Passed the baby today

[mummy2be123]

I wish I never even had to post on this section as long as everyone else ... its horrible

I found out I had a miscarriage yesterday as I have been bleeding and I was adviced to go back for a re scan next friday but it looked like a failed pregnancy.

I have passed the baby today and I am losing clots its horrible but I have my families support and my beautiful son to keep me going.

I am bleeding like crazy! Now I know its normal but how long do you usually bleed for after a MC? I just want to get it over and done with and the pains to stop and the bleeding too!

I am sorry for all your losses I would not wish this on anyone I am so gutted xxxxx

 

[lauren1991]

Hiyah,

I bled for about 2 weeks after and was having massive clots the size of my hand etc, i still was slightly sore but the pain eased off, but it was sore to have sex for about a month afterwards with me but then again everyone is different.

So sorry for you loss, there is nothing worse.

I know the feeling......

Hope this helps to answer ur question.... even if just a little.

L xx

 

[susan36]

im so sorry for your loss . i know how how you must feel . sending a big massive to you xxx

 

[shirlls]

I am so sorry, if you need to talk you can message me anytime.

I don't know how far on you were? I was over 5 weeks and I bled for nearly a week if that helps at all?

Thinking of you and sending you lots of love and hugs

xxxx

 

[mummy2be123]

Hi thanks for your replies ... I am soooo sad and gutted ..

Well my LMP period was the 5th july but I had my dates as 7 weeks 4 days yesterday the sac measured 3mm which is 6-7 weeks.

I really want to be pregnant again I wanted this baby so badly i got used to the idea of having another the excitment of scans and my son having a baby brother or sister too.

My ex was not supportive he wanted me to have an abortion but i dont believe in them but he got what he wanted now hes not even supportive now he is not bothered but ive got a great family.

I am so sorry for your losses too life is soooooo cruel i have a scan on tuesday to check everything has come away ok xxxxxxx

 

[lauren1991]

I was on the same boat,

I was very young and my fiancee at the time got me pregnant convinced me it would be great etc and then cheated on me and got her pregnant too, wanted everything to do with her baby and nothing to do with ours.

Life is really cruel and im sure it will happen for you again just gotta keep the faith on this, im trying my hardest now after all these negative pregnancy tests.

Your body will have u pregnant when its ready for it again....

I was 11 weeks when it happend but the baby was dead inside me for a while.

I found it easier to name my baby, as i went to a psychic and she told me straight away i was having a girl so i called her Evie, made it easier to give her an identity, might help you never know.

Good Luck in the future and dont loose hope.

L xx

 

[chickyhippy]

we're all individual. My first one was about 3 days after the miscarry (because it came out in one lump) the second, I bled for 40 days in total and for about 2 weeks after I had spotting... hope you start to feel a bit better soon

 

[NewbieLisette]

OMG Mummy2be I'm soo sorry for your loss and can't believe there are so many other like us going through this cruel and horrible experience

I had my first scan on Monday and was told I had a MMC sometime during 8weeks...i got pills to insert and bleeding started early Tuesday morning...tappered off Wenesday but back yesterday along with all the pain and cramping!

God I wouldn't wish this kind of ache on my worst enemy

Here if you wanna talk/cry/vent

 

[JellyBeann]

I bled for about a week after x

 

[slurpie]

First MC (4-5 weeks), I bleed heavily for a week. HCG down to less than two a few days after.

Second MC (5-6 weeks), spotting, followed by light bleeding for a week. A month later HCG at 70. Not sure what's going on. One doctor said could be residual cells, now hoping to flush it out with pills to induce menstruation.

Hopefully it works!

 

[RosesOfTin]

I MC'd at 9+2 and was bleeding for a week before, had two emergency scans showing a healthy baby, then went in for a 9 week scan and they discovered no heartbeat. I was broken. They discussed D&C and I said no, that night I passed everything including the baby in an intact sac... I'm still haunted. I stopped bleeding right away... AF came back 3-4 weeks later... Had a regular cycle ever since.

 

[mummy2be123]

Thanks everyone for your replies and I am so sorry for your losses I am going for a tarot reading on friday I really hope she mentions my miscarriage I am not sure why but I just hope she does.

I have woke up this morning and I have passed more of the baby/sac in the night when I was asleep is that normal? Its massive and a lot bigger then what i passed the other day it freaked me out!

I have my scan on tuesday check everything has come away ok xx

 

[lauren1991]

Thanks everyone for your replies and I am so sorry for your losses I am going for a tarot reading on friday I really hope she mentions my miscarriage I am not sure why but I just hope she does.

I have woke up this morning and I have passed more of the baby/sac in the night when I was asleep is that normal? Its massive and a lot bigger then what i passed the other day it freaked me out!

I have my scan on tuesday check everything has come away ok xx

I passed mine literally in a night, the doctors brought in forceps but while she put the big plastic thing in like they do in smears etc it all just came away, only a few clots left after that.

U want her to mention it so u can have some closure i was the same, i burst into tears when she said i had a little girl.

L xx

 

[bfpsoon]

I feel for you hun, I'm going through the same. For the past 2 days I have been haemorrhaging like crazy, I have passed so many huge clots, I keep scooping them from toilet bowl in the hope I can make out the sac / baby. I don't want to flush it down the toilet, I was hoping to be able to plant it in a rose bush. But It all just looks the same, This is so distressing. And I wish no one had to go through this. I'm heartbroken!!

I hope our pain & bleeding stop soon, and we can get on with our grief.

I'm so sorry for your Loss

 

[Andypanda6570]

I am so deeply sorry xoxoxooxoox I am thinking of you

 

[WTBmyBFP]

So sorry for your losses!!

Still waiting for mine. 3 weeks post fetal demise (would have been 10 weeks) on this coming Tuesday, and scheduled for a d&c because the dr is starting to get worried about sepsis and infection. Terrified for the procedure, and hoping my body will get with the program before Tuesday. Don't think it will cause my BBs seem to still be tingling and I've got no cramping/bleeding. Ugh. It's the pits. Dumb body doesn't know it's over yet, though I've had weeks to try to wrap my mind around it.

Thank you all for the information, as horrible as your experiences are they give a little knowledge and therefor peace of mind to others. Thank you for the gift.

 

[CoachPowell38]

So sorry for your loss, I bleed for 5 days and then nothing...... I too want to get pregnant as soon as we can! <<<HUGS>>>>

 

[chiapso]

I was 10 weeks, natural mc I dilated 2cm had 4 contractions. I bled 2 days b4 mc and 4 days after, very heavy clotty but didn't last long at all.

 

[bfpsoon]

Well I've finally passed the baby yesterday, definitely could Differentiate the sac/baby from all the other large Clots I had been passing, so I was happy that I got to say goodbye and plant her in a rose bush. Contractions and pain have stopped and my Swollen tummy has now deflated.

When do you think is the right time to start again ? I was thinking of leaving it a month wait for my next af, then try again.

Biggest hugs ever to everyone thats suffered a MC

 

[lauren1991]

Well I've finally passed the baby yesterday, definitely could Differentiate the sac/baby from all the other large Clots I had been passing, so I was happy that I got to say goodbye and plant her in a rose bush. Contractions and pain have stopped and my Swollen tummy has now deflated.

When do you think is the right time to start again ? I was thinking of leaving it a month wait for my next af, then try again.

Biggest hugs ever to everyone thats suffered a MC

So sorry for your loss

Leave it 1-2 months just so ur periods regulate again, and then get back on the saddle

thats the advice my doctor gave me.

L xx