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Oh okay thats what I thought just was not sure! I know most people only get scans on the 12week and around the 20th week so something has to be important about those two weeks ;)

my next appointment is next friday, will be exciting to see baby look more like a baby :)
 
Yep 12 and 20, not sure why those and only those! When do u have scans? Where do you live? x
 
i have a scan on the 15th june, hurry up time so i can see my bubba!!! :)

aaannndd i only just now realised I'm in second tri, woooo!!!!
 
Woohoo to second trimester!!!!!!!! Is that your first scan? When do you have your scans in Oz? x
 
I've been signed off from work for 2 weeks :( I'm kind of glad but I feel rubbish that it's happened, I'm the kind of person who likes to work through "illness"
 
Ah ilikecake, the dreaded modified bedrest...I'm assuming. I'm going in in the morning for a quick welfare check on the gummy bears since I watched an exciting movie, and had minor spotting just after. Good grief. I'm hoping to work through as much as possible too!!
 
So we went to the hosp first thing this morn, and we've decided to do CVS. We have discussed long and hard and we think we know what we will do according to whether it's positive or negative. My fear now is not so much that the result will be positive for Down's but that I will miscarry a perfectly healthy baby all because of our selfishness in needing to know. Still, as others have said, the chances of miscarriage are about 1%, so that means I have a 99% chance of not miscarrying. I am waiting to hear back from the hosp this afternoon, but the specialist midwife said that we should expect to have the CVS done one day this week. The consultant tends to do these procedures at 9am, so we will have to be at the hosp at 8.30am. That will be fun, getting me, OH and toddler to an 8.30am appt at a hosp that's 45 mins drive away ;-)
 
Yep 12 and 20, not sure why those and only those! When do u have scans? Where do you live? x

Well I am American, but I live in Germany :winkwink: so with my son I received all my care here in Germany and gave birth to him here, I will have most of my care till about 20-23 weeks then I will be moving back to America and having rest of care and baby there. So I know normally in America you only get a scan at 12 and 20 weeks unless you are high risk. Here I get a scan every three weeks till about 30 weeks then every two weeks, then from 37 weeks on you go once a week. I will be sad not to get the care I get here anymore :nope:
 
So we went to the hosp first thing this morn, and we've decided to do CVS. We have discussed long and hard and we think we know what we will do according to whether it's positive or negative. My fear now is not so much that the result will be positive for Down's but that I will miscarry a perfectly healthy baby all because of our selfishness in needing to know. Still, as others have said, the chances of miscarriage are about 1%, so that means I have a 99% chance of not miscarrying. I am waiting to hear back from the hosp this afternoon, but the specialist midwife said that we should expect to have the CVS done one day this week. The consultant tends to do these procedures at 9am, so we will have to be at the hosp at 8.30am. That will be fun, getting me, OH and toddler to an 8.30am appt at a hosp that's 45 mins drive away ;-)

Good luck hun! :hugs: I do not blame you for wanting to know. I hope all goes well at your appointment!
 
Colsy your family is in my thoughts. I know everything will be fine. :)
 
Anyone else really anxious to find out what they are having :) I hope we find out soon. Ill be 16 weeks early June and thats when I found out with my son so fingers crossed we find out then. I really want a girl, Im not sure about having any more children and for sure not for a long time so it would be nice to go out with a girl and a boy! I would feel bad for my son though that he would not have a play mate. Also if we have a boy he gets all the hand me downs and I have nothing to buy :( I need a baby shopping spree :)

I am SO anxious to find out the sex!!! My almost 10yo is itching to know more than any of us! I know this is our last chance at any more kids, so I'm so hoping it's a girl but feel like I don't have enough luck in me for that, so I'm planning on a boy. I almost don't want to find out because if it is a boy, I'll have to cry it out for a while before I move on and be thrilled. :haha:

I have an u/s tomorrow and I'm hoping she can give a good guess, but whatever she says, I won't believe her 100%. I'll be back in 3 weeks for my 16 week gender u/s and hopefully we'll be able to tell for sure then!!
 
Good luck Colsy vi would have made the same choice as you. I hope the procedure goes okay and that it comes back with positive results. Let us know how you get on :hugs:
 
Colsy - best of luck. Please keep us updated.

AFM - I am dying to know the gender! In Houston, where I'm originally from, they offer something called a Jack & Jill gender test. It's a blood test that can be done at 11 weeks to tell you the gender of your baby. My sister-in-law had it done with both of her pregnancies and it was correct. I've also had friends opt for the test and they were all correct as well... I so wish they offered that testing here! We have to wait until 20 weeks for our gender scan - seems like FOREVER!
 
I'm the opposite. I have my 20 weeks scan on June 20 and I will be very clear that we do not want to know gender. :haha:

Where I am from we only get 1 scan at 20 weeks unless you pay to get a private one.
 
I'm lucky in that my doctor would let me get an u/s any time I want - I've got her wrapped around my little finger. :haha: I do try to let her call the shots, however. At her office, though, they offer a "sneak peek" gender scan at 16 weeks, so I'm definitely taking advantage of that!

I'd love to do that blood test! I've not heard of it til now - bummer!
 
Good luck, Colsy... thinking of you.

Did I tell you all that they already saw boy parts at my 11w6d NT scan? So, I'm pretty sure it will be a boy here.

Also, we announced on facebook this last weekend with this picture... what a relief!

https://i1175.photobucket.com/albums/r622/danacasting/danalancepregnant.jpg
 
CAValleygirl - love the pic!!

Hopefully they're right with your gender guess, but I think it may be a little early to know for sure. I found a great website that shows exactly what's what and at 11 weeks boy and girl are pretty much exactly the same.

https://www.baby2see.com/gender/external_genitals.html
 
CAValleygirl I LOVE that! I don't have WTE, but have lots of other books and DH has that same one you do! That's a very cute idea...haven't decided if we are going to announce on FB but if we are...that is a top contender for ideas! :thumbup:
 

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