sunlover72
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Hi all
My partner and i have been trying for over 3 years for our first. Im 39, my partner is 45 and will be 46 in a couple of months.
We had tests 3 years ago, my Swimmers were fine and she got good results as well, yet in that time we have had one bfp which didnt stick .
Due to health issues we havent been able to try for the last 12 months or so but now those health issues are resolved we are looking at ttc again.
I am worried though that we are conning ourselves that this can happen naturally.. and i know every cycle where the tests come out negative and AF arrives knock her back.
And im not sure its good to put her through that.
So- does anyone have reliable figures on the chances of getting pregnant naturally at 45/46? has anyone here gotten pregnant over 45 perhaps?
Some sites seem to say the chances are 'practically nill' others say the opposite.
We are also looking at IVF, probably with donor eggs, although obviously it has to be something she is totally comfortable with
Thanks
edit- just realised i am now 40!!!
My partner and i have been trying for over 3 years for our first. Im 39, my partner is 45 and will be 46 in a couple of months.
We had tests 3 years ago, my Swimmers were fine and she got good results as well, yet in that time we have had one bfp which didnt stick .
Due to health issues we havent been able to try for the last 12 months or so but now those health issues are resolved we are looking at ttc again.
I am worried though that we are conning ourselves that this can happen naturally.. and i know every cycle where the tests come out negative and AF arrives knock her back.
And im not sure its good to put her through that.
So- does anyone have reliable figures on the chances of getting pregnant naturally at 45/46? has anyone here gotten pregnant over 45 perhaps?
Some sites seem to say the chances are 'practically nill' others say the opposite.
We are also looking at IVF, probably with donor eggs, although obviously it has to be something she is totally comfortable with
Thanks
edit- just realised i am now 40!!!