Hi ladies xx
I have posted here before, a couple of years ago..
But a lot has happened and just want to see if anyone has experienced anyung similar or got any advice
My story
My name is Leanne and I am from the uk..
We started trying for a baby in 2005,
After 12mths of trying we were sent for tests and I was diagnosed with pcos..
I was gaining weight fast and my chances of conceiving were dropping..
I was put on metformin for a bout a year, and when that didn't work I was given clomid and again no success..
I went back for a Check up and was told I wasn't eligible for ivf due to my weight - I offered to pay and was advised if I had the money pay for a gastric band as I would have a better chance of conceiving...
This was all between 2005/2011..
I went away devastated -
We decided to look in to other avenues..
Adoption..
We sent of for some info and went along to an open day,
And applied..
We were in a really good place apart from I was still gaining weight no matter what I did..
So I booked in and had a gastric band (5/11/11)
The weight started to come off and we were going through our adoption process, life was good..
Nov 2012 we met out DD 17mths & DS 7mths and I was 4st lighter xx
I couldn't of been happier..
With the weight loss, my periods returned every month..
Then march 2014 I started bleeding and never stopped - went to the doctors and was told it sounded like I was ovulating and was getting sent for tests..
I had some ovulatin kits at home from years ago, so thought I would try them -
Shock it was positive - they were positive for 5 days - something wasn't right..
So I bought myself a pregnancy test - low and behold there was a bfp ��
Because I was bleeding and cramping i called the local women's hospital.
They asked me to come in on the Wednesday (3days away)
I was excited but worried sick at the same time..
On the Tuesday I had really sharpe pains in my left side and they went..
Wednesday, we made our way to hospital excited to see our baby..
We were told, they couldn't see a baby but something was showing by my left ovary..
We were devistated...,
I was sent for a blood test and my hcg level came back at 2240..
They asked me to come back in 48hrs to see if it raised..
The following day I was in the shower and then I was doubled over in pain..
I was rushed to hospital
I had a scan and something had happend to my left side and was rushed in to surgery..
Outcome
Baby had ruptured through my left tube, that's what the pain was on Tuesday and formed a blood clot and burst, pain on Thursday..
They had to remove baby and my left tube����
I am 3wks post op and just looking to talk to someone or people with a similar experience xx
Feeling a little lost and confused xx
Thanks
Lea