Mosnippy
Up the duff with #1 :)
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To say I am mad is a understatement and i am that mad makes it worse.
2009 I had to file for bankruptcy due to my ex husband and our divorce. I stupidly co signed asecured loan to consolidate his debt etc - the house was not in my name.. anyway.. we had joint accounts etc etc... our marriage broke down, he wasnt working, everything fell to me to pay and i just couldnt do it..so i had no choice ...I been paying a income payment order since which was 288 a month which was fine..
but since now becoming pregnant I advise them and asked what happens now as I need baby stuff and need to start saving for when I am on maternity leave. I am the breadwinner and my salary covers the bills. Rent etc.
I had to redo my expenses and income etc. I redid that , and they came back saying
we are please to tell your your payments can drop to 205 a month..I was like how does £83 quid help me when my rent is £575 alone! I worte to them saying I have to save at least £480 from now to cover when my salary drops, can I only pay £100 amonth if you not willing to drop the payments all together.
My IPO finishes March 2013.
I got a letter today to say no, paymetns will stay at 205 per month, but they can closer to the time give me a payment break if I need to buy baby items!
Can they do that? I mean, really maternity allowance is £128 a week how they expect me to pay the 205 and my rent and everything with that??
anyone had any experiance with this? or any advice?
just a sideline. My OH, salary is less then half of mine, so his contribution is very minamal to the house expenses etc, he has kids with his ex wife, which he pays to etc. and also trying to clear his debt from his marriage as well.
sorry so long..i am just fed up with this nonsense!
2009 I had to file for bankruptcy due to my ex husband and our divorce. I stupidly co signed asecured loan to consolidate his debt etc - the house was not in my name.. anyway.. we had joint accounts etc etc... our marriage broke down, he wasnt working, everything fell to me to pay and i just couldnt do it..so i had no choice ...I been paying a income payment order since which was 288 a month which was fine..
but since now becoming pregnant I advise them and asked what happens now as I need baby stuff and need to start saving for when I am on maternity leave. I am the breadwinner and my salary covers the bills. Rent etc.
I had to redo my expenses and income etc. I redid that , and they came back saying
we are please to tell your your payments can drop to 205 a month..I was like how does £83 quid help me when my rent is £575 alone! I worte to them saying I have to save at least £480 from now to cover when my salary drops, can I only pay £100 amonth if you not willing to drop the payments all together.
My IPO finishes March 2013.
I got a letter today to say no, paymetns will stay at 205 per month, but they can closer to the time give me a payment break if I need to buy baby items!
Can they do that? I mean, really maternity allowance is £128 a week how they expect me to pay the 205 and my rent and everything with that??
anyone had any experiance with this? or any advice?
just a sideline. My OH, salary is less then half of mine, so his contribution is very minamal to the house expenses etc, he has kids with his ex wife, which he pays to etc. and also trying to clear his debt from his marriage as well.
sorry so long..i am just fed up with this nonsense!