xxx

 

[ameeann]

sorry sparkle don't give up til she shows her ugly face!!! xxx

 

[ImSoTired]

sry to hear you might be getting af sparkle but thanks, I don't think I ov'd either. I think it is due to the messed up temping and stuff. I'm just going to keep going and see what happens because I really think cd10 is too early. I don't think my luteal phase could possibly be that long either. I mean I am only cd15 today! Anyhow I hope af doesn't show. Maybe you'll get lucky?

I'll let ya know what happens

 

[ImSoTired]

Hope everyone here is doing well today!

 

[Mrs. JSH]

I'm doing well. How are you today imsotired? And how are our mama's?

 

[ImSoTired]

Im pretty good Mrs Jsh I'm getting ready to take an opk. I've been cleaning ALL day and I'm getting tired. My bathroom was a disaster! I think we may have mold on the ceiling! I almost had a panic attack! I'll have to figure out what to do about it. Anyhow. Back to my opk and the cleaning. Happy to hear you are doing well! I hope we get out soon!

 

[ameeann]

hey ladies, I'm okay thank you!!!

had what I think was ms during the night . . . woke up a few times wanting to puke and panicking!!! lol but feeling a bit better now hopefully it's not a permanent thing, don't think I cba with that every night!!!

are you ladies okay?

 

[cmarie33]

Oh dear I was just going to say 'what's ms?'

 

[ameeann]

hahahahaha aawwww . . . you getting baby brain too? I keep forgetting where I'm putting things . . . and not thinking before I speak

 

[cmarie33]

Mrs jsh I'm not bad. However oh got laid off today so is now jobless trying not to stress out though
Yep got baby brain already!