BiltonBaby
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everyone , my story is a complicated but probably not a new one. I am 41 and got married for the 2nd time last year to my first love. I have 2 children from my first marriage, now 18 and 22. My husband has never been married and does not have children and so I am hoping that we can have 1 or 2 of our own. I have several issues that could and most likely will complicate this whole process. I had my tubes tied about 12 years ago positive that I would not want any more children. I then had my right ovary removed about 2 years later as I was getting repeated cysts on the ovary. Now here we are! I had my tubes reversed in November and this is my second month on Clomid. My doctor is cautiously optimistic and is being "aggressive" in our quest.
I am on my second month of Clomid 50mg and the side effects that I have experienced are hot flashes (horrible), insomnia and mood swings (then again may be just my personality ). I attempted to do the whole BBT charting but after 3 months I just could not get the hang of it and of course in conjunction with my first cycle of Clomid this was no picnic. I have also used opks for the last 3 months and they are no treat either. The first month I used Clearblue as per the directions on the box and did not get one positive! After some research I learned that the dollar store tests are just as reliable and a whole bunch cheaper. The second month I used the cheapies and got faint lines for 2 days but nothing that indicated a "+". Enter research once again and found that some women surge for a only a few hours, so if you dont test during this window (likely while at work or whatnot) you will never even know you surged. So, I took a different approach and tested twice a day this cycle, once using SMU and then again in the evening beginning on cd 10 as per instruction. I got a faint line on the evening of cd 12 and by the next evening cd 13 they were what is described as +. [enter confusion] the + remained 2 x per day until cd 19 (May 25) when I ran out of tests (I think I may be addicted...damn sticks!)
To add to the mix my periods are and always have been erratic and can be anywhere from 28 - 32 in length (on average) and with all the + opk tests I have absolutely NO idea when I ovulated. While my DH is not exactly put out by all the I can truthfully admit that it is starting to get unexciting.
I am now on cd19 and am experiencing sore nipples, tender breasts (on the sides), achiness in my lower back and abdomen, the world's worst thirst and cannot even drink a coffee. I even thought I had started my period as I felt this gush of what turned out to be watery cm, sorry for the TMI and have been having these sharp twinges of pain in my left ovary area. With all of the positives I do not know what to think...I have no idea if I even ovulated for goodness sake!
If anyone has or is experiencing similar issues or any advice (other than stop peeing on sticks ) please reply, it will go a long way to calming some of my anxiety.
Good luck to you all on your quest to motherhood
I am on my second month of Clomid 50mg and the side effects that I have experienced are hot flashes (horrible), insomnia and mood swings (then again may be just my personality ). I attempted to do the whole BBT charting but after 3 months I just could not get the hang of it and of course in conjunction with my first cycle of Clomid this was no picnic. I have also used opks for the last 3 months and they are no treat either. The first month I used Clearblue as per the directions on the box and did not get one positive! After some research I learned that the dollar store tests are just as reliable and a whole bunch cheaper. The second month I used the cheapies and got faint lines for 2 days but nothing that indicated a "+". Enter research once again and found that some women surge for a only a few hours, so if you dont test during this window (likely while at work or whatnot) you will never even know you surged. So, I took a different approach and tested twice a day this cycle, once using SMU and then again in the evening beginning on cd 10 as per instruction. I got a faint line on the evening of cd 12 and by the next evening cd 13 they were what is described as +. [enter confusion] the + remained 2 x per day until cd 19 (May 25) when I ran out of tests (I think I may be addicted...damn sticks!)
To add to the mix my periods are and always have been erratic and can be anywhere from 28 - 32 in length (on average) and with all the + opk tests I have absolutely NO idea when I ovulated. While my DH is not exactly put out by all the I can truthfully admit that it is starting to get unexciting.
I am now on cd19 and am experiencing sore nipples, tender breasts (on the sides), achiness in my lower back and abdomen, the world's worst thirst and cannot even drink a coffee. I even thought I had started my period as I felt this gush of what turned out to be watery cm, sorry for the TMI and have been having these sharp twinges of pain in my left ovary area. With all of the positives I do not know what to think...I have no idea if I even ovulated for goodness sake!
If anyone has or is experiencing similar issues or any advice (other than stop peeing on sticks ) please reply, it will go a long way to calming some of my anxiety.
Good luck to you all on your quest to motherhood