KFS....I'm gonna jump on the bandwagon with the other ladies and say not to wait 6 months. My OB told me because of my age ( was 39 at that time) that if we were having unprotected sex for more than 3 months and I wasn't pregnant yet due to my age HE suggested I go straight to a FS. I thought he was crazy and being a little extreme especially since at that point I wasn't taking temps, monitoring my ovulation or any of that. In fact we were using the old high school pull out method before the wedding. Lol. But he scared the crap outta me! I say don't wait. Hopefully you can go see a FS without a referral and if you need one be insistent with your Dr. and go sooner if you feel you need to.
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After today's drop, I'm not testing. I'm sure AF will be here tomorrow morning, but I will remain hopeful until I wake up to a temperature that is lower than 98.0. Ho hum...c'mon trip to Bahamas!
Fezzle/Atty-I'm not really a cat person, but those are cute pictures. I'm scared of their claws, really. If I know a cat is declawed (which is a terrible thing to do to a cat), I'm ok with it because it can't hurt me.
garfie-Nice jump today. I'm still excited for you. Sorry about the BFN though. That's not cool.
Blues-Hey lady!!
Fezzle/Atty-I'm not really a cat person, but those are cute pictures. I'm scared of their claws, really. If I know a cat is declawed (which is a terrible thing to do to a cat), I'm ok with it because it can't hurt me.
garfie-Nice jump today. I'm still excited for you. Sorry about the BFN though. That's not cool.
Blues-Hey lady!!
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Terri - that's great that your O falls right during your break. When I got my positive, my husband and I had been off together during that time so I definitely think it helps to be in a much more relaxed state. 
Garfie/Blues/Oldermom - nice temps!
Thanks for all of the advice ladies. I'll be 36 in June. Technically, I've been off of the pill since October 2012 but really didn't pay attention until my cycles until January 2013. My new OB, although a bit complacent, seems to be light years better than the last, as far as her general attitude at least. I think she feels that another 6 months can't hurt because I seem to be ovulating regularly and my cycles are pretty regular. But you're right, it has been over a year now and the only positive sign that I had ended up in miscarriage. I was surprised when she said 6 months but I'm often overwhelmed in these situations and then feel badly later when I have time to process it. She said that they would plan for next steps there (no mention of a FS) like bloods or whatever.
As far as a fertility specialist goes, I don't think I need a referral but can you explain what the first steps would be if I chose to see one?
In the meantime, my husband's so busy with work, he honestly doesn't even think about any of this. I think he'd be freaked out if he knew how much I worry about it.
Garfie/Blues/Oldermom - nice temps!
Thanks for all of the advice ladies. I'll be 36 in June. Technically, I've been off of the pill since October 2012 but really didn't pay attention until my cycles until January 2013. My new OB, although a bit complacent, seems to be light years better than the last, as far as her general attitude at least. I think she feels that another 6 months can't hurt because I seem to be ovulating regularly and my cycles are pretty regular. But you're right, it has been over a year now and the only positive sign that I had ended up in miscarriage. I was surprised when she said 6 months but I'm often overwhelmed in these situations and then feel badly later when I have time to process it. She said that they would plan for next steps there (no mention of a FS) like bloods or whatever.
As far as a fertility specialist goes, I don't think I need a referral but can you explain what the first steps would be if I chose to see one?
In the meantime, my husband's so busy with work, he honestly doesn't even think about any of this. I think he'd be freaked out if he knew how much I worry about it.
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I went to my OBGYN got my Annuual and went back for CD3 test which they told me where normal but after looking and talking here realized my P was low and my TSH was kinda high!!
So I opted to go to a Holistic Thyriod Dr and she took a Ton of blood and told me I needed Thyriod Meds and P!!
Since she couldn't give me scans and what not I decided to go to the FS!!
All u have to do is look in your area see one that u feel good with call them verify they take Ur insurance and make an Apt!! GL
So I opted to go to a Holistic Thyriod Dr and she took a Ton of blood and told me I needed Thyriod Meds and P!!
Since she couldn't give me scans and what not I decided to go to the FS!!
