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[hopeful23456]

what's with all the swans in the UK? we have canadian geese here, they hiss when you walk by them.

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

anybody would think we starve them! lol

Im lonely tonight! OH has gone to his mums. Hes got a mportant interveiw tomorrow for uni and needs a clear head and good nights sleep so packed him off for the night

 

[daviess3]

Tracie let's starve them horrid things! I was only a bubba to! I love the odd night when hubby's out remote big bed lovely!! Haha! X

Hopeful yay 19 weeks! It's going so fast right? Can't believe it's nearly 20 week scan time! X

Saw my cousins baby today, she's gorg! Love a new born an a girl so exciting had lovely cuddles an chatted pregnancy an labour! X

 

[filipenko32]

Davies did you ever know your liming measurements with being on the clomid? X x

 

[croydongirl]

Fili - Sorry things are not simple for you. I hope that they can find some good answers for you soon.

Tracie - Holy Moley, I can't believe a swan came after you! so glad it didn't bite you or dive. I bet it was scary though, I hate big swans and geese up close.

Sorry I have been away today, been drowning in homework for big french test tomorrow, hubs was quizzing me on some verb conjugations while I was making dinner! I am hoping that I have revised what I needed and that some of of it will stick at least until tomorrows test! ha ha

I am so ready for the end of the quarter - after this week there is only a couple more to go! So excited...

I made stuffed peppers for dinner and they were delish, but I am regretting the spicy now.

Hope everyone is doing well.

I have to run to Target quickly to pick a few things up. I hope it's not too crowded. I just want to get in and out so I can come back and do a last once over of all my french stuff. tests make me nervous

Baby is moving around all over the place. I guess the spicy sauce has made him dance!

 

[heart tree]

Busy day today. No time to log in all day. I missed you girls!

Hopeful, happy 19 weeks. Mangos are some of my favorite fruit. I picked one up the other day and marveled at its size in my hand.

Charmer, sorry this is so difficult for you. I’m glad you had some more sickness though. I know how awful it feels physically, but it can make you feel so much better emotionally.

Fili, good luck with the saline sono tomorrow. I’m sorry your body isn’t cooperating the way you want it to. But it will happen. Just a little longer to wait unfortunately. But the lack of scarring is a very, very good thing.

Tracie, I can’t believe that happened! Hope Izzy is ok!

Haley, welcome. I hope this baby is your keeper. We’re glad to have you. You are in such the early stages, you will need as much support as possible. We’re here to help.

Mom2, that’s great news. Friday is almost here! I’m glad you are feeling more confident. I’m thinking pink for you.

Bumpy, you’ve seen a great hb. You can sigh some relief. Of course you are still worried, but you crossed a huge hurdle with your last scan. Lack of nausea isn’t always an indication of a failed pregnancy. You are probably just one of the lucky ones. Enjoy it! Roll on Friday for you too!

Croy, Bonne chance on your test! I’m sure you’ll do great. You’re getting close to the end! And close to your anatomy/gender scan! I can’t wait for you!!! So sweet that you are feeling more movement. I just love it. I could feel it all day!

Adrienne, where are you? Good luck on your scan tomorrow hon.

Hi to everyone else!

I feel like I pulled a muscle in my neck/back. It’s like I slept on it wrong, except I didn’t wake up with it. I think it might have been from all the leaning over I was doing when I was sewing. I just want to finish my friend’s baby blanket, but can’t now because it hurts so much.

Hubby is off to Europe on Thursday. I’ll make sure he says hello to all you lovelies across the pond! He is a musician and played me a song he wrote while we were driving to my father’s the other day. I wasn’t really paying attention to the lyrics. He told me to listen to them and started playing the song again. It became very apparent that it was a song about our losses and how much he loves me. I started crying and made him turn the song off. I couldn’t listen to it as it was making me a blubbering mess. I finally felt strong enough to listen to it tonight. It is soooo beautiful! I couldn’t believe he wrote that for me. He’s not done with the song yet, but some day I promise I’ll post it for you along with the lyrics. I’m a lucky girl.

 

[daviess3]

Ah lovely heart, how sweet. X
Fili I was never monitored babe! Nhs great not!! X

Croy yum love peppers can't do spicy right now though?! Did it give u heartburn? X

Morning ladies 3x how's ur sickness? As much as I felt awful with mine I loved the symptom but was so hard just bein home without lil one about! Puppy has had it bad! How R u pup? X

Jen where u ur normally here by now? I got work today! Yuk! It's ok it's the thought that's worse! X

Hopeful are you feeling lots of movement with ur twins? X

Lou how u feeling any twinges.? My cousin yesterday said out through the contractions ie 1-60 it helps! She said they were the worsed bit but you will surprise urself she had only gas an air an she has a very low pain threshold! She said moving an bein on all fours helped! X

 

[bumpyplease]

Heart your husband sounds like the sweetest guy a real keeper!!!!

Davies I have a bird phobia too!!!! Especially pigeons!! I have to cross the street if I see one!!!!

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

I feel like iv lost my left arm... hated being without my OH. house feels empty and i didnt sleep. Didnt help a certain diva snores!

 

[jenny25]

Sorry Davies I've had a shit time last night Paul and I went to lakeside shopping centre I was so excited to gk maternity shopping and baby shopping I was in primark getting some tops to wear with leggings for the better weather hubby had a face like fizz the whole time I picked up a packet of baby grows and vests and he was like I thought you weren't buying anything yet which sent me into tears I out the stuff back cause it was like he was saying don't buy anything the whole shoppig trip was ruined he even screwed up his nose at 30.00 maternity jeans in next I honestly have not felt more crap and he took the whole excitement away from me he tried Togo back and get the baby stuff but I told there was no point cause he runined it and don't have the same feeling

 

[puppycat]

Thanks Davies. I'm doing ok, day 8 with no sick have had problems the other end which we won't discuss in too much detail! Lets say dehydration has a knock on effect.

Jeff had an interesting day yesterday, he decided to eat safety pins.... Cost us £300 to resolve. Joy.

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

Sorry that upset you jen. I do kinda see his point of not buying anything. My OH and my mum made me promise i wouldnt buy anything for baby untill 20 weeks. It killed me once i hit 12 weeks as i wanted to buy but i knew it was for the best. They were just looking out for me.

Im sure you hubby isnt doing it to be a pain or boring hes just looking out for you, im sure he wasnt trying to make you feel shit. once 20 weeks came i hit the shops with all my pennies id saved.

xxx

 

[jenny25]

Thanks hun it's just with our history this is the furthest we have gone with no problems an the stuff and meds injections I take too stay pregnant it was like a little reward for me in another way I feel like I've lost control of my pregnancy like I want to find out te sex he is on on two minds his mum don't wanna know and his aunt and they are forcing it on me not too find out then we were talking about the birth and his mum wants the whole fricking steer practically there it's not a show that you can buy tickets for I don't know what too do xx

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

i wouldnt have that....

I had to be cruel to be kind.. my dad thought i would want my mum there, and so did my mum. I kinda got in a heated discussion about it with my dad and my mum heard! I upset her even tho to this day she still hasnt told me i upset her. I stuck to my guns and i explained to my whole family why it will only be me and OH in there. And when it came to it when i thought the hospital would send me home ( didnt expect to be so close lol ) my mum said omg dont come here i wont no what to do if your waters go lol she would have paniced aswell and not sure i could have done with another person fussing when they rushed izzy off because she was limp

Put your foot down, sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. My mum and dad came up 2 hours after i had izzy. and i was happy with that.

xx

 

[filipenko32]

Jen I agree with tracie Hun that is hard x x x

Got my appointment for the saline scan at 12.30 this afternoon, very nervous, not sure if it will hurt or not but more nervous about the results!!!

 

[filipenko32]

what's with all the swans in the UK? we have canadian geese here, they hiss when you walk by them.

Hopeful all the swans in the UK belong to the queen!! Weird but true so if you hurt one it's considered 'treason' and you get put in prison. Isn't that ridiculous??!

 

[jenny25]

Sorry darling my iPhone gives me fat fingers xx

Yeah I'm going to have to say this my mum and oh is going to be there cause she missed out on my first as she was ill in hospital so she is traveling 400 miles the birth is long way away but you know I don't want my pregnancy spoiled and Paul has already said to his mum about who I want there and not xx

 

[jenny25]

Thanks filli xxx good luck today lovely xxx

 

[puppycat]

Fili on the One Show on Monday they were explaining that some swans are now privately owned by wildlife trusts, swan sanctuaries etc. The yellow foot bands mean 'queen', orange means other. Check the foot and then beat it up! Lol

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

i dont care who they belong to, touch my child il go kung fu on its feathery ass!