Hi ladies. Just did a quick skim of the last few pages, but I think I'm fairly up to date now.
Re: birth experiences. I've only given birth once and it was fairly tame, I guess, compared to some of your stories, but it still wasn't the birth I wanted. I wanted as few drugs as possible and definitely not pain meds. Early labour started at 5am on July 19th, water started to break at 8am, went to hospital at 4pm (only 2cm, 80% effaced), admitted at 8pm, and asked if I was strep b positive and I said no because that is what I was told by my OB weeks ago. They check my file and said that it said I was positive, so I get the stupid drip. Walk around a bit, try to get comfortable in the hospital bed, but it feels really hard on my hips when I lay on my side. Try the tub, but I can't put my left hand under water cuz of the IV and the water is way too warm. I finally bitched out at around midnight and got the epi before they TOLD me I was getting pitocin. Not asked, told. I had my mom, my SO, and a friend there, all who knew I wanted to be talked out of an epi, but didn't say a damn thing. When I got all the meds, I was at 4cm. 6cm at 2am, 10cm at 4am, but they let me sleep some more til 6-ish and then pushed for an hour and a half and had my son at 7:54am. I had 2nd degree tearing and definitely felt the last 3 stitches going in. I cut myself some slack at the time, but I fuckin' hate myself now. I'll never get that experience back and I'll just be another woman that couldn't handle it the first time around and had to give up and failed at achieving my goal. This is why I'm got a midwife this time and I'm planning on a home birth. I can't be trusted in a building from of drugs and medical staff that don't give a shit about your wishes.
I hope that all of you ladies get the deliveries you want, or as close to it as possible though.
Jessie - Your whole situation sounds like a mess, but I'm glad you 2 are getting some counselling now. FX everything works out well.
Demotivated - Congrats on your boy.
Shorty - Good luck.
Re: getting the nursery ready. SO and I are in the early process of getting our own place. Right now, I technically still live at home, but my son and I spend the majority of our time at SO's one bedroom condo. We haven't even met with a mortgage broker yet (cuz SO hasn't compiled all his paperwork yet), so I'm really not holding my breath that we'll find a place before the baby comes. And I don't wanna be giving birth in a living room, surrounded by unpacked moving boxes. So, I'm just twiddling my thumbs til we find something.
In other news, my son has had these tiny spots all over his torso for a day or so now. We took him to the Dr's and she said it was either a viral rash or the tail end of parvovirus/fifth's disease/slapped face something or other. She said I should be careful around him cuz I'm pg and couldn't find anything in my file to say if I was immune to it, so she gave me a req for bloodwork and I'll be doing it this afternoon. I noticed some spots on my chest and was feeling kind of achy and tired on Monday, but I seem to be alright now. I also did my GTT on Monday, so FX that no news is good news. Gotta wait another 4 weeks til my next MW appt and then it's biweekly appts after that. Feeling lots of kicks, even as I type this and we have our 4D scan in one month. Oh, and my son's 2nd BDay (and party) is this Saturday. Stress, stress, stress. -.-