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So as the title says.... Im unsure whether my OH knows if im off BC?
Im not a crazy lady who is trying to trap him, by this i mean i have actually told him i was going to stop using my contraceptive patch and we talked about why and it was due to giving my body a break as periods were all messed up.
He knows this.
But since coming off it we have had very regular unprotected sex and he has told me he wants children and if it was to happen now we'd make the best of it.
But he hasnt mentioned the fact that im not wearing my patch, he never mentions anything about the fact that i could very easily get pregnant?
We are both very busy with work and stuff as of late, but surely if he was bothered about preventing he would be more vigilant right?
I dont wanna make it a big deal about it, as clearly hes either forgotten or just thinks it wont happen but if it does, i dont want to be faced with a situation where im very aware it would happen and he isnt?
And most of all id hate to start using condoms as we never have it would be a big change and obviously prevent pregnancy.
I need some advice ladies as iv been of BC now for nearly 2 months and falling pregnant is a very likely reality!!
Anyone else experiencing similar situations with there OH?
Do i say something?
Gahhhhh!
Thankyou in advance girls x
Im not a crazy lady who is trying to trap him, by this i mean i have actually told him i was going to stop using my contraceptive patch and we talked about why and it was due to giving my body a break as periods were all messed up.
He knows this.
But since coming off it we have had very regular unprotected sex and he has told me he wants children and if it was to happen now we'd make the best of it.
But he hasnt mentioned the fact that im not wearing my patch, he never mentions anything about the fact that i could very easily get pregnant?
We are both very busy with work and stuff as of late, but surely if he was bothered about preventing he would be more vigilant right?
I dont wanna make it a big deal about it, as clearly hes either forgotten or just thinks it wont happen but if it does, i dont want to be faced with a situation where im very aware it would happen and he isnt?
And most of all id hate to start using condoms as we never have it would be a big change and obviously prevent pregnancy.
I need some advice ladies as iv been of BC now for nearly 2 months and falling pregnant is a very likely reality!!
Anyone else experiencing similar situations with there OH?
Do i say something?
Gahhhhh!
Thankyou in advance girls x