hi, just looking for a little reassurance that i'm right, really, 90% this is nothing... Last night me and DH were um, reconnecting as a couple and he performed oral sex on me (he didn't blow in my vagina though, like all the books weirdly warn you about lol). Anyway, whilst enjoying this i was sort of arched up like i always do Today i have a dull but persistent pain in my upper abdomen, it feels like a pulled muscle from last night's activities, it's got worse tonight but only in a hurts to move sort of way and i reckon that's cos i'm shattered. I have had this before when it's been a while in between um, intense sessions However, like all 1st Tri ladies i'm a little paranoid and freaking out slightly because *of course* i googled it. really have to stop doing that. and now i'm concerned it's an ectopic pregnancy :s My plan is to try to get some sleep tonight and see if rest helps it. If not, ring NHS Direct in the morning and see what they say. Although I am somewhat reluctant to tell them the above tale lol and obviously if pain gets like so bad it's keeping me up then i definitely know something's wrong.