Not Knowing Whether I'm Ovulating or Not is so Frustrating :'(

[ImSoTired]

Finally got a decent temp rise, a very similar temp to my last cycles post o temps! So I'm assuming I ov'd thurs or yesterday. We bd'd tues and yest. Keep you fx for me girlies! How are your little bellies?

 

[ImSoTired]

Just keep bd'ing ImSoTired! Sparkle I'm sure it'll be fine
Afm... Oh got a letter through the post this morning saying he isn't entitled to job seekers! How does that bloody work?! So I'm currently stressing wondering how we'll
Pay the mortgage etc! xxx

I hope everything works out. Don't worry, I'll keep my fk and pray for you

 

[ameeann]

Finally got a decent temp rise, a very similar temp to my last cycles post o temps! So I'm assuming I ov'd thurs or yesterday. We bd'd tues and yest. Keep you fx for me girlies! How are your little bellies?

oooo sounds good! I'll keep everything crossed for you! hehe!!

well I can almost pass my bloat off as bump it's got that big! haha just a few more weeks and hopefully it will be bump!!

I'm also impatiently, still, counting down the days til my scan . . . 2 weeks and 5 days to go!!! xD haha

then we can officially tell the world!

OH keeps saying to me, we can tell people now, you've seen the heartbeat etc, but I still really want to wait til my "12 week" scan (11+4wks for me)
that way, we have something to show for it . . . I'm keep convincing myself I've had a MMC, even though my MS is horrible and I'm exhausted all the time silly amy! haha

hope everyone's doing okay!!!!

 

[cmarie33]

Defo silly Amy! Lol you and bean are just fine
ImSoTired my fingers are tightly crossed for you
I can't believe that, he isn't on the mortgage or anything though. It's a right farse honestly! I may as well give up my job, sell my house and
Claim whatever I can! Lol rant over now ladies xx

 

[ameeann]

nope, we don't have a mortgage either, we just claim together because we live together and there's no other way around it :/
even if you give up your job your not entitled to anything for 13 weeks! these past few months have been so difficult for us, since moving closer to my mum etc! now paul has a full time job, things are a bit easier! thankfully . . . but it's taken 8 months to get here it won't be like that forever though hun, chins up xxxx


and yes silly amy, as my MS is getting gradually worse bleurgh

 

[ImSoTired]

Hi girls! 4dpo here. No silly symptom spotting yet. Trying to relax. Testing on feb 4th first. Hoping for a send me some How are you girls doing? Any exciting news?

 

[cmarie33]

to you! I had my booking appt today. Have scared myself though, I poas before I went, an ic. It was defo positive but not as dark as the last one I took! So now trying not to panic! Note to self: stop poas! hope everyone is well xxx

 

[ImSoTired]

to you! I had my booking appt today. Have scared myself though, I poas before I went, an ic. It was defo positive but not as dark as the last one I took! So now trying not to panic! Note to self: stop poas! hope everyone is well xxx

Oh cmarie I'm sure your little blueberry is fine!

 

[Sparkle12]

to you! I had my booking appt today. Have scared myself though, I poas before I went, an ic. It was defo positive but not as dark as the last one I took! So now trying not to panic! Note to self: stop poas! hope everyone is well xxx

How did your appointment go? I'm 4dpo according to FF. Trying not to symptom spot! Everyday seems to be taking forever. Just wish I knew one way or another.

Hugs to you all

 

[Mrs. JSH]

Hi ladies!!

I am so so sorry that I have not been around much lately. I have been busy and working non stop at super speed. Even my job which had been very slow for a while is getting really busy again as my boss is leaving (yes!!) and being replaced with someone who actually wants to do good things for our organization and the people we help, which is awesome, but I'm starting to miss all the time I had during the day to work on other things I'm doing as volunteer work and for my hubby. The training program has me pretty busy too. It's a good thing and a bad thing but I had to make some time to come on here today and catch up with my ladies!

I just read up on everyone and it sounds like everyone is doing good! Sounds like sparkle and imsotired might be adding some bfp's to our group soon, fx for you both! I hope it works out!

The only update that I currently have is the spotting and pain that I was feeling the last time I was on here turned out to be af. I had pains and random spotting for two days and then af for about 3 or 4 days, and 2 more days of really light spotting after that. The bad news is that means I'm not preggo, but the good news is that the day I started actually bleeding was one month from the day I finished my kind-of period that I got from the provera pills, so hopefully they were just what I needed to get my body back on track again. If that's true than hopefully it will be easier to guess and plan when ovulation is. The weird thing is it was a really light period, not as light as the one after the pills, but pretty similar. Never really heavy and barely even needed a tampon. When I was taking bcp's it was heavier, but maybe that's because I only had it once every 3 months.. Who knows, I'm not stressing over it, I'm just happy it happened (in a way).

We've also decided to wait a few months on trying to get preggers. Part of me really doesn't want to wait, and I know he doesn't really, but our schedule gets really crazy from september to november with dj-ing weddings, and the other day when we were going over the schedule I started to get major anxiety about the whole thing. As much as I want a baby asap, it would be super stressful to be really pregnant around those months and/or to have a baby around then, and I don't want to do that. I know I can't time the baby perfectly, but I figure I should do what I can to not make it come at the worse possible time. I'm not going back on bcp's or anything, just preventing in other ways till then. If we do happen to get pregnant before April, we'll still be happy and figure out a back up plan from then, otherwise we are going to prevent till about April and hope that we get pregnant really soon after we stop preventing again. Oh well, not ideal, but I guess these things never are.