All u have to do is look in your area see one that u feel good with call them verify they take Ur insurance and make an Apt!! GL
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Fezzle and Atty, cute kitties!
Guys are so delicate, aren't they?
As far as the specialist goes, the ones I have seen have mostly (the exception being my current doctor) have been referrals from OB's- they will often know one or two in the area. From that point, it is a personal choice what doctor fits you and hubby the best. Most FS's by definition are fairly aggressive, so you will probably go for the typical meet-and-greet appointment- and the doc will talk to you about your medical history (etc). Then they will likely want to start out with some basic blood tests- FSH, LH, estrogen, progesterone, TSH, prolactin, and AMH are some basic ones- and then possibly do an internal scan. Be sure to mention your specific concerns here, so they can be ruled in or out sooner (like a male factor problem). A good doc will ask you about your concerns anyway, but as with most, they are only human and easily forget things too.
An OB would probably be willing to do some of these tests, so if you decide to push her a little, you can request them, then if you have to get referred, they will have already been done (although some of them will change over time).
It is a lot to process, and can be scary. We are here for you if you want to ask questions and vent. This is a very smart group!
As far as a fertility specialist goes, I don't think I need a referral but can you explain what the first steps would be if I chose to see one?
In the meantime, my husband's so busy with work, he honestly doesn't even think about any of this. I think he'd be freaked out if he knew how much I worry about it.
Guys are so delicate, aren't they?
As far as the specialist goes, the ones I have seen have mostly (the exception being my current doctor) have been referrals from OB's- they will often know one or two in the area. From that point, it is a personal choice what doctor fits you and hubby the best. Most FS's by definition are fairly aggressive, so you will probably go for the typical meet-and-greet appointment- and the doc will talk to you about your medical history (etc). Then they will likely want to start out with some basic blood tests- FSH, LH, estrogen, progesterone, TSH, prolactin, and AMH are some basic ones- and then possibly do an internal scan. Be sure to mention your specific concerns here, so they can be ruled in or out sooner (like a male factor problem). A good doc will ask you about your concerns anyway, but as with most, they are only human and easily forget things too.
An OB would probably be willing to do some of these tests, so if you decide to push her a little, you can request them, then if you have to get referred, they will have already been done (although some of them will change over time).
It is a lot to process, and can be scary. We are here for you if you want to ask questions and vent. This is a very smart group!
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Did they give your son medicine the other day? How is he feeling now? I guess it was just a slow growing strain. Hopefully you all are feeling better at this point.
Blues-Oh yeah..did you get a concussion? I can't imagine the roof of a car bonking me on the head. That's crazy, but glad you are ok.
Blues-Oh yeah..did you get a concussion? I can't imagine the roof of a car bonking me on the head. That's crazy, but glad you are ok.
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No they didn't give him anything Mon. Cuz it was Negative in the office!!
They sent over Antibiotics Now so he will start those tonite since Mommy doesn't want this back!!
I called the nurse she says he's fine w No fever so that's good at least he doesn't have to miss 2 days of school!!!
They sent over Antibiotics Now so he will start those tonite since Mommy doesn't want this back!!
I called the nurse she says he's fine w No fever so that's good at least he doesn't have to miss 2 days of school!!!
Hi ladies...got my results back for the MaterniT21 and it's negative for everything!!!!! I was holding my breath when I saw the dr.'s # come up on the phone. She also said " do you want to know the gender?" I said " nope...but my husband does" so I asked her to mail the results for him To have. I called my hubby and told him and told him I didn't have her tell me the gender, he said "call them back and tell them to call me with the results" he was upset until I told him I asked for the results to be mailed. Lol.
And thanks to all you ladies for the wonderful words of support while I waited for these results, it really means a lot. I'm a lot less nervous today and for the first time I have allowed myself to be COMPLETELY happy and not have that overshadowed by what ifs.
And thanks to all you ladies for the wonderful words of support while I waited for these results, it really means a lot.
I'm a lot less nervous today and for the first time I have allowed myself to be COMPLETELY happy and not have that overshadowed by what ifs.
