Sorry but I need to get these pregnancy hormones off my chest. Back story...me and my mom have never really been best of friends. Never really saw eye to eye. She was the only one visibly upset about my pregnancy (it was unplanned) so I haven't really talked to her much since being preggo. About 2 months ago she had made comments about my fiancee (he's recently unemployed for health reasons...and she tries to butt in but its non of her business really...) and it really upset us. When I confronted her about it...she first denied it then blamed it on other people (nothing is EVER her fault and she will never take responsibility for anything arrrrhhhh) So I haven't seen her or talked to her since xmas...not that she's made an effort either. Anyways...my brothers gf who is like a sister to me asked me to throw a shower for me. She asked my mom for adresses of my grandma and aunt....her response? "Well as of now I doubt they will come since they are all not happyy with her" Wth? Becuz I'm not best buddies with u and don't call u every night so you can chew my ear off with ur drunken rants? Piss off! What's worse is that I did NOTHING. To my family but she thinks they won't come cuz SHE'S mad at me?! Fine don't then. I don't need that in my or my babys life. She's such a negitive person. It makes me so angry. Sorry this probably makes no sense but I'm just so upset by it. Thanks for reading...anyone else not super close with their mom? My OH hates her for how she acts..it used to bug me and now I could care less if she's in my life or the babys. Does that make me an awful person? Arg.