October BFP's ~ Get your's here! (34 so far!!!)

[shellgirl]

hi, all! i think i got my bfp! i tested today not sure when i oed, or what dpo i am, but a very faint pink line showed up im alittle nervous because we have lost one before, but ill try to be positive i cant believe this

Hooray! Congratulations Meli! And don't try to be positive, you BE POSITIVE! I know it's hard after a loss, but stressing over it is not healthy. You got to hope for the best

 

[kel21]

Thanks ladies!

Meli that is a great line! Way better than mine! hehe

Loro thanks girl! So sorry that you are having the cycle from hell! Hope something happens soon!

 

[Heather11]

Still a BFN here......I am starting to think I am out this month!!!!

 

[minuet]

hi, all! i think i got my bfp! i tested today not sure when i oed, or what dpo i am, but a very faint pink line showed up im alittle nervous because we have lost one before, but ill try to be positive i cant believe this

Yay those are gorgeous lines!

 

[stargazer01]

meli1981

 

[minuet]

So me and the DH had a VERY long discussion... We WILL officially be TTC come the new year. Big step for us - and it's going to bring about a bunch of new things to! I'm going to be taking all the vitamins I need to be taking then now, and I told him we are going to start practicing the whole everyday for a week thing during my fertile phases so he get's used to it. As well as him laying off of his "internet videos" for that whole week so he does not lower his sperm count.... Let's see how it goes - and I will see ya'll next year!

ewww your husband needs to lay off the internet videos for good, you should not allow that at all. Pornography of any kind is very destructive to a marriage.
In fact the results of pornography have torn apart more than one family that I know, its tragic.

 

[meli1981]

thanks ladies! im still in disbelief! im alittle worried because the line is not as dark as my previous bfps, but i think its still really early so hopefully they will get darker!

 

[Karynmski]

Congrats Meli!!! Best of luck for an easy pregnancy.

 

[elt1013]

So me and the DH had a VERY long discussion... We WILL officially be TTC come the new year. Big step for us - and it's going to bring about a bunch of new things to! I'm going to be taking all the vitamins I need to be taking then now, and I told him we are going to start practicing the whole everyday for a week thing during my fertile phases so he get's used to it. As well as him laying off of his "internet videos" for that whole week so he does not lower his sperm count.... Let's see how it goes - and I will see ya'll next year!

ewww your husband needs to lay off the internet videos for good, you should not allow that at all. Pornography of any kind is very destructive to a marriage.
In fact the results of pornography have torn apart more than one family that I know, its tragic.

Oh wow...that is a little judgemental, dont you think? We all have our own opinions, but I thought we were here to support eachother, not judge. DH and I try MANY different things in our marriage to keep it fresh and we have the best/closest marriage of any one I know. I am not threatened in any way of pornography as I am very confident in myself and what I do!

Congrats to the beautiful BFPs. Woohoo...keep em comin ladies!

And stargazer, I forgot to update...I finally got AF, so I will be testing in the November thread! Good luck to the ladies waiting to test.

 

[minuet]

It is not judgmental to say that something is destructive. It's been clearly shown that pornography is not healthy for anyone involved. I mean think about it, pictures of naked women, being used to arouse your spouse's sexual desires. Not very healthy.
And like I said, I personally know a couple families who have been torn apart by pornography, one of them is dealing with it right now. It is tragic, and heartbreaking.
It is no small matter, it is no light thing, and I don't think it is judgmental for me to point out how serious of a matter it is.

 

[echo]

Minuet, all marriages are different. There is no one who should decide what is good or bad for a relationship but the people involved in THAT relationship. You are relating a personal opinion, based on your own beliefs/experiences, not a common belief, so it should be no surprise that someone might not agree. It doesn't mean that anyone is wrong---it is simply differences of opinion.

 

[elt1013]

It is not judgmental to say that something is destructive. It's been clearly shown that pornography is not healthy for anyone involved. I mean think about it, pictures of naked women, being used to arouse your spouse's sexual desires. Not very healthy.
And like I said, I personally know a couple families who have been torn apart by pornography, one of them is dealing with it right now. It is tragic, and heartbreaking.
It is no small matter, it is no light thing, and I don't think it is judgmental for me to point out how serious of a matter it is.

I was just simply saying that the way you posted it did not come off well...it sounded really rude! It is judgemental because it isn't a fact...it is your opinion. If you are against it, dont allow it in your marriage, but you shouldn't tell others what they should do in theirs. Now porn addiction...that is a different story!

 

[shellgirl]

So me and the DH had a VERY long discussion... We WILL officially be TTC come the new year. Big step for us - and it's going to bring about a bunch of new things to! I'm going to be taking all the vitamins I need to be taking then now, and I told him we are going to start practicing the whole everyday for a week thing during my fertile phases so he get's used to it. As well as him laying off of his "internet videos" for that whole week so he does not lower his sperm count.... Let's see how it goes - and I will see ya'll next year!

ewww your husband needs to lay off the internet videos for good, you should not allow that at all. Pornography of any kind is very destructive to a marriage.
In fact the results of pornography have torn apart more than one family that I know, its tragic.

I have to say I find your comment offensive. I don't think it's anyone's place to judge or attack somebody else's marriage. We are here to lean on each other during a very sensitive, and for some of us, difficult journey of trying to have children. We're looking for compassion and understanding, not judgement and negativity. While you are certainly entitled to your opinion, I think you should be more respectful in your tone of voicing it.

 

[Pammy31]

report the postings girls if you think it is offensive.

 

[Ylanda]

Would anyone of you lovely ladies care to look at my chart and tell me what you think about my temps since O? This is my first cycle charting and I'm a tad confused...

The plan is to test on Thursday (12DPO), that's when AF would be a day late based on my longest cycle. Thanks!

https://www.tcoyf.com/members/Ylanda/charts/3.aspx

 

[Twag]

Congratulations to all the s recently H&H 9 months

to all that the caught

AFM - 9DPO today - yesterday I had pink cm (like before AF) but only when I went searching I think I am out for this month

 

[garfie]

Congrats Meli



X

 

[lynzpraying]

Unfotunately I'm out - the witch got me early
Good luck to all still in the 2ww and lots of baby dust to you all.
Gonrats on all the BFP's and hugs to all who are in the same boat as me x

 

[Wobbles]

minuet I think it is fair to say the ladies have a point about your post.

It's a personal choice. Referring to the topic as ewww, destructive and suggesting it will most definitely break up a family is wrong. elt1013 and echo have both said everything I could say already. I'd suggest taking it in.

Onwards ladies ... & of course good luck

 

[danielle1984]

I personally don't take any offense by Minuet post, she has a right to her opinion. If we have to start a debate about this, you'll be surprise to see there's no right answers. There would be people on both side. I'm not siding with anyone on this issue, but there's good/bad arguments on both side of it.