Rawan
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Hi everyone,
Just got my BFN again this morning with first response, and af just showed up afterwards...I am out again this month, feeling so discouraged...try again next cycle...I want to come up with a plan so hopefully next month can get my BFP.
I've been using ovulation kit for the last 2 cycles, and I realize I ovulate around day 10-12. The first cycle I used ovulation kit, I got smiley face on day 11 (clear blue digital ovulation kit). The second cycle I seemed to have miss the LH surge, because I started to use ovulation strip, and on day 10(July 5), the strip was getting darker, but not true positive, and on day 11(July 6), it got lighter, and my af just showed up today (July 20). My partner is going away early Aug to visit his family for 1 month, so there's one more chance to try before he goes away, then I have to wait 1 month. Due to my partner's work schedule, we can't bd everyday, and I don't want to make him feel we have to bd on schedule. When should we bd to maximize the chance of getting pregnant? Is it 1 day before ovulation and the day of ovulation? Do you bd before you see smiley face/positive on ovulation kit? I also use preseed, but I don't use the applicator, so I just use it as a lubricant before we bd (since I never use tampon before, feel kind of scared to insert the applicator inside me). Do you have any suggestions for me? What kind of things have you tried that worked for you? Thank you so much and baby dust to everyone!
Just got my BFN again this morning with first response, and af just showed up afterwards...I am out again this month, feeling so discouraged...try again next cycle...I want to come up with a plan so hopefully next month can get my BFP.
I've been using ovulation kit for the last 2 cycles, and I realize I ovulate around day 10-12. The first cycle I used ovulation kit, I got smiley face on day 11 (clear blue digital ovulation kit). The second cycle I seemed to have miss the LH surge, because I started to use ovulation strip, and on day 10(July 5), the strip was getting darker, but not true positive, and on day 11(July 6), it got lighter, and my af just showed up today (July 20). My partner is going away early Aug to visit his family for 1 month, so there's one more chance to try before he goes away, then I have to wait 1 month. Due to my partner's work schedule, we can't bd everyday, and I don't want to make him feel we have to bd on schedule. When should we bd to maximize the chance of getting pregnant? Is it 1 day before ovulation and the day of ovulation? Do you bd before you see smiley face/positive on ovulation kit? I also use preseed, but I don't use the applicator, so I just use it as a lubricant before we bd (since I never use tampon before, feel kind of scared to insert the applicator inside me). Do you have any suggestions for me? What kind of things have you tried that worked for you? Thank you so much and baby dust to everyone!