I want bubs to come early but who knows!! We have decided on our names and they have both stuck for boy and girl options for 2 months now, so hopefully neither of us will have a change of heart.
I think Benjamin and James are both lovely classic names, can you not use both??
Anthony, I know a few Anthony's (not too many though!) and to be honest most young Anthony's don't get called Tony in my experience, mainly Anthony or Ant, the only Tony's i know are older, as in friends fathers. But it is risky as you never know what name people will use.