Alicia_&_Kev
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ok so me and OH have only been together for a year now, but met in college 6 years ish ago, and have liked eachother since (always flirting and were meeting up years ago then someone told him i told him 2 F off or something)
Anyway i just went on to face book and he's was signed on, i know i shouldnt have but i went on the sent messages,
and there was one to a girl we used to go to college with also from her saying 'ill then strip you naked' and then a reply from him saying 'and then what? ' All the rest had obviously been deleted
I know we had at that point only been together a couple of months but its still the fact that i didnt think he could do that!!??
Anyway at mo i live at he's and dont know whether to get my mum to come pick me up and take some time to think...
I'd never even been jelous or thought he could possibly do a thing like this, i thought i knew him so well!!
What should i do?? please help!!
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**updated**
Well came home and i wouldnt talk to him (think the only reason i was still here at that exact point was cos my mum was at work till late lol)
And his response was... whats wrong with you?? what the hell do you think??!!??
Anyway i showed him the messages and he still insisted that it wasnt him and that someone else must have sent them :S??
After i kind of went mad telling him i wasnt bloody stupid!! and hes 22 mot 15! his friends arent gonna go onto something and pretend to be him!!! think he realized he sounded like a bloody idiot and told me he cant remember sending them and that he was never interested in her anyway, well i can half believe that lol. He said he has loved me since we met and wouldnt risk losing me or the baby for anything...
So gave him the benefit of the doubt as he has never ever given me any reason what so ever to not trst him before now...
Up until now hes always been like really loving and text me like every half an hour and so on..
I've Not heard a thing since he went to work today so am just going to see how things go and decide from there...
Thank you so much for all your support ladies your all soo lovely and great people!!
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Anyway i just went on to face book and he's was signed on, i know i shouldnt have but i went on the sent messages,
and there was one to a girl we used to go to college with also from her saying 'ill then strip you naked' and then a reply from him saying 'and then what? ' All the rest had obviously been deleted
I know we had at that point only been together a couple of months but its still the fact that i didnt think he could do that!!??
Anyway at mo i live at he's and dont know whether to get my mum to come pick me up and take some time to think...
I'd never even been jelous or thought he could possibly do a thing like this, i thought i knew him so well!!
What should i do?? please help!!
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**updated**
Well came home and i wouldnt talk to him (think the only reason i was still here at that exact point was cos my mum was at work till late lol)
And his response was... whats wrong with you?? what the hell do you think??!!??
Anyway i showed him the messages and he still insisted that it wasnt him and that someone else must have sent them :S??
After i kind of went mad telling him i wasnt bloody stupid!! and hes 22 mot 15! his friends arent gonna go onto something and pretend to be him!!! think he realized he sounded like a bloody idiot and told me he cant remember sending them and that he was never interested in her anyway, well i can half believe that lol. He said he has loved me since we met and wouldnt risk losing me or the baby for anything...
So gave him the benefit of the doubt as he has never ever given me any reason what so ever to not trst him before now...
Up until now hes always been like really loving and text me like every half an hour and so on..
I've Not heard a thing since he went to work today so am just going to see how things go and decide from there...
Thank you so much for all your support ladies your all soo lovely and great people!!
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