Early_Bump
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So im Emma I'm 25yrs old and im married to my best friend terry who is 23....we have had 8 children already but sadly we have 3 angels...
kate now 9ys born @33wks
jak now 7yrs born at 28wks
kyle now 5 born @27wks
Tj now 4yrs born @ 25+6wks
Lily-Mae now 21months born @ 25+5
Angel....
Harry born sleeping @22wks 2000
Ella-lou Born @ 24+3 in april 2007 died after 5hrs 8minutes...
Our most recent is our beautiful little boy Max he was born on @ 25+4 on 13th oct and sadly fell asleep after just 2hrs 13mins....
IM missing max so much right now its unreal he was just buried last thurs... but the ache for a baby is huge... thier was huge mistakes made in my last pregnancy that right now i dont have the strength to go into... but all i will say is that it was written in my notes at 8wks and 11wks by consutant that i needed weekly cervical scans at review for a stitch at 18wks... i didnt get any of the scans and i made an offical complaint at 18+5wks... they then arranged a scan for 2 days later but my waters broke 30mins before the scan appointment.... nothing could then be done...
I have seeked advice from manchester and they are reviewing me... and are hopeful that with a stitch in my cervix and pessarys i can get to term well 38wks... but sadly i took the decision to have my tubes cut in theata when goign to ahve Max i honestly didnt expect him to die... so now i'm having to go downt he reveresal route or the ivf route not sure which one yet or if i can either but im looking into it all all i have emtpy arms that ache for a baby...
So thats it any adivce greatly appricated ive been in touch with london womans unit about ivf and i would consider egg share since it reduces the cost so much but i'd need too lose 2stone for that... the reversal i have a consultant who is prepared to see me at a private clinic in manchester spires hospital.. when im ready but it would be 3month before he could do me if i can done.
Im sueing the hosptial thou thats keeping me busy at the moment... grief is a horrible thing but im trying my hardest to get through it, you might all think m insane but pls dont judge me if u havnt walked in my shoes, i love my children very much...for me its more about keeping my options open and seeing if anything can be done bcos theirs a good chance nothing can be done as ive had 7 c-sections and if thats the case then thats fine but then at least i can close the door and move on...
Thanks for listening xxxx
So im Emma I'm 25yrs old and im married to my best friend terry who is 23....we have had 8 children already but sadly we have 3 angels...
kate now 9ys born @33wks
jak now 7yrs born at 28wks
kyle now 5 born @27wks
Tj now 4yrs born @ 25+6wks
Lily-Mae now 21months born @ 25+5
Angel....
Harry born sleeping @22wks 2000
Ella-lou Born @ 24+3 in april 2007 died after 5hrs 8minutes...
Our most recent is our beautiful little boy Max he was born on @ 25+4 on 13th oct and sadly fell asleep after just 2hrs 13mins....
IM missing max so much right now its unreal he was just buried last thurs... but the ache for a baby is huge... thier was huge mistakes made in my last pregnancy that right now i dont have the strength to go into... but all i will say is that it was written in my notes at 8wks and 11wks by consutant that i needed weekly cervical scans at review for a stitch at 18wks... i didnt get any of the scans and i made an offical complaint at 18+5wks... they then arranged a scan for 2 days later but my waters broke 30mins before the scan appointment.... nothing could then be done...
I have seeked advice from manchester and they are reviewing me... and are hopeful that with a stitch in my cervix and pessarys i can get to term well 38wks... but sadly i took the decision to have my tubes cut in theata when goign to ahve Max i honestly didnt expect him to die... so now i'm having to go downt he reveresal route or the ivf route not sure which one yet or if i can either but im looking into it all all i have emtpy arms that ache for a baby...
So thats it any adivce greatly appricated ive been in touch with london womans unit about ivf and i would consider egg share since it reduces the cost so much but i'd need too lose 2stone for that... the reversal i have a consultant who is prepared to see me at a private clinic in manchester spires hospital.. when im ready but it would be 3month before he could do me if i can done.
Im sueing the hosptial thou thats keeping me busy at the moment... grief is a horrible thing but im trying my hardest to get through it, you might all think m insane but pls dont judge me if u havnt walked in my shoes, i love my children very much...for me its more about keeping my options open and seeing if anything can be done bcos theirs a good chance nothing can be done as ive had 7 c-sections and if thats the case then thats fine but then at least i can close the door and move on...
Thanks for listening xxxx