Kiki1993
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OH use to be the one making me wait for a little one. But last year I said he was right and i waned to wait too, to which he said well he wants a baby now and will wait for whenever i am ready. So ive been thinking he is ready now and its my choice when we try.
Well over the past few weeks i have been wanting to just try, so i spoke to OH again, at xmas we had a convo but it was mainly me trying to work through the pros and cons and OH nodded along until i said maybe we should just keep waiting. Well now im thinking we should have just tried, we are in a 3 bedroom, fair enough ide like to move but at the same time why should i let new neighbours run me out of a house ive been in for 5 years?! And we would have baby at wedding but who cares? So I had made my mind up and told OH I was ready to try now, he said he didn't actually want to. I said why and he said he wants to wait and has always wanted to wait... so why tell me it was my choice? I know i cant be mad at him for wanting to wait, but its the fact he made it out that he was ready and i was the one dragging my feet
Well over the past few weeks i have been wanting to just try, so i spoke to OH again, at xmas we had a convo but it was mainly me trying to work through the pros and cons and OH nodded along until i said maybe we should just keep waiting. Well now im thinking we should have just tried, we are in a 3 bedroom, fair enough ide like to move but at the same time why should i let new neighbours run me out of a house ive been in for 5 years?! And we would have baby at wedding but who cares? So I had made my mind up and told OH I was ready to try now, he said he didn't actually want to. I said why and he said he wants to wait and has always wanted to wait... so why tell me it was my choice? I know i cant be mad at him for wanting to wait, but its the fact he made it out that he was ready and i was the one dragging my feet