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(TMI ALERT): It's been a few days since DH and I have had sex (which for me right now isn't a big deal, :p) and he's getting kind of.. shall we say frustrated? Lol. Anyway, last night was kind of rough between us, is he asked if I was just going to fall asleep, he was tossing and turning, sighing a lot, got up and did some random crap on the laptop, got up went into the kitchen in the middle of the night to chop stuff for his and his dad's lunch today. In there somewhere he said that it seems like I just have sex with him just to get him off my back and in some cases that is true... but he just seems to want it so freaking often! Always asking for bj's, etc. But usually once we get into I start enjoying it and getting into it. After a while I decide to get him to sleep I move over to him and get things started and then right in the middle Sam decides he wants to wake up, so we didn't even get to finish! So, naturally this morning he wakes up and gets on to whatever porno website he uses, lol and does his thing that way.. but after he left for work I noticed (he didn't clear the search bar) he had done a search for pregnant with no sex drive. Like there is something wrong with me?! Excuse me for popping out two of your kids and chasing after them and picking up after them, and cleaning the house and cooking your dinner and growing your third child and being too tired to have sex with you every night! How is that supposed to make me feel? I cried quite a bit this morning. Sorry for the ranting novel... I just needed to vent.
 
(TMI ALERT): It's been a few days since DH and I have had sex (which for me right now isn't a big deal, :p) and he's getting kind of.. shall we say frustrated? Lol. Anyway, last night was kind of rough between us, is he asked if I was just going to fall asleep, he was tossing and turning, sighing a lot, got up and did some random crap on the laptop, got up went into the kitchen in the middle of the night to chop stuff for his and his dad's lunch today. In there somewhere he said that it seems like I just have sex with him just to get him off my back and in some cases that is true... but he just seems to want it so freaking often! Always asking for bj's, etc. But usually once we get into I start enjoying it and getting into it. After a while I decide to get him to sleep I move over to him and get things started and then right in the middle Sam decides he wants to wake up, so we didn't even get to finish! So, naturally this morning he wakes up and gets on to whatever porno website he uses, lol and does his thing that way.. but after he left for work I noticed (he didn't clear the search bar) he had done a search for pregnant with no sex drive. Like there is something wrong with me?! Excuse me for popping out two of your kids and chasing after them and picking up after them, and cleaning the house and cooking your dinner and growing your third child and being too tired to have sex with you every night! How is that supposed to make me feel? I cried quite a bit this morning. Sorry for the ranting novel... I just needed to vent.

That would bother me too. I am so exhausted, I couldn't imagine having sex every night.

Unfortunately, my husband says it's "weird" when I am pregnant so we haven't had sex in 8 weeks. I'm the one who is starting to get frustrated.
 
(TMI ALERT): It's been a few days since DH and I have had sex (which for me right now isn't a big deal, :p) and he's getting kind of.. shall we say frustrated? Lol. Anyway, last night was kind of rough between us, is he asked if I was just going to fall asleep, he was tossing and turning, sighing a lot, got up and did some random crap on the laptop, got up went into the kitchen in the middle of the night to chop stuff for his and his dad's lunch today. In there somewhere he said that it seems like I just have sex with him just to get him off my back and in some cases that is true... but he just seems to want it so freaking often! Always asking for bj's, etc. But usually once we get into I start enjoying it and getting into it. After a while I decide to get him to sleep I move over to him and get things started and then right in the middle Sam decides he wants to wake up, so we didn't even get to finish! So, naturally this morning he wakes up and gets on to whatever porno website he uses, lol and does his thing that way.. but after he left for work I noticed (he didn't clear the search bar) he had done a search for pregnant with no sex drive. Like there is something wrong with me?! Excuse me for popping out two of your kids and chasing after them and picking up after them, and cleaning the house and cooking your dinner and growing your third child and being too tired to have sex with you every night! How is that supposed to make me feel? I cried quite a bit this morning. Sorry for the ranting novel... I just needed to vent.

I think we are married to the same man :-(
 
(TMI ALERT): It's been a few days since DH and I have had sex (which for me right now isn't a big deal, :p) and he's getting kind of.. shall we say frustrated? Lol. Anyway, last night was kind of rough between us, is he asked if I was just going to fall asleep, he was tossing and turning, sighing a lot, got up and did some random crap on the laptop, got up went into the kitchen in the middle of the night to chop stuff for his and his dad's lunch today. In there somewhere he said that it seems like I just have sex with him just to get him off my back and in some cases that is true... but he just seems to want it so freaking often! Always asking for bj's, etc. But usually once we get into I start enjoying it and getting into it. After a while I decide to get him to sleep I move over to him and get things started and then right in the middle Sam decides he wants to wake up, so we didn't even get to finish! So, naturally this morning he wakes up and gets on to whatever porno website he uses, lol and does his thing that way.. but after he left for work I noticed (he didn't clear the search bar) he had done a search for pregnant with no sex drive. Like there is something wrong with me?! Excuse me for popping out two of your kids and chasing after them and picking up after them, and cleaning the house and cooking your dinner and growing your third child and being too tired to have sex with you every night! How is that supposed to make me feel? I cried quite a bit this morning. Sorry for the ranting novel... I just needed to vent.

