Hi girls, had my 6 week check this morning, and now feel utter shite. I have been told I am overweight and need to lose a few pounds. I'm tall(5'9") and weigh 14.6 now, before I was pregnant I weighed 13.5. I am size 10/12 top and 14 trousers My doc said I should look at dieting! WTH?? Surely I ain't that bloody bad, and for god sake cut me some slack only gave birth 5min ago!! Also got a huge lecture on breastfeeding, breast is best etc, I expressed a lot at the beginning(had trouble with LO latching + very hungry baby) but then I got very low as I suffer a lot with depression, constantly pumping and not seeming to spend much time with my daughter. Why do these docs keep pushing? It's stuff I already know, I'm sorry but I feel bad enough not being able to breastfeed and not succeeding at it and I am just feeling worse now that I am FF. I also asked for advice about my saggy belly and stretch marks, and when I showed her my tum she said 'oh yes you do have a lot of stretch marks, they are very bad' I know I have!! & I'm asking you what I can do about it not asking you to comment about them. Grrr sorry but I just need to vent! I don't know why I bothered with this stupid check. Nothing was 'checked' anyway.