Me and dp spoke about surnames before ttc, I had already told him I wanted my children to have my surname (and I would keep my surname if we got married) only because my dad passed away when I was 16 and its my last little bit of him, but dp wants our children to have his surname so I settled for our children having his surname but i'll keep mine when we get married.
I have brought bits, lots of unisex and got carried away at the mid season next sale a few months back when we first started ttc. Luckily my sister has a 1.5 yr old so she has given me moses basket, steriliser and lots of other bits and lots of girls clothes and said I can have Isabelle's cot when she's finished with it, and I already have a pram and car seat as I look after all of my nieces/nephews a lot so it was easier to have my own.
we often discuss things but I don't think we will make any set in stone plans until I am pregnant and nearer the due date xx
Me and dp spoke about surnames before ttc, I had already told him I wanted my children to have my surname (and I would keep my surname if we got married) only because my dad passed away when I was 16 and its my last little bit of him, but dp wants our children to have his surname so I settled for our children having his surname but i'll keep mine when we get married.
I have brought bits, lots of unisex and got carried away at the mid season next sale a few months back when we first started ttc. Luckily my sister has a 1.5 yr old so she has given me moses basket, steriliser and lots of other bits and lots of girls clothes and said I can have Isabelle's cot when she's finished with it, and I already have a pram and car seat as I look after all of my nieces/nephews a lot so it was easier to have my own.
we often discuss things but I don't think we will make any set in stone plans until I am pregnant and nearer the due date xx
I would be happy to take on dps surname but I dont think he would change his. He's quite set in his ways, but now you say it I dont want a different surname to dp and children. Hmm maybe me anddp need to discuss more xx