That would bother me too. I am so exhausted, I couldn't imagine having sex every night.

Unfortunately, my husband says it's "weird" when I am pregnant so we haven't had sex in 8 weeks. I'm the one who is starting to get frustrated.


I don't mind that he watches pron from time to time. But what really upset me was his stupid search! It's like come on! We were like that with our first but we both enjoy it when I am pregnant.. it's tricky at times though, lol. The sad thing is.. I actually kinda wanted it last night! :/

(TMI ALERT): It's been a few days since DH and I have had sex (which for me right now isn't a big deal, :p) and he's getting kind of.. shall we say frustrated? Lol. Anyway, last night was kind of rough between us, is he asked if I was just going to fall asleep, he was tossing and turning, sighing a lot, got up and did some random crap on the laptop, got up went into the kitchen in the middle of the night to chop stuff for his and his dad's lunch today. In there somewhere he said that it seems like I just have sex with him just to get him off my back and in some cases that is true... but he just seems to want it so freaking often! Always asking for bj's, etc. But usually once we get into I start enjoying it and getting into it. After a while I decide to get him to sleep I move over to him and get things started and then right in the middle Sam decides he wants to wake up, so we didn't even get to finish! So, naturally this morning he wakes up and gets on to whatever porno website he uses, lol and does his thing that way.. but after he left for work I noticed (he didn't clear the search bar) he had done a search for pregnant with no sex drive. Like there is something wrong with me?! Excuse me for popping out two of your kids and chasing after them and picking up after them, and cleaning the house and cooking your dinner and growing your third child and being too tired to have sex with you every night! How is that supposed to make me feel? I cried quite a bit this morning. Sorry for the ranting novel... I just needed to vent.

I think we are married to the same man :-(

:-( It's frustrating isn't it?! I don't mind that he wants it so often.. it's his reaction if he doesn't get it that bothers me...
 
I guess I would be considered a late new-comer lol but I just found this post perusing around this site. I am due October 5th with a little boy! Also, how do I edit my signature? I haven't been able to figure it out for the life of me haha

Welcome! October 5 is a good day! It's my birthday so I'm a little biased!

I wish I could tell you how to change your signature, but I forgot. I did a lot of exploring. I would do it again, but I'm on my phone so it's a pain.


I plan on breastfeeding and cloth diapering with disposables while out. I just don't know anything about cloth diapers yet! But it's something I told myself I would do many years ago!

Haha well hey obviously great people are born on such a day :winkwink:
 
Aww your dh would die if I was his wife. I've been on pelvic rest since I got pregnant but we have still managed to dtd maybe 3 times but my dh is great about it. He knows better then to turn me on right now as I have a crazy sex drive but when the doc says no that's the final word. Men can be so needy sometimes.

Hopefully in his search he found something that actually made him understand why your tired, etc. I'd probably be alittle upset if my dh googled that too.
 
Lamere I would be upset too, hopefully he did find something to open his eyes to reality!

Thought I'd share my 10w1d (multi colored shirt and no head :haha:) and todays 14w4d pic :) since I didn't share yesterday.
 

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La mere - I'd be upset too. My OH is the same except I get the 'you clearly don't love me anymore cause we never have sex' etc etc and 'I work all day and I manage to still want sex with you even though I'm tired' :yawn:

It's like a completely different kind of tired and, it's SO frustrating that they're not more understanding :hugs:
 
I haven't been on here lately, but wanted to share -

had my first m/w appt today and heard the HB! :happydance: such a good sound! have already felt the baby move, but even better to hear the HB> :cloud9:
 
La mere - I'd be upset too. My OH is the same except I get the 'you clearly don't love me anymore cause we never have sex' etc etc and 'I work all day and I manage to still want sex with you even though I'm tired' :yawn:

It's like a completely different kind of tired and, it's SO frustrating that they're not more understanding :hugs:

I get that too!! You don't love me, you don't find me attractive anymore............... God get a bloody grip lol,emotional blackmail don't work on me. I take the girls to bed and then the texts start, are they asleep? Do you want to cuddle? (There's bugger all cuddling involved when that's said btw) I usually fall asleep and ignore lol, I'm 14 weeks and still as drained as ever!! Thought it would start easing off by now! Or maybe the looking after two kids/working etc is just making it all still do bad. Only 4.5 month till mat leave :-/ X
 

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