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Smiles!!!! I am so happy for you!! Now relax momma and enjoy growing your little one!!!
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Oh, Smiles! I'm happy for you!! That is great news. And...even better news for your husband. I bet he can't wait for his present. HA!!HA!!
Deep sigh of relief from the mid-Atlantic!!
Deep sigh of relief from the mid-Atlantic!!
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Yay smiles!!
AFM - scan this morning went well - 2 large follies on the left (34 and 26). Triggered this morning, IUI scheduled for tomorrow. Let the bloating games begin!
I'll let you know the sample stats tomorrow.
AFM - scan this morning went well - 2 large follies on the left (34 and 26). Triggered this morning, IUI scheduled for tomorrow. Let the bloating games begin!
I'll let you know the sample stats tomorrow.
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Ok moni! This is it for you...those are some big follies there. Wow!
I know it's hard to recap your entire trip, but what was your favorite part? I love food and vacation. Tell me more!
I know it's hard to recap your entire trip, but what was your favorite part? I love food and vacation. Tell me more!
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Radkat and SPP - I am so sorry for loss. It just isnt fair!
Atty, congrats on the job! Cute kitties!
Smiles, Thats great news! Can you have your hubby get on here and tell us the gender?
Erin, welcome back! Your accident sounds so scary! So glad you are alright, and YES! March is your month!!
Terri, Skipping class is always a plus! Glad you enjoyed the show. Yummm! Pot Roast! Yall always make me hungry when I get on here . Love your little secret trip! I hope it all works out.
Moni, woohoo!! Good luck!!
Sis, so happy for your great scan!
Garfie, glad to see your temp rebounded and you are in fact, not dead!
Katie, yay for
(although that sounds weird!)
Fezzle, Im excited about your new doctor! Hopefully these tests will give you some answers and a direction to go.
Kfs1- sorry the new doctor wasnt as helpful as we hoped, but at least she sounded knowledgeable? I agree with the rest of the gang, I wouldnt wait 6 months. Our time is too precious at this stage. I did the same thing as Sis. I looked up an FS/RE in my area and made an appointment. So glad I did!
Me- work is so busy! I usually get on a couple of times during the day, but I am just not finding the time. Air Staff has sent down new requirements so Ive had to update my program accordingly, for FY15-24. If I dont do it, then the installations I support (All AF bases in Texas) wont get their money to operate their environmental programs (pay regulators, dispose of HazWaste, etc.). No pressure! Ha! When I get home I am utterly exhausted and dont get on my iPad at all. I havent even watched TV since Saturday. Which is unheard of for me because I am a TV junkie. Hopefully tonight I will at least stay awake tonight long enough to watch The Following.
My first ultrasound is tomorrow. Yay! I am not worried about it yet: 1- because I feel like poop and 2- because I think it will be too early (by a few days) to see a heartbeat, so no sense in worrying about that yet.
In other news, by hubby got his wisdom teeth out today, so I get to go home and baby him. He has already had me run home to drop off some vicodine and a milkshake. Hopefully he is feeling better tomorrow so he can resume his duties of waiting on me.
Can't wait to hear everyone's exciting plans for the weekend. We have an 80's birthday party to attend. Should be fun! What are y'all doing?
I am so sorry for loss. It just isnt fair!Atty, congrats on the job! Cute kitties!
Smiles, Thats great news!
Can you have your hubby get on here and tell us the gender? Erin, welcome back! Your accident sounds so scary! So glad you are alright, and YES! March is your month!!
Terri, Skipping class is always a plus! Glad you enjoyed the show. Yummm! Pot Roast! Yall always make me hungry when I get on here . Love your little secret trip! I hope it all works out.
Moni, woohoo!! Good luck!!
Sis, so happy for your great scan!
Garfie, glad to see your temp rebounded and you are in fact, not dead!
Katie, yay for
(although that sounds weird!) Fezzle, Im excited about your new doctor! Hopefully these tests will give you some answers and a direction to go.
Kfs1- sorry the new doctor wasnt as helpful as we hoped, but at least she sounded knowledgeable? I agree with the rest of the gang, I wouldnt wait 6 months. Our time is too precious at this stage. I did the same thing as Sis. I looked up an FS/RE in my area and made an appointment. So glad I did!
