Not sure how i can cope with NYE

[butterflies]

Ok so i know its early to be thinking about it, but last NYE we went to the party we always go to, 3 of our friends we're expecting, they now have their babies and will still all be apart of something we are not on NYE and we will probably still face the same "teasing" that we did last year.
Heck my friend from work who became preg after we bagan TTC is planning on returning from Mat leave in Jan............this is all so painful.
Is there ever going to be light at the end of the tunnel?????

 

[rachelle1975]

Sorry hun - have you and your DH had any tests or anything?

There will be light at the end of the tunnel i promise - i reckon someone is saving us the BEST babies for last - that is what it is

 

[natthecat]

well said rosh!

 

[Schmelly]

That'll be a tough one. It's so hard seeing others around you having babies, even though we don't wish them any bad feelings. It just hurts, really bad.

Lots of

 

[HAYS]

aw chick it really is pants isnt it!!

your mates shouldnt be teasing tho,its no laughing matter and it normally comes from those who get pregnant by just blinking!!

hugs
xxx

 

[Farie]

Oh chick
Its so hard seeing friends with babies who stated trying at the same time of/after us and now have babies as Schmelly says, it just hurts so much.
Chin up .. remember that by NYE you might have got a BFP
If not may be you need to tell one of them about TTC and the emotional cost ... teasing isn't fair you may find that if one knows them the others might follow their lead of not saying anything?

 

[butterflies]

Sorry hun - have you and your DH had any tests or anything?

There will be light at the end of the tunnel i promise - i reckon someone is saving us the BEST babies for last - that is what it is

aww honey, thats such a lovely way of thinking about it
I've had loads of blood tests and scans and all seems well with me, though i do have a problem with irregular cycles and have had a hemmoragic cyst on my right ovary, that though has gone now.
DH is having his sperm analysis on the 13th - dreading that sooooo much

 

[butterflies]

That'll be a tough one. It's so hard seeing others around you having babies, even though we don't wish them any bad feelings. It just hurts, really bad.

Lots of

I think the world of all of them apart from 1 (details of which i'd prefer not to go into) and wish them no harm, it just hurts soooooo badly, last year was bad enough.......

 

[butterflies]

aw chick it really is pants isnt it!!

your mates shouldnt be teasing tho,its no laughing matter and it normally comes from those who get pregnant by just blinking!!

hugs
xxx

indeed, sucks doesn't it? 1 of the ones doing the teasing was friends that had tried for 3 years, the now daddy has a low sperm count and HE was tesing DH about being a "jaffa"............spineless git!!!!!!!!

 

[butterflies]

Oh chick
Its so hard seeing friends with babies who stated trying at the same time of/after us and now have babies as Schmelly says, it just hurts so much.
Chin up .. remember that by NYE you might have got a BFP
If not may be you need to tell one of them about TTC and the emotional cost ... teasing isn't fair you may find that if one knows them the others might follow their lead of not saying anything?

I bitterly regret telling anyone now, even those that struggled with ttc themselves, because even they keep on about it and tease!!!!!
Its such an emotional journey and i feel quite a private one too. I only feel comfortable talking with you girls on here, i feel everyone else thinks i am "silly" or "over dramatic"

I dearly hope i have my bfp by then, would be such an amazing way to start the new year! Infact i hope we all do because you are the most amazing group of women i have ever had the pleasure of knowing........

 

[HAYS]

aw chick it really is pants isnt it!!

your mates shouldnt be teasing tho,its no laughing matter and it normally comes from those who get pregnant by just blinking!!

hugs
xxx

indeed, sucks doesn't it? 1 of the ones doing the teasing was friends that had tried for 3 years, the now daddy has a low sperm count and HE was tesing DH about being a "jaffa"............spineless git!!!!!!!!

omg thats shocking what a prick!!!! xx

 

[butterflies]

aw chick it really is pants isnt it!!

your mates shouldnt be teasing tho,its no laughing matter and it normally comes from those who get pregnant by just blinking!!

hugs
xxx

indeed, sucks doesn't it? 1 of the ones doing the teasing was friends that had tried for 3 years, the now daddy has a low sperm count and HE was tesing DH about being a "jaffa"............spineless git!!!!!!!!

omg thats shocking what a prick!!!! xx

It really hurt DH i just wanted to pick him up and cuddle him. Poor sod. I am dreading this thursday, he has his sperm test and i am petrified that there may be a problem there, it will shatter him completely and to be honest i'm not sure how i can deal with it if there is...........

 

[HAYS]

I have everything crossed for you chick, i remember when dh had his sperm test,it was a very tense time, but you are both there for eachother
xxxx

 

[butterflies]

I have everything crossed for you chick, i remember when dh had his sperm test,it was a very tense time, but you are both there for eachother
xxxx

I am sooooooooo much more worried this time than i have been for any of my bloods or scans!!!! I'm desperately hoping all is perfect - but if it is..............then what the hell is wrong with us??? This is all so painful

 

[Autumn.Faerie]

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[miel]

i had a drawer full of baby clothes that i bought last Chritmas when we start ttc Nov 2007 thinking i will be pregnant in no time at the time...

i love Christmas and holidays time ...(we told everyone we were ttc too last year ) now it feel weird and kind of akward to know we still don;t have a bump in 2008!!! i am dreading the first holiday party we are going to go ...with all the questions that will come with it

i completely understand you darling ....