Please, August, do not taunt- it's BFPs that we want!

[prgirl_11]

Just sent hubby to get FRER tests. I will take another of the wondfo tests with my FMU tomorrow and if it's still a BFP then I will use the FRER.

My cycle started 7/28 so does that mean that, even if I have a longer cycle, I am four weeks today? I am not your "average" 28 days, more like around 35 so would I subtract a few days to that four weeks to get a better estimate of how far along I am? Does my question even make sense? LOL

 

[frsttimemama]

I shared a site last night or the night before that will let you plug in dates and tell you.

 

[RobertRedford]

Just sent hubby to get FRER tests. I will take another of the wondfo tests with my FMU tomorrow and if it's still a BFP then I will use the FRER.

My cycle started 7/28 so does that mean that, even if I have a longer cycle, I am four weeks today? I am not your "average" 28 days, more like around 35 so would I subtract a few days to that four weeks to get a better estimate of how far along I am? Does my question even make sense? LOL

To be safe, I would go off of LMP. Dr will probably intially go off of LMP, then adjust it according to size/dating on US.

 

[Cowgirl07]

Morgan-I am glad to see you today! The numbers look good. Good luck!
Sonia-I don't mind giving you girls my number, especially since I don't have internet on my phone.
Amanda-Yay for Texas maybe I will get my dh convinced to go there for vacation. I love Austin!
Rachel-what an adorable bean!
AFM:I was at work today, it was long and hot and I got kicked! Guess what tomorrow is? Testing day, still not looking forward to it!

There is a giant water park called schlitterbahn that is amazing and worth a trip in itself (and I am not a fan of amusement parks/ water parks) as well as barbecue for DAYS!

Seriously people, its awesome.

Super excited to see your tests! How many dpo are you?

We have Wisconsin Dells that's enough water parks. I seriously hope to live there eventually. I love the people, plus I am a country girl so the open spaces, horses and cattle help too.
I am 13 dpo right now, no symptoms really.

 

[RobertRedford]

Morgan-I am glad to see you today! The numbers look good. Good luck!
Sonia-I don't mind giving you girls my number, especially since I don't have internet on my phone.
Amanda-Yay for Texas maybe I will get my dh convinced to go there for vacation. I love Austin!
Rachel-what an adorable bean!
AFM:I was at work today, it was long and hot and I got kicked! Guess what tomorrow is? Testing day, still not looking forward to it!

There is a giant water park called schlitterbahn that is amazing and worth a trip in itself (and I am not a fan of amusement parks/ water parks) as well as barbecue for DAYS!

Seriously people, its awesome.

Super excited to see your tests! How many dpo are you?

We have Wisconsin Dells that's enough water parks. I seriously hope to live there eventually. I love the people, plus I am a country girl