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Brother in law has just announced they are expecting again:wacko: What gets me is she is Breast feeding and he had the snip 6 months ago...WTF! how does that work??
 
Hi Ladies - I'm coming back to you all. :flower: I had my D&C last Friday, so it's been a week. I've been stalking the last few days, but certainly am not caught up on what's up for everyone. I haven't had my post op appointment yet. Hopefully that will be next week. I'll talk to my doctor then about when we can TTC again. We'll probably wait until after my first AF as DH is nervous about trying before leading to another miscarriage. I dare say this whole process was as hard (harder?) on him that it has been on me, despite it being pretty awful for me. Hoping to get back on the TTC train soon. I've felt a little lost lately, so I'm happy to have a place to come back to.

:hi: to all!

Most of all, Sis. Huge :hugs: Such an awful thing. No words really. Re: the D&C cost, I looked into some ways to encourage a miscarriage as I was hoping to have it naturally. No luck for me (but I only tried for a week), but let me know if you're interested.
 
Thanks Radkat I think we will just move forward W the DC since its been 20 days or so since the baby stopped growing and I'm only getting mild cramping now and then Plus they will be doing a lot of testing!!

I spoke to the lady at he Hospital and she explained that my Dr ordered a Ton of test so that is why the cost is higher and DH is good w that as we BOTH want answers!!

I go MON for Labs and stuff B4 the D&C on Tue!! :(
 
Sis, That makes a lot more sense about the costs, and I agree, it is definitely worth it to find some answers at the end of this terrible time. My thoughts continue to be with you. <3

Radkat--Glad to hear from you again. Hoping the healing has begun for you. It's just a terrible thing. :(

Moni--I guess I was out of the loop and didn't realize that you are ready to go again with testing! That's fantastic and FX!

Atty--hope the new job is going well and you like it, despite the earlier wake up time!
 
Sis-OMG! That's so expensive but hopefully you will have answers.

Radkat-:hugs: I am so glad to see you are back. I hope you get the all clear TTC again!
 
Sis, i dont blame you for wanting all those tests, I would be the exact same way. I hope you get some answers. I know this is hard and you are hurting so much mentally and emotionally. My thoughts are with you, Hun. I'm glad you don't have to wait two weeks also. We'll all be with you in spirit.

Radkat, great to see you back! I wondered about starting to try again right after my CP, but since it was so early (not even five weeks), we went for it. At first my Dr said to wait a month, but then he said he didnt think it was that big of a deal to go ahead and start. But he wouldn't let me take the clomid for sure until after I had a real AF.

felcity, i know the feeling... my best friend where I grew up (she still lives there) has a ten-month old baby. She's my age and started trying a few months before me. She became prego in THREE months! And she just found out she's prego again, while breast feeding. I'm glad she had to tell me over the phone, because even though I'm super happy for her (I really do love her like a sister!), I did start crying, and i had to hide it from her.

Oh Moni, good luck, good luck!! Can't wait for an update!! Also, interesting to hear that you did the trigger the day after the Clomid... did you have your LH surge during that time? I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one who seemed to jump start right after the clomid. I dont do the trigger, but O is the only way to explain the temps, as far as I know!

Hi to Katie, Fezzle, kfs, Wish, Vjean, Solstyce, Atty, Oldermom, Smiles, Garfie, Blueshoney, TERRI (thought maybe we'd hear from her today, hehe!), and if I missed anyone, it doesnt mean I've forgotten you... I'm just scatter-brained lately with the way my job is going. So, Hi to all!
 
Thanks ladies Ur kind words help get me thru the Day!!! :hugs:

I just can't quite come to terms that it's over .... Its still very Unreal!! Not that I'm looking forward to Tue but maybe it will help give me Closure!! :nope:

It's even harder to think that I will be TTC Again I just hope it will be quick and will be Sticky!!!
 
Hey girls!
I'm back from the beautiful Bahamas. I was only able to lay out on the beach/pool one day. I was feeling so sick from Tuesday on, and still don't feel 100%. I can't keep anything down. I even yakked on Tuesday evening. So disgusting. Today I ate the most I could-3 small pieces of calamari, two mini croissants, a bite of a plain hamburger, and a couple cranberry/sprites. I think I've lost a few pounds, and my stomach and colon are completely empty...TMI? HA!!HA!! Blah....I'll catch up now. Hubs and I still took advantage of my fertile window. I just need to get better fast!
 
SIS-NO!!!! Huge :hugs: :hug: to you. I am so sorry. So you know I'm feeling sick, right? I wanted to run to the bathroom immediately when I read your news, but then I thought it wasn't true. I am now feeling sick to my stomach again. You've been through so much, you don't deserve this at all. I am glad that you can get your procedure done on Tuesday. That is a good thing. I can't imagine the pain of having to go through this without the smallest idea of anything going wrong. We <3 you, and you and your family are all in our prayers. Oh, and there is nothing that you could have done differently. There's a reason for everything, it'll just take a few weeks/months to realize what your future blessing is all about. :hugs:

I missed you guys too, big time. Glad to hear that everyone is doing fairly well...moni-Good luck to you tomorrow.

The March testing thread is not going well. I thought I'd have at least one BFP to come home to, so moni, I'll close my eyes until tomorrow morning. :wink wink: AF showed up for everyone so far. It's depressing.

Radkat-Welcome back. You were missed. I hope your doctor gives you the A-ok pretty soon too, but I'm sure it's all nerve wrecking.

I'm going to try to watch some basketball, and chill out. Hi and hugs to all. Oh and Roxy got adopted last Sunday to a family with another dog and some kids. I'm so happy for her. I miss her, though.
 
So happy to have you back miss Terri! I think it's a consensus that we missed you. :flower: Glad you had a nice trip, but so sorry you weren't/aren't feeling well. Hope you feel better tomorrow. Glad you got your BDing on during the "window". Holy temp spike is all I have left to say! Biggest I've seen! Did u do anything different this cycle?

Enjoy your bball, and get well soon dear.
 
SisI understand about wanting answers.... I felt the same way.... I know Tuesday seems so far away, but if you are like me, as soon as it was over I felt such relief..... I carried mine for 3 weeks before I found out and then another 2 weeks before I had an induction..... So I totally understand....:hugs::hugs:

Radkatbeen thinking of you honey, glad your back...:flower::flower:

felcityThat is odd, I'm lucky as all my friends are way past the idea of having babies, I'm the odd one out at my age, so I don't:flower: have to go through this.....

Terri Oh sweets so sorry you were poorly on your hols! I hope you feel better soon, and what a brave soldier to manage the BD while so ill! HE HE! Im glad that Roxy found a new forever family, but sad for you too....:flower::flower:

afm I poas just for the hell of it, I have got 50 of them! LOL Well I did have to test if they worked lol. as I am only 8dpo it was of course was bfn! :haha:
 
Your chart is looking mighty fine Atty:thumbup:

I think the news of pregnancy sort of hit me hard last night. I was like how easy do some people find it and especially against those odds!! I'm Ok today they are only young and I know she wanted another they have 3 boys so a little girl would be lovely for them. I have to realise I have had my time and have my beautiful children :flower:

Hope you ladies are having a lovely weekend, I am quite irritable today think OH would like to swap me for another lol :haha:
 
Your chart is looking mighty fine Atty:thumbup:

I did a "chart like yours" on FF this morning, did same O, timing and post O temp, came back with just 3, yes 3 charts!!!! all Ovulatory.... Seems I am having a very unique cycle! :haha::haha::haha:
 
Ha Ha Atty, I've tried that before but I'm not a member so it wouldn't do it :wacko:

I can't believe how late I have ovulated this month, It's a first for me :shrug:
 
Ha Ha Atty, I've tried that before but I'm not a member so it wouldn't do it :wacko:

I can't believe how late I have ovulated this month, It's a first for me :shrug:

I don't care when I ovulate lol just that I still do!!!! :happydance::happydance:

My FF membership ends in 10 days, not sure I will renew this time...... It will stop me from playing on the damn thing :dohh::haha:
 
I don't care when I ovulate lol just that I still do!!!! :happydance::happydance:

My FF membership ends in 10 days, not sure I will renew this time...... It will stop me from playing on the damn thing :dohh::haha:[/QUOTE]

With you on that one lol :thumbup:
 
ERose-The thing I did differently was get sick. ha ha. Nope...not one thing different, unfortunately. I was up every two hours on Tuesday night, and didn't get a good night's sleep. I only took my temp on Wednesday because I thought it was O day, and I was right. I may discard it later, but when I removed it last night, it didn't have me ovulating at all, so I left it. And...I think if I wasn't sick, my 97.9 temp this morning wouldn't seem so drastic. I usually have the one temp below coverline around day 4-7, so I'm fine with that.

Atty-Yeah, it sucked being sick on vacation, and now I'm back home and have a million and one things to do including calling the travel insurance for reimbursement. We missed our connecting flight and had to get a flight on another airline. Thank goodness there was one more flight out or we'd be stuck in the Bahamas for another day at some sketchy hotel somewhere. Hope week two of your job is better. I don't have cell service at work either, but I can get BnB on the web, so I'm lucky there. I guess they want you to be productive or something..the nerve!

Felcity-Are you sure the brother in law got the snip? I have heard of it not being done properly and accidents happen, but that is just wild that they are now having their fourth baby even though they wanted to stop after 3, and made precautions. A little jealous over here...

Sis-How are you doing today? I see you are still temping. Do you feel bad doing that? You and hubs should do something special today-just the two of you. Walk in the park, get some ice cream or go to a movie....just do something nice for each other. :flower:
 
Terri I guess I'm still temping so I know if I get a drop something BAD will surely happen!:nope:
I haven't really felt like going out in Public the Rodeo was Hell but I did it for my boys we r gong to grill Hamburgers and try to Enjoy the weather!!

I'm working on DS2s dresser it keeps my mind off of things for a short period of time!! ;)
 
Your chart is looking mighty fine Atty:thumbup:

I did a "chart like yours" on FF this morning, did same O, timing and post O temp, came back with just 3, yes 3 charts!!!! all Ovulatory.... Seems I am having a very unique cycle! :haha::haha::haha:

Your chart is already triphasic atty. :winkwink: you should look up triphasic chart with BFPs and see if any were similar to yours. Hehe! It's a fun pastime anyway! :flower:
 

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