Sorry to write a novel here. This is what happens when I go mia for a while. I'm def going to make a point of giving myself time to come on here a little more often.

Glad everyone is doing well, especially the momma's of the group and their little ones! Can't wait to see some ultra sound and belly pics!

to sparkle and imsotired!!! Hoping for good news for you girls!!

 

[ImSoTired]

We've missed you Mrs JSH! You are awfully busy but thats a good thing! Try not to get so anxious about it. I know how difficult it is when you're busy not to stress, but I'm sure you'll get it all together soon. I think you made a good decision to scale back the ttc for a bit while you get everything in order. It will give you a chance to get your cycles back on track...glad to hear you got af! Perhaps now when you go back to ttc full force it will be quick! I'm in my tww and praying that I get a bfp but also trying not to get my hopes up. Hope to tty soon! Good luck!

 

[cmarie33]

Hey MrsJSH! Overall it sounds like good news for you I'm sure you'll get your bfp when the time is right! Yay for the new boss too!
Sparkle my symptoms were exactly the same as af symptoms, if not less than when af is due! Fingers are crossed for you! My appointment went well, mainly just paperwork and a blood test she thinks I'm due sept 11th! Don't like that date though for obvious reasons so I'm sticking to edd sept 10th! Lol!
ImSoTired- I'm sure it's fine too, I certainly feel crappy enough! Lol!
xx

 

[ImSoTired]

HI girls. 8dpo here and feeling a bit down and out. Hope you are all doing well.

 

[Sparkle12]

HELLO HELLO!!

Happy weekend, thank god that week is over. I swear I was going to loose it at one of the kids, they were driving me up the wall!!!

Anyway - how is everyone? Good to hear from you Mrs JSH. ImSoTIred I think I am 1DPO behind you!!! How are our bumps Ameean and Cmarie?

AFM - I am about 6DPO (or maybe 7) and not really sure. I have had loads of creamy cm the past few days, not sure if that is anything, and I feel really bloated, but I have put some weight on iver christmas so not sure if that is why my clothes are so much tighter, although seem ok at start of day and bloted by end.

Twinges here and there, or maybe I'm imagining them!!! LOL Its amazing how I can talk myself in and out of symptoms.

Next week is going to be a very LOOOOOOOOOOONG week.
Anyway 2 more people viewing the house tom. Fingers crossed.

Big huhs to all. xxxx

 

[ImSoTired]

Heya again Sparkle! I just replied on the other thread. I don't really have many symptoms and I am down about it. But I just hope that if it's not a bfp at least my cycles get shorter.Hope everybody is doing well.

 

[cmarie33]

ImSoTired you defo aren't out. I had virtually no symptoms so there's still hope!
Sparkle I caved and tested at 10dpo! Lol!
I'm good. Morning sickness isn't amazing though! Haha. Told my dad this week. He isn't thrilled. He's worried we can't afford it!
Hope you're all well xx

 

[Sparkle12]

HI ladies,

thought I would give you a quick update - got a today.

Hope everyone else is well. xxx

 

[Mrs. JSH]

No way Sparkle!! What are the odds that I happen to check this right after you posted that! Sooooo awesome!!!

How many dpo are you? That's great news! Congrats!

PS: We decided to keep "trying" just not obsessing over it. Neither of us could bring ourselves to use condoms (sorry tmi) to try to prevent at this point, so if it happens sooner than expected, GREAT! We'll be happy with it and figure everything out form there.


Soooo excited for you sparkle!! I have a feeling imsotired is next and I'm going to be the lone ranger of our ttc group lol, but it will be worth it to have another mom to be to get advice from

 

[Sparkle12]

No way Sparkle!! What are the odds that I happen to check this right after you posted that! Sooooo awesome!!!

How many dpo are you? That's great news! Congrats!

PS: We decided to keep "trying" just not obsessing over it. Neither of us could bring ourselves to use condoms (sorry tmi) to try to prevent at this point, so if it happens sooner than expected, GREAT! We'll be happy with it and figure everything out form there.


Soooo excited for you sparkle!! I have a feeling imsotired is next and I'm going to be the lone ranger of our ttc group lol, but it will be worth it to have another mom to be to get advice from

Thanks hon. I am still in shock. Wish DH was home as just sat here on my own. Keep going back in the bathroom to check it really was a positive on test.
I am glad you decided to not stop totally. Taking a relaxed approach might be what you guys need. I'm cheering you on.

Big hugs. xxx

 

[ImSoTired]

Yay again sparkle! hehe.
Happy you decided to keep trying MrsJSH!
Sparkle knows this cause I just talked to her on a diff thread. I am 12dpo today and Ijust began having symptoms. It's probably just af coming but this morning I swear there was a line on one of my ic hpts! I'm not really sure but hoping I get another, darker one tomorrow to reassure myself. Wish my luck girlies!