At my 30 week appointment I had asked my midwife about the safety of drinking raspberry leaf tea. She told me all the benefits of it and said to go ahead and start having one to two cups a day. She said it was perfectly safe but just to not drink too much. So I've been drinking it now for the past two weeks.
I had my baby shower on Saturday and at it I had mentioned that I was drinking the tea. My aunt then announced to everyone how dangerous it was and that it caused her friend to have a miscarriage. Another friend in the room who did drink it (but only in the week before her due date) then said that I was drinking it way to early and that I should only start 2 weeks before my due date or else it would send me into preterm labour. Everyone then started telling me how I was putting my baby in danger and that night my mom was freaking out at me for being irresponsible by taking it. Even though I told everyone my midwife was the one who told me it was perfectly safe to take!
I'm so frustrated! I've since stopped drinking it because now I'm terrified that if for some reason I go into early labour everyone will blame it on that and judge me for putting my baby's life in danger. Ugh I'm so upset. Clearly I would never do anything that posed any risk to my baby. I would never drink the tea if the midwife hadn't told me it was safe. Have any of you experienced people judging your decision to drink the tea? Is there actually any proof that it is not safe?
I had my baby shower on Saturday and at it I had mentioned that I was drinking the tea. My aunt then announced to everyone how dangerous it was and that it caused her friend to have a miscarriage. Another friend in the room who did drink it (but only in the week before her due date) then said that I was drinking it way to early and that I should only start 2 weeks before my due date or else it would send me into preterm labour. Everyone then started telling me how I was putting my baby in danger and that night my mom was freaking out at me for being irresponsible by taking it. Even though I told everyone my midwife was the one who told me it was perfectly safe to take!
I'm so frustrated! I've since stopped drinking it because now I'm terrified that if for some reason I go into early labour everyone will blame it on that and judge me for putting my baby's life in danger. Ugh I'm so upset. Clearly I would never do anything that posed any risk to my baby. I would never drink the tea if the midwife hadn't told me it was safe. Have any of you experienced people judging your decision to drink the tea? Is there actually any proof that it is not safe?