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Well ladies unfortunately I'm going to have to leave the group. I saw the NP today and she tried to find the HB with a doppler but said its too early, so they would do a scan. She checked me and told me that everything looked okay.

I had the scan and unfortunately baby stopped growing at 7 weeks. I wish you all a happy and healthy 9 months =)
 
Thank you so much ladies. It's been a hard day, and I'm not looking forward to the D&C. But I'm trying to stay positive and remember that at least I can get pregnant. (I have PCOS as well).

I'm determined to find out why my body won't keep the baby. I'm wondering if possibly it could be the labetlol I'm on for my high blood pressure.

I was prescribed it in my first pregnancy at 18 weeks, and our baby girl stopped growing just after 20 weeks. I had a stillbirth at 24 weeks.

And I was prescribed a higher dose this time at 6 weeks, and our baby stopped growing at like 7/7.5 weeks.

I just wanna fix it and have our rainbow baby. I'm ready.
 
Nickie my heart is breaking for you. You've been through enough to get your rainbow. I hope that you can figure out if the medication is working against you in pregnancy. :hug:
 
Thank you Embo, I hope they can figure it out.

I feel horrible now too because my friend who found out about 2 weeks after me that was pregnant just messaged me all excited about her pregnancy. And how she got to see baby. I told her I was happy and what happened, but a part of me feels like I don't wanna see her for a while and I hate that.

I am truly happy for them and of course all of you ladies. :)
 
nickielg said:
Thank you Embo, I hope they can figure it out.

I feel horrible now too because my friend who found out about 2 weeks after me that was pregnant just messaged me all excited about her pregnancy. And how she got to see baby. I told her I was happy and what happened, but a part of me feels like I don't wanna see her for a while and I hate that.

I am truly happy for them and of course all of you ladies. :)
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This makes me so sad. My friend lost her baby on Sunday. I didn't know and text her about how great my scan was. I guarantee her heart is hurting for you too :hugs: We are all thinking of you. You deserve a rainbow xxx
 
I lost my best friend in very similar circumstances. I'd had a miscarriage and she got pregnant. I couldn't stand to see her cos it made me so upset and angry all the time. When she announced on Facebook and didn't give me a warning I just cut off all contact.
I regret my behaviour so much now cos I don't even know her little boy and we aren't mega close like we used to be but I had to protect myself at the time. I was very very poorly while I was going through my losses. Mentally I mean.
We have recently got back in touch and we're good friends again so I'm very grateful for that :thumbup:
 
nickielg - I am so so sorry. Will you ask about a different medication? Were you taking anything else? My thoughts are with you. Huge hugs. I had to cut certain friends out of my life as I discovered that I was very angry jealous and I didn't like that about myself. I thought it best if I removed myself. Hopefully they will understand.
 
Girlinyork-sorry to hear about your friend :(

Embo-I'm sorry to hear about you and your friend. I really am happy for my friend but it's just hard.
 
Oh Nickie, I am so sorry. Nobody should have to face losses like this. I so hope your doctor can find the reason and that your rainbow is on the way.
(Hugs)
 
Sweetv-Thank you. And I was taking baby aspirin and my Prenatals but thats about it. I definitely would like to try a new med even just to be at peace if it's not that next time.

I actually just broke down a bit ago about my friends. She sent me a pic of her bean, so cute, and they put their announcement up. I know hubs was trying to help but he was upset I was mad about them getting to have a baby in November and not us too, idk why it's bothering me so much. I know it'll go away, and I rarely have selfish moments but I couldn't help it.

Thank you love4you and tryin4bbyboy, I really hope they can find out why!
 
nickielg - I know why it's upsetting! Please don't be hard on yourself, you deserve to be selfish if only to protect yourself. It's a roller coaster of emotion to have to go through a loss and to try and be happy for somebody that has what you so desperately longed for just adds fuel to the fire. It can be heartbreaking. I hope your rainbow shows soon.
 
Nickielg so so sorry Hun I deleted a lot of people from Facebook when I had my miscarriage as they where all pregnant and where posting pictures of babies and how they where doing. Much worse three of my neighbours where pregnant at the same time I stopped talking to them and would not even knock on the door if they took deliveries in for me. Please don't be to hard on yourself and be as selfish as you like Hun our love and hugs are with you and your partner xxxxxx
 
Thanks ladies, I'm trying not to be hard on my self. I know it'll take time and eventually I'll get there. I don't think it would have been so bad if our due dates aren't 10 days apart. I have a couple other preggo friends but they are due very soon.

My d&c has been scheduled for tomorrow, I have to call in a few mins for the time.
 
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