As the title suggests I feel a bit bad for feeling like this, but I just have to say something. Hubby and I are pregnant with our first child and we are adamant that for the first couple of weeks we're going to keep it really low key when bubs come home. Just a few visitors (grandparents etc) and that's it while we get to know little one and get a routine as a family. Now I know I shouldn't judge but a friend of ours just had a little girl. He has so far (in the week she's been home) put an open invite on facebook for all his friends to come and see, and then had a party at the weekend. His wife just seems shattered on all the photos I've seen and personally if hubby had done this to me I really would consider divorce as an option! What do we think girls? Am I just being judgemental?