November testers!!!!!!

[1nceUponATime]

13dpo.... My beta is scheduled for tomorrow morning. One more day.

 

[BAmomma]

So I got a BFN this morning and I should be around 15dpo. At was supposed to start yesterday though so keeping my fx!

 

[MeggyBaby]

I am 17dpo and no AF and tests say negative how long after a cp did you get a normal AF again

 

[Angel5000]

the cycle after my CP I had a late O (about a week late) and then AF came right on schedule post-O (at 12DPO - short LP). But my CP was early, I was only a day late before AF came so that could be why mine returned to normal so quickly.

 

[MiaMama]

I am 17dpo and no AF and tests say negative how long after a cp did you get a normal AF again

MeggyBaby, the next cycle after my CP was already back to normal.

 

[MiaMama]

the cycle after my CP I had a late O (about a week late) and then AF came right on schedule post-O (at 12DPO - short LP). But my CP was early, I was only a day late before AF came so that could be why mine returned to normal so quickly.

Yes I had late ovulation too, and short LP too.
And for CP I was one week late.
I hope this help!!! Good luck

 

[MeggyBaby]

Ok sounds good just playing the waiting game either a BFP will happen or AF will happen still high temps... Who knows

 

[makeupgirl]

Gosh it's so hard to keep up with ya'll! Haha

Fairycat - sorry to hear about AF trying to show her face. Fingers crossed for you!!

MeggyBaby - Sounds promising!! Sending you lots of positive baby dust. Time to get some BFP's!

I think I'm out.. At this point, I could be anywhere between 9-11DPO. (Should be about 10) but AF is due in 4 days and all of those "faint lines" I thought I saw were nothing but indents. Took 2 IC's, 1 FRER, & 1 Asda cheapie and they were all BFN. I honestly do not know how you girls have done this for months and years. I've been reduced to a pile of tears on my bathroom floor cursing the world. I just want to be a momma. Why is it so hard?!?!?!

Aww I'm sorry makeup girl... You really aren't out till the witch shows though.... I think that's one of the horrible things about testing early it's so stressful, which is why I didn't this cycle.... But trust me, after 15 months, anytime I get a BFN I am still a puddle of tears.... And I wonder the same thing, why is it so hard.... But we gotta keep hanging on and keep trying because we ARE going to be mommas! That's just the way I guess I try to cope with it.... Tell myself all the stress all the hurt will be worth it for my baby when the universe allows me to have him/her. Hang in there !

Thank you for this Sometimes I think you just need some encouragement when you're feeling down! You're right - we will be! And yes, every tear, stress, dollar spent on pregnancy tests WILL be worth it when we hold our little bundles of joy.

 

[1nceUponATime]

Gosh it's so hard to keep up with ya'll! Haha

Fairycat - sorry to hear about AF trying to show her face. Fingers crossed for you!!

MeggyBaby - Sounds promising!! Sending you lots of positive baby dust. Time to get some BFP's!

I think I'm out.. At this point, I could be anywhere between 9-11DPO. (Should be about 10) but AF is due in 4 days and all of those "faint lines" I thought I saw were nothing but indents. Took 2 IC's, 1 FRER, & 1 Asda cheapie and they were all BFN. I honestly do not know how you girls have done this for months and years. I've been reduced to a pile of tears on my bathroom floor cursing the world. I just want to be a momma. Why is it so hard?!?!?!

Aww I'm sorry makeup girl... You really aren't out till the witch shows though.... I think that's one of the horrible things about testing early it's so stressful, which is why I didn't this cycle.... But trust me, after 15 months, anytime I get a BFN I am still a puddle of tears.... And I wonder the same thing, why is it so hard.... But we gotta keep hanging on and keep trying because we ARE going to be mommas! That's just the way I guess I try to cope with it.... Tell myself all the stress all the hurt will be worth it for my baby when the universe allows me to have him/her. Hang in there !

