Obsessed with getting pregnant

[Babyfever1184]

Okay so I decided to join this site to kind of have someone to talk to as I have become obsessed with TTC #1 and it's only been a month!
My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years in 24 and he's 25. This month we decided we would stop using protection to see what happens and now I have totally become obsessed and I want it to happen so bad!!
I find myself researching online and all I think about is baby stuff lol my boyfriend sure is a trooper as he puts up with all my baby talk and the million texts I send him a day about it LOL
I just hope I am not the only crazy, obsessed girl here!

 

[Essjay86]

You are not alone...two years down the line and i'm still the same.

 

[Hollys_Twinny]

Welcome to the mad house

 

[Catiren]

haha thats how i was last summer with my boyfriend who just became my husband last wednesday. he whispered in my ear one night that ever since he met me he wish we didnt use a condom the first time we were intimate together because he wanted me to become pregnant with his baby. he was my first too.. the fact that he was the hot bad boy i worked with and suddenly wanted to sette down with a quiet girl like me was kinda hard to believe ;3 but we were in love so much. well we stopped using condoms almost a year later and we actually tried for a baby for 2 months. i got pretty stressed out about it as well as bummed when my period came so we stopped trying then BOOM surprise i got pregnant 3rd month. now we have a 4 month old daughter and he wants more babies soon. phew. motherhood is the hardest job in the world and i kinda wish i waited til i got a bit older as me and him are both young but we are happy and thankful

 

[rustyswife828]

Yup! I'm obsessed too and this is the best site to talk to ladies when your bf or husband gets tired of hearing about it Good luck to you!

 

[Babyfever1184]

I'm so glad I'm not alone lol I feel so stressed and I know I will be so disappointed if it doesn't happen this month lol this wasn't supposed to be "let's try for a baby" more like "let's just see what happens" but I have turned it in to let's have a baby and I've been so determined. My boyfriend has been great about hearing me talk about it 24/7 but I'm sure soon I'll stress him out too lol oops

 

[Babyfever1184]

Also, boyfriend told his mom today that we are trying to have a baby and I don't know... I just fee weird about it now. Especially because I haven't told anyone. Not even my mom 😩

 

[rustyswife828]

Aww. Don't let her change your mind! This is about what YOU want.. Don't worry about what anybody else thinks. So now it's only fair now that your mom knows since his mom knows. It will end up in hurt feelings if not. Glad my DH hasn't said anything to anybody yet. I told my mom but he doesn't know that.. Hehe

 

[CathiiNoo]

I know the feeling! I'm constantly finding myself on e bay buying ovulation and pregnancy tests. Just all things baby make me excited lol. I have a huge stash of tests. OH doesn't get it haha

 

[squirrel.]

I think all of use here are a bit obsessed we wouldn't be here otherwise! Welcome and I hope your stay is a short one!

We're TTC our third and final baby and it's taking a lot longer this time than last time. We've been trying 6 months, though I'm only in my 4th cycle. Since having my daughter and breastfeeding till 13 months my cycles have been hell since they returned at 8 months. I had a chemical pregnancy last cycle, so that's made me even more determined! To the point where we are bding possibly even too much this cycle! I too am just obsessed with it now. Wish I wasn't!

 

[Babyfever1184]

Aww. Don't let her change your mind! This is about what YOU want.. Don't worry about what anybody else thinks. So now it's only fair now that your mom knows since his mom knows. It will end up in hurt feelings if not. Glad my DH hasn't said anything to anybody yet. I told my mom but he doesn't know that.. Hehe

I don't think anything can make me change my mind haha. She was actually excited he said. She did ask "what about marriage?" Lol waiting for that too...

 

[Vicky_92]

Nope your deffo not the only one! I'm like that too. But the one bit of advice I would give you is... it may happen soon but it might not. I thought I would have been pregnant straight away but 8 months later and one M\C I know now it can be very difficult (and I know people have to much harder) I really really hope it happens for you soon tho FX.
Before I got my BFP I was not being as obsessed and got pregnant on the month we were on hoildays and moving house (ttc was the last thing on our mind). But after my M/C..... I'm starting to feel obsessed again.

 

[Babyfever1184]

Nope your deffo not the only one! I'm like that too. But the one bit of advice I would give you is... it may happen soon but it might not. I thought I would have been pregnant straight away but 8 months later and one M\C I know now it can be very difficult (and I know people have to much harder) I really really hope it happens for you soon tho FX.
Before I got my BFP I was not being as obsessed and got pregnant on the month we were on hoildays and moving house (ttc was the last thing on our mind). But after my M/C..... I'm starting to feel obsessed again.

I know it might not happen right away and I think that's what stresses me out the most. I'm barely getting through this month and I don't know how I will deal if I have to do this for several months. And I don't think the bf realizes how hard it can be to her pregnant...

 

[ButternutBabe]

Hello!

My husband and I have only been talking about it for two months and trying for one, but it quickly went from "if it happens, it happens" to "put that baby in me right now!"

We have our babies names picked out, we know the age gaps we want between them, we have talked about literally every aspect.. and I'm not even pregnant yet!

I definitely feel obsessed. I am taking prenatal vitamins, I've stopped drinking alcohol and caffeine, I am constantly looking at tiny clothes..

 

[Babyfever1184]

Hello!

My husband and I have only been talking about it for two months and trying for one, but it quickly went from "if it happens, it happens" to "put that baby in me right now!"

We have our babies names picked out, we know the age gaps we want between them, we have talked about literally every aspect.. and I'm not even pregnant yet!

I definitely feel obsessed. I am taking prenatal vitamins, I've stopped drinking alcohol and caffeine, I am constantly looking at tiny clothes..

I'm right there with ya girl! I feel like a crazy person. It's like what the heck was I doing with my time before I became obsessed with having a baby lol all I do is think about it 24/7. I got few more days till I can test and it seems like the days are going by so slow.
and just thinking about the fact that it might not happen this month and I have to go through it again next month... Drives me insane

 

[Babyfever1184]

I have also been looking up cute ways to tell my boyfriend I'm pregnant. Even though I'm not yet lol ugh

 

[Vicky_92]

Nope your deffo not the only one! I'm like that too. But the one bit of advice I would give you is... it may happen soon but it might not. I thought I would have been pregnant straight away but 8 months later and one M\C I know now it can be very difficult (and I know people have to much harder) I really really hope it happens for you soon tho FX.
Before I got my BFP I was not being as obsessed and got pregnant on the month we were on hoildays and moving house (ttc was the last thing on our mind). But after my M/C..... I'm starting to feel obsessed again.

I know it might not happen right away and I think that's what stresses me out the most. I'm barely getting through this month and I don't know how I will deal if I have to do this for several months. And I don't think the bf realizes how hard it can be to her pregnant...

I was the same, every month felt like a year. FX for you xx

 

[Baby.Love12]

Hey ladies. Hope nobody minds me jumping in here. I completely understand the obsession with ttc and honestly I am still shocked to be on the other side of this fence. My fiance and I tried like seriously tried to get pregnant for 2 years before it actually happened. I went and saw a fertility specialist and then bam 2 weeks later bfp. So I have kind of convinced myself that it can be very psychological. For your own benefit and trust me I know this is easier said than done but try not to obsess over it. It only prolongs the process. Good luck go each and every one of you and I hope you all get bfps very soon!

 

[Babyfever1184]

Hey ladies. Hope nobody minds me jumping in here. I completely understand the obsession with ttc and honestly I am still shocked to be on the other side of this fence. My fiance and I tried like seriously tried to get pregnant for 2 years before it actually happened. I went and saw a fertility specialist and then bam 2 weeks later bfp. So I have kind of convinced myself that it can be very psychological. For your own benefit and trust me I know this is easier said than done but try not to obsess over it. It only prolongs the process. Good luck go each and every one of you and I hope you all get bfps very soon!

Thank you! Definitely trying to keep my mind off it for now until it's time to test but it's hard! LOL
Now I have other things to stress about like my job cut my hours today so I have to find something else. Sucks to have to leave a place I worked for 3 years and start somewhere new 😭

 

[Baby.Love12]

I lost my job 2 months ago because my company got shut down! Yes it does suck!!!