Me- work is so busy! I usually get on a couple of times during the day, but I am just not finding the time. Air Staff has sent down new requirements so Ive had to update my program accordingly, for FY15-24. If I dont do it, then the installations I support (All AF bases in Texas) wont get their money to operate their environmental programs (pay regulators, dispose of HazWaste, etc.). No pressure! Ha! When I get home I am utterly exhausted and dont get on my iPad at all. I havent even watched TV since Saturday. Which is unheard of for me because I am a TV junkie. Hopefully tonight I will at least stay awake tonight long enough to watch The Following.
My first ultrasound is tomorrow. Yay! I am not worried about it yet: 1- because I feel like poop and 2- because I think it will be too early (by a few days) to see a heartbeat, so no sense in worrying about that yet.
In other news, by hubby got his wisdom teeth out today, so I get to go home and baby him. He has already had me run home to drop off some vicodine and a milkshake
. Hopefully he is feeling better tomorrow so he can resume his duties of waiting on me.Can't wait to hear everyone's exciting plans for the weekend. We have an 80's birthday party to attend. Should be fun! What are y'all doing?
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Woo-hoo! Aaaahhhh, now you can relax! Yay! Can I just say BTW that you are very strong to not find out the gender! I would bend in a second!Wow, those are some big follies! Good luck!!
My first ultrasound is tomorrow. Yay! I am not worried about it yet: 1- because I feel like poop and 2- because I think it will be too early (by a few days) to see a heartbeat, so no sense in worrying about that yet.
In other news, by hubby got his wisdom teeth out today, so I get to go home and baby him. He has already had me run home to drop off some vicodine and a milkshake
Can't wait to hear everyone's exciting plans for the weekend. We have an 80's birthday party to attend. Should be fun! What are y'all doing?
Ooohh, an 80's party? I am jealous! I don't feel so old when I go to those...then I have to leave.
Good luck at your scan tomorrow!
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Hey VJean! Glad you are doing well, albeit super busy. Better than being bored out of your mind, I suppose. Maybe they'll surprise you and there will be a heartbeat to hear tomorrow when you go for your scan. I hope so, anyway. Yay for the 80s party. Are you dressing up, or just watching Breakfast Club and dancing to Tiffany/Madonna? hee hee.
I'm feeling pretty bad physically tonight ladies. I did my homework, but I am just a cramping suzette (whatever that means). My only guess is that my temp was so close to my coverline that I actually feel AF coming on. Normally, I only know because of my temperature drop. I don't know how I realized AF was coming before I went on BC. I guess the sooner I go to bed, the sooner I can wake up, get to depression city, and come out of it just in time for the weekend.
I'm feeling pretty bad physically tonight ladies. I did my homework, but I am just a cramping suzette (whatever that means). My only guess is that my temp was so close to my coverline that I actually feel AF coming on. Normally, I only know because of my temperature drop. I don't know how I realized AF was coming before I went on BC. I guess the sooner I go to bed, the sooner I can wake up, get to depression city, and come out of it just in time for the weekend.
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Terri-I did have a concussion and some compression of my upper spine. I healed great from it. I get spinal swelling every once in a while if I overdue my exercise but other than that no issues!
Smiles-Yea great results! I have no idea how you can have the strength not to know the sex!
VJean-PICS!
Moni-what is a healthy number of follicles?
AFM-work has been so busy so it has distracted me this tww. I'm only at 4DPO so feeling nothing yet! This weekend we are going to a wedding. So I will be the sober driver since I'm in TWW. I can't wait to see DH in his tux, he looks so amazing in them!
Smiles-Yea great results! I have no idea how you can have the strength not to know the sex!
VJean-PICS!
Moni-what is a healthy number of follicles?
AFM-work has been so busy so it has distracted me this tww. I'm only at 4DPO so feeling nothing yet! This weekend we are going to a wedding. So I will be the sober driver since I'm in TWW. I can't wait to see DH in his tux, he looks so amazing in them!
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