Thank you for this Sometimes I think you just need some encouragement when you're feeling down! You're right - we will be! And yes, every tear, stress, dollar spent on pregnancy tests WILL be worth it when we hold our little bundles of joy.

It's so true. I find it helps being on here and talking to people more than it is in real life...I don't know anyone in my real life who has gone through this. In fact, I am so surprised how many people don't even know how making a baby works in the technical aspects lol!

 

[Smille24]

Gosh it's so hard to keep up with ya'll! Haha

Fairycat - sorry to hear about AF trying to show her face. Fingers crossed for you!!

MeggyBaby - Sounds promising!! Sending you lots of positive baby dust. Time to get some BFP's!

I think I'm out.. At this point, I could be anywhere between 9-11DPO. (Should be about 10) but AF is due in 4 days and all of those "faint lines" I thought I saw were nothing but indents. Took 2 IC's, 1 FRER, & 1 Asda cheapie and they were all BFN. I honestly do not know how you girls have done this for months and years. I've been reduced to a pile of tears on my bathroom floor cursing the world. I just want to be a momma. Why is it so hard?!?!?!

Aww I'm sorry makeup girl... You really aren't out till the witch shows though.... I think that's one of the horrible things about testing early it's so stressful, which is why I didn't this cycle.... But trust me, after 15 months, anytime I get a BFN I am still a puddle of tears.... And I wonder the same thing, why is it so hard.... But we gotta keep hanging on and keep trying because we ARE going to be mommas! That's just the way I guess I try to cope with it.... Tell myself all the stress all the hurt will be worth it for my baby when the universe allows me to have him/her. Hang in there !

Thank you for this Sometimes I think you just need some encouragement when you're feeling down! You're right - we will be! And yes, every tear, stress, dollar spent on pregnancy tests WILL be worth it when we hold our little bundles of joy.

It's so true. I find it helps being on here and talking to people more than it is in real life...I don't know anyone in my real life who has gone through this. In fact, I am so surprised how many people don't even know how making a baby works in the technical aspects lol!

I couldn't agree more. B4 ttc, I'll admit I was clueless. I thought the odds were high but boy was I wrong. After struggling for so long I really thought we were alone, but we're not. It's more common than we think. I stopped talking to the few people I know about ttc. One of my friends knows that we are consulting with an RE and has avoided me ever since I broke the news. Its not something I will bring up in every concersation, but I told her because she asked and left it at that. I felt like a freak bc my good friend made me feel like I have a sickness or something. They lack knowledge and always end up saying things that hurt rather than make me feel better. Every pregnancy announcement crushes me, every bfn depresses me, and at this point every time I see an infant my eyes swell up with tears. The ladies on bnb have been an amazing support system and we're here for each other because we know the struggle.

 

[ABmommy]

Hope you ladies don't mind me jumping in! Baby dust to all...
TTC first cycle. AF due 11/20. However just came off bcp last month so not sure how my cycle will be. FX my body regulates itself quick.

 

[1nceUponATime]

Gosh it's so hard to keep up with ya'll! Haha

Fairycat - sorry to hear about AF trying to show her face. Fingers crossed for you!!

MeggyBaby - Sounds promising!! Sending you lots of positive baby dust. Time to get some BFP's!

I think I'm out.. At this point, I could be anywhere between 9-11DPO. (Should be about 10) but AF is due in 4 days and all of those "faint lines" I thought I saw were nothing but indents. Took 2 IC's, 1 FRER, & 1 Asda cheapie and they were all BFN. I honestly do not know how you girls have done this for months and years. I've been reduced to a pile of tears on my bathroom floor cursing the world. I just want to be a momma. Why is it so hard?!?!?!

Aww I'm sorry makeup girl... You really aren't out till the witch shows though.... I think that's one of the horrible things about testing early it's so stressful, which is why I didn't this cycle.... But trust me, after 15 months, anytime I get a BFN I am still a puddle of tears.... And I wonder the same thing, why is it so hard.... But we gotta keep hanging on and keep trying because we ARE going to be mommas! That's just the way I guess I try to cope with it.... Tell myself all the stress all the hurt will be worth it for my baby when the universe allows me to have him/her. Hang in there !

Thank you for this Sometimes I think you just need some encouragement when you're feeling down! You're right - we will be! And yes, every tear, stress, dollar spent on pregnancy tests WILL be worth it when we hold our little bundles of joy.

It's so true. I find it helps being on here and talking to people more than it is in real life...I don't know anyone in my real life who has gone through this. In fact, I am so surprised how many people don't even know how making a baby works in the technical aspects lol!

I couldn't agree more. B4 ttc, I'll admit I was clueless. I thought the odds were high but boy was I wrong. After struggling for so long I really thought we were alone, but we're not. It's more common than we think. I stopped talking to the few people I know about ttc. One of my friends knows that we are consulting with an RE and has avoided me ever since I broke the news. Its not something I will bring up in every concersation, but I told her because she asked and left it at that. I felt like a freak bc my good friend made me feel like I have a sickness or something. They lack knowledge and always end up saying things that hurt rather than make me feel better. Every pregnancy announcement crushes me, every bfn depresses me, and at this point every time I see an infant my eyes swell up with tears. The ladies on bnb have been an amazing support system and we're here for each other because we know the struggle.

We all do know the struggle. We all are here for the same exact reason. I have a few good friends who do listen to me all the time, but I know they basically have no clue what I'm talking about... But bless them, they listen. But I like how everyone on here know exaccctly what I am saying!

 

[1nceUponATime]

Hope you ladies don't mind me jumping in! Baby dust to all...
TTC first cycle. AF due 11/20. However just came off bcp last month so not sure how my cycle will be. FX my body regulates itself quick.

Good luck ABmommy!

 

[ABmommy]

thanks 1nce! Trying to learn everyone's story here!

 

[Angel5000]

I know what you mean when you guys talk about the difficulty about talking with people outside here about TTC. It's like there's a stigma that something must be wrong if we aren't getting pregnant right away. Everyone assumes there's something wrong with us if we aren't getting pregnant right away. And I'm so tired of hearing "well if you just stop trying then you will get pregnant".


Welcome ABMommy!

 

[1nceUponATime]

I know what you mean when you guys talk about the difficulty about talking with people outside here about TTC. It's like there's a stigma that something must be wrong if we aren't getting pregnant right away. Everyone assumes there's something wrong with us if we aren't getting pregnant right away. And I'm so tired of hearing "well if you just stop trying then you will get pregnant".


Welcome ABMommy!

I haaaaaaaaaaaaate when people tell me that!! Relaxing will not fix my ovaries !!

 

[Angel5000]

I know what you mean when you guys talk about the difficulty about talking with people outside here about TTC. It's like there's a stigma that something must be wrong if we aren't getting pregnant right away. Everyone assumes there's something wrong with us if we aren't getting pregnant right away. And I'm so tired of hearing "well if you just stop trying then you will get pregnant".


Welcome ABMommy!

I haaaaaaaaaaaaate when people tell me that!! Relaxing will not fix my ovaries !!

Exactly!!!!

Plus, Dh and I don't have sex all that often (mostly weekends only if not TTC). I've done the math, so far most months I've O'd mid-week. If we were only having sex when the mood strikes then chances are very very very slim we'd conceive.

 

[Trr]

I was this person too before trying to conceive. My SIL had two losses and I was wondering what was wrong with her. I was so ignorant. Now I know the struggles and the potential for losses is real and common. I wish it was talked about more publicly to be honest.

 

[ABmommy]

Thanks Angel!

I have decided I'm not going to tell anyone that DH and I are TTC - I just would prefer to keep things quiet (aside from here), but the people I see in my day to day life don't need to pester me... that would only add more stress I think.

 

[ABmommy]

Is anyone testing soon? I'm anxious to see some BFP's on here! FX and baby dust to all!