OMG feel really hurt now :( Dont know what to do!!

confront him about it tonight, see what he says, hes horrible feeling like u are , you have to get it off your chest x

 

Awww I really dont know what to say chick.....I have a harsh view to any kind of cheating, but when theres a baby involved its always so much different....you really just need to talk to him and ask what its about! x

 

Oh hun No words of advice I'm afraid, but my OH has done similar stuff in the past, I know how devrstating it is. Huuuge I hope someone else can give you good advice because I'd be a hypocrite doing it, I've put up with far too much with my OH. I hope it's all in the past and he's behaved himself since, you shouldn't have to deal with that crap while you're pregnant xx

 

Aw hunny, i'd be open and honest with him and just say what youve said there. I'd be upset too sweetie even although it was only a few months you's had been together you were still together!! xxx

 

Ask him out straight hunny xox

Hope you get it sorted soon xx

 

That kind of thing is never nice - even if it was early doors. Hope it is a thing of the past only. And defo put him through the ringer so he thinks more than twice!

 

I agree with this - its not gonna be easy to do, but its better to be honest with him and hope he is honest with you xxx

 

That reply stinks if you ask me ...

If you want to talk, we are here for you hunni

 

You have no right to be angry?!?!?!?! I'd slap him silly!

You defo need to confront him face to face and see if he's lying. If he did send them hopefully he will admit it and you both come to some kind or agreement. He's only making things worse for himself if he denys it more.

Me and my OH have been through similar situations in our early relationship x

 

id go round ur mums and make him think about it some more when he comes back and realises ur not there. Who else could it have been if it wasnt him? Thats nonsence. He's just making it worse by lying about it. Txt him and say that u want to discuss it when he gets home. The only way your going to know the truth is if u confront him face to face. After that go wit your gutt. Big hugs sweety - its a horrble thing to have to deal with, let alone having to deal with it when ur pregnant"! x

 

Sweetie that text was a guilty text! how long till he is home? I wouldn't stand for that and i wouldnt be there waiting for him!!! "Youre one silly girl" how patronising is that!!? I'd be boiling now and packing a bag!! All the best hunny i hope he realises what he may loose and apologise MAJORLY to you!! xxx

 

Im sorry but that is the most shittiest reply ever. He shouldn't reply like that if he actually cared......... Sounds like hes trying to convince to me but I can be wrong. Good luck hun and im sorry.

 

I would be gutted if it was me theres a fine line between flirting and laughing and joking with the opposite sex then theres that sort of thing, confront him if he cant explain it then walk, i think you will have trouble trusting him otherwise xxx

 

I agree

 

im not inpressed with his message in reply either. he sounds to me like he thinks you will come running back just like that and it not matter. he doesnt seem to care at all.

i know its not a nice thought but id get ur mum to pick u up and leave. give him time to come running back. he will see what he just lost and know to treat u better.

 

sounds like something i have delt with before.. ended up he told me the truth in the end.. usually men will say "it was not me and you are crazy if you think that, you know me.. blah blah blah"... because they know its the truth and they don't want u to know it even though u saw it thinking you will forget about it.. it is up to you if u want to believe him or not..did you have your talk? Let me know how that went.... crap sweety i am studying psychology and still have problems in my marriage lol...if a man can lie about one thing.. it makes u wonder what else they have lied about and if they're telling thruth from here on out.. my husband has lied to me numerous of times to where I honestly have 0% of trust in him.. we are falling apart fast.. he says he don't love me no more.. and blah blah.. us women are strong!!! I hope you two can work this out! I will be thinking about u.. please keep me updated... even if u wanna leave me visitor messages on my profile or message me on yahoo at dragonflykween. Much Luv...Teresa

 

How could he say it wasn't him, if you read it!?? WTF???

I would talk to him when he gets home. See how he acts. He sounded a bit cold in his message. I really don't get it, cheating is the worst thing anyone can do to someone, it's just heartbreaking. Hopefully it wasn't true... I hope you can work it out. Keep us updated.