Hey Ladies
Hope that everyone is doing well.
Celtic I totally understand your gender stuff... I think it's totally normal to wish/hope for a particular gender, it by no means means that you won't love the baby when they arrive. I always say that everyone has a desire, most just won't say it. After having 2 boys I was really hoping for a girl, I had totally convinced myself that it was a 3rd boy... which would have been totally amazing!! then we found out it was a girl.. I am very happy, but actually feel a bit guilty now for having wanted a girl.. lol I think no matter what there are some gender feelings...
I too have people say things like "you must be sooo excited" or "thank goodness not another boy"... I get a bit irritated... after all that we've been through it truly didn't matter, but I think it's okay to wish/hope for one gender.
Okay my rant is over
Hope that you have fun celebrating your 40th! I'm 39 so that's my next bday!
AFM still not feeling much.. sigh.. thank goodness for the doppler
but she has definitely had a growth spurt, since my stomach seems like it got much bigger over night! Weird!! I've been having a tonne of headaches.. sucks really.. but seems like since yesterday that my stomach isn't nauseous at all and the head has been better... so hoping that I'm done with feeling crappy!!!
Chat soon!!
Kim
Hope that everyone is doing well.
Celtic I totally understand your gender stuff... I think it's totally normal to wish/hope for a particular gender, it by no means means that you won't love the baby when they arrive. I always say that everyone has a desire, most just won't say it. After having 2 boys I was really hoping for a girl, I had totally convinced myself that it was a 3rd boy... which would have been totally amazing!! then we found out it was a girl.. I am very happy, but actually feel a bit guilty now for having wanted a girl.. lol I think no matter what there are some gender feelings...
I too have people say things like "you must be sooo excited" or "thank goodness not another boy"... I get a bit irritated... after all that we've been through it truly didn't matter, but I think it's okay to wish/hope for one gender.
Okay my rant is over
![Smile :) :)](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
AFM still not feeling much.. sigh.. thank goodness for the doppler
![Smile :) :)](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
Chat soon!!
Kim