*October Bumpkins*2014* 43 Babies Born!

[Yo_Yo]

So I was really hoping to get away without having any morning sickness. Well as I was finishing my bagel yesterday I got nauseous, and as I was finishing todays bagel, I had to run to the bathroom. Didnt actually get sick but I really thought I was going to =( Now I just feel like crap and I have to work today.

Hope you feel better soon. Sickness isn't fun.

 

[Kittycat155]

When you go for US make it clear you KNOW there was an issue on this scan today and this is a follow up can I see the screen. If they know you know there is issue maybe they will be more willing to let you view it. If it is a partial molar or baby has broken down they may tell you or still say no.

 

[Yo_Yo]

Kyla my friend said her dr tried to schedule a d&c and she opted out and carried a helthy baby.

Why did her doctor want to so that? Did she have an ultrasound that didn't show anything?

She only let me see it quick. But the sac was bigger and I saw something in it. Though I'm not sure what she didn't let me see it long.

She sounds awful!!

I saw a post on the tri 1 forum about a week back where the woman was told it wasn't looking good, and then on the rescan she saw a baby/heartbeat

It can and does happen. They cannot definitively say at 6 weeks it's all going wrong-a fetal pole for example sometimes isn't seen until up to I think it's the 9th week.

I have had a scan in the past that was at 4/5 weeks where they didn't see even the sac.l.although I'm sure I saw it. Low and behold it was there a few weeks later.

There's still hope lovely

 

[KylasBaby]

I don't know I don't have any hope. These next ten days are going to be the worst days of my life.

 

[ToughhGal]

Praying for you KylasBaby

 

[sprite30]

That is very true yo_yo, at this stage it is just to early and you could have ovulated later then you thought. So maybe March 7th isn't too bad at least then you will know for sure. When I went in for my first scan all they saw was a gestational sac and they scared the crap out of me bc they wanted me back in 3 days and when I went back they said I was measuring 3 days behind and that it all rested on what my betas looked like and low and behold my betas were fine and now baby is measuring right on track.

I would probably for my own curiousity call back and see if they can tell you more details but of course it's understandable that you are upset right now

 

[KylasBaby]

My mother is going to call back at some point and get the info for me. I'm to upset to talk to anyone

 

[newlywed2013]

My mother is going to call back at some point and get the info for me. I'm to upset to talk to anyone

I am sure you are. Hope you get some answers.

 

[Kittycat155]

They may not let her have that sort of info unless you put her on paperwork. Make sure your in room as she calls so you can get on phone and talk if you must. Maybe go in person with her so you can really go into detail what it is they saw/did not see that has them offering D&C this early in the game

 

[ljo1984]

You need more info than that, you need to know why they think it's abnormal. If there's no hb it's still quite early, I had a scan at same time with my eldest and was told not to panic if they didn't see a hb yet as still very early. Massive hugs. Xx

 

[Jcliff]

The doctor called me. She said at this point they do not think it's a normal pregnancy. She said they could schedule a DnC or have another ultrasound in a week and go from there. I chose the ultrasound but she's not optimistic.

Uhh I would callback and DEMAND be told what they meant by not normal pregnancy??? They can't just say that! It could mean many things!!!?

 

[KylasBaby]

The doctor called me. She said at this point they do not think it's a normal pregnancy. She said they could schedule a DnC or have another ultrasound in a week and go from there. I chose the ultrasound but she's not optimistic.

Uhh I would callback and DEMAND be told what they meant by not normal pregnancy??? They can't just say that! It could mean many things!!!?

She said they didn't see what they should at this point.

 

[Kittycat155]

How sure are you of dates-is 6W3 off when you ovulated or is that estimate from LMP? If you know days you had sex try playing with those to see if you get a different due date. And are you sure of LMP?

 

[Jcliff]

I went at what I thought was 6w3d, measured 5w6d with HB. Went back 9 days later baby measured 7w1d, so I've been meauring behind as well but dr said everything looked great!!? I don't think drs should shut out if things are behind?? Ugh I would call Back and say I need an exact explanation

 

[zebadi]

Kaylas im so sorry they have left you feeling like this!
When i went for my US last week there was also another lady there for a follow up as she was told a week before that she's most likely to end up MC (baby wasnt measuring as it should be, also no HB), any way, she come out after her US totally excited, baby was measuring as it should have been and there was a HB!!!. sometimes its just to eary. I am glad you opted for a re-scan.

Good luck sweety. xxx

 

[newlywed2013]

I think I might actually make it for work. After a frozen waffle and some chicken noodle soup I am feeling better, almost normal.

I think I wasnt feeling well because I didn't sleep well last night and I didnt get something to eat fast enough. I'm gonig to keep some cheerios by my bed and hope it was a fluke. I really dont want MS!

 

[ToughhGal]

I have my next ultrasound march 7th. I'll be a day before 8 weeks. I'm not thinking anything will change but I'm hoping. Completely deveststed right now

I also have an ultrasound that day. I am holding on faith for you. Babies are still so small at this point. and I am sorry your experience with the tech was awful.

 

[KylasBaby]

How sure are you of dates-is 6W3 off when you ovulated or is that estimate from LMP? If you know days you had sex try playing with those to see if you get a different due date. And are you sure of LMP?

I uses a sperm donor so I know the exact dates I did the inseminations and when I ovulated and lmp and whatnot. Earliest I could be would be 6w1d. By lamp im 6w3d. I'm not very hopeful. I just wish it would end soon and not drag on.

 

[Jcliff]

Did they tell you what you were measuring?

 

[Kittycat155]

Got ya.

I know the feeling. With last pregnancy I should have been over 9 weeks and was coming up 7W 3 and was like ok this is not going to work just let it end so we can recover/try again at some point.