wannabmum
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Hi guys,
I'm so glad this section has been added to bnb as lately I haven't felt like I belong anywhere.
Hers is a quick run down to our journey Dh & I started ttc in Nov 04 when nothing was happening went for checks & turns out DH has obstructive azoospermia had our first private IVF/ICSI 2008 bfn followed by NHS IVF/ICSI 2009 BFP followed by mc at 4+6 I had planned on another IVF/ICSI later that year but decided to hold off as felt I needed more time to make sure I was strong enough to go threw it all again then early this year found out my sis was pg again, she is single mother of 3 and tbh finds it very hard to cope with kids she has she was on the depo when she got pg this time, she knew of dh & my probs & had said to my mum that she definatly did not want anymore children however she would feel bad terminating knowing the probles DH & I were having & if DH & I wanted to legaly adopt baby she would go threw with preg but if not she would terminate(Not nice to say but just being honest about situation) we decided we did want to adopt baby, now at this point I would like to make it clear I would have wanted to adopt this baby even if it was not for our infertility. At this point she did not know how far on she was as she was not having af with depo & the way her health board work you must meet with midwife before you get sent app for scan & the midwife was fully booked for next few weeks so I took her for a private scan just to get a rough idea of how far on she was & to make sure everything was ok that was on the 1st of March at this scan we found out she had at least 12 completed weeks & that was baby boy, so next we had to wait for scan with hospital which believe it or not we only got on the 11th of this month!! they gave edd of 29/08/10 but said she may be bit earlier as it is hard to date correctly later in preg, well we took her back for another private scan yesterday in 3d/4d got pics +dvd of full scan was so great to see our beautiful little boy here are some pics
this last one is of his feet
I would also like to add adoption is always something I have wanted to do as strage as this may sound it is something I wanted to do since i was a very young child.
I'm so glad this section has been added to bnb as lately I haven't felt like I belong anywhere.
Hers is a quick run down to our journey Dh & I started ttc in Nov 04 when nothing was happening went for checks & turns out DH has obstructive azoospermia had our first private IVF/ICSI 2008 bfn followed by NHS IVF/ICSI 2009 BFP followed by mc at 4+6 I had planned on another IVF/ICSI later that year but decided to hold off as felt I needed more time to make sure I was strong enough to go threw it all again then early this year found out my sis was pg again, she is single mother of 3 and tbh finds it very hard to cope with kids she has she was on the depo when she got pg this time, she knew of dh & my probs & had said to my mum that she definatly did not want anymore children however she would feel bad terminating knowing the probles DH & I were having & if DH & I wanted to legaly adopt baby she would go threw with preg but if not she would terminate(Not nice to say but just being honest about situation) we decided we did want to adopt baby, now at this point I would like to make it clear I would have wanted to adopt this baby even if it was not for our infertility. At this point she did not know how far on she was as she was not having af with depo & the way her health board work you must meet with midwife before you get sent app for scan & the midwife was fully booked for next few weeks so I took her for a private scan just to get a rough idea of how far on she was & to make sure everything was ok that was on the 1st of March at this scan we found out she had at least 12 completed weeks & that was baby boy, so next we had to wait for scan with hospital which believe it or not we only got on the 11th of this month!! they gave edd of 29/08/10 but said she may be bit earlier as it is hard to date correctly later in preg, well we took her back for another private scan yesterday in 3d/4d got pics +dvd of full scan was so great to see our beautiful little boy here are some pics
this last one is of his feetI would also like to add adoption is always something I have wanted to do as strage as this may sound it is something I wanted to do since i was a very young child.
xxx
What a lovely thing for your sister to do for you. I bet you are all really excited to meet the little man! 
xx
, thank you so much 
, feels so real now picked up all his stuff today so his crib, pram, rocking cradle, swing etc are all set up now feel so much more real just cant wait to meet him 
