I'm 6 weeks pregnant tomorrow. It was my partners idea to start trying and we got pregnant on the first go. I'm really happy but also nervous as we already have a 15 month old and live on the opposite side of the world to our families.
My partner seems to show no interest in the pregnancy at all. I've been throwing up pretty much constantly for the past week and he's being really insensitive about it. I spend most of the day wretching and I can't help it. Every time I do it, he just rolls his eyes.
On Tuesday he was at work and our daughter was at nursery. I'd usually use that day to get stuff done around the house but I was feeling so crappy. Every time I moved I would throw up! I text him saying "don't expect me to have done anything when you get home, I'm feeling really rough and have spent most of the day with my head in the toilet".
He text back saying that was fine, but when he got home he was really stroppy, walking around tidying up and banging around. I asked what was wrong and he said that he didn't expect me to have ACTUALLY done nothing and he was frustrated about it.
Since then, I'm scared to tell him I feel sick. I'm walking around the house with a carrier bag incase I need to be sick and can't get to the toilet. I'm feeling so awful and he has zero understanding. He hasn't shown me any support so far and last night, he even asked me if I'd consider a termination! I told him no and that I'd rather be a single mother than do that and that I was upset he wanted that. He told me he didn't actually want a termination but was just interested in my thoughts on it!!
I'm so confused why he's being like this when he was the one who wanted to try for another one. I have no family or close friends here so I'm feeling completely alone.
I'm not sure what to do
My partner seems to show no interest in the pregnancy at all. I've been throwing up pretty much constantly for the past week and he's being really insensitive about it. I spend most of the day wretching and I can't help it. Every time I do it, he just rolls his eyes.
On Tuesday he was at work and our daughter was at nursery. I'd usually use that day to get stuff done around the house but I was feeling so crappy. Every time I moved I would throw up! I text him saying "don't expect me to have done anything when you get home, I'm feeling really rough and have spent most of the day with my head in the toilet".
He text back saying that was fine, but when he got home he was really stroppy, walking around tidying up and banging around. I asked what was wrong and he said that he didn't expect me to have ACTUALLY done nothing and he was frustrated about it.
Since then, I'm scared to tell him I feel sick. I'm walking around the house with a carrier bag incase I need to be sick and can't get to the toilet. I'm feeling so awful and he has zero understanding. He hasn't shown me any support so far and last night, he even asked me if I'd consider a termination! I told him no and that I'd rather be a single mother than do that and that I was upset he wanted that. He told me he didn't actually want a termination but was just interested in my thoughts on it!!
I'm so confused why he's being like this when he was the one who wanted to try for another one. I have no family or close friends here so I'm feeling completely alone.
I'm not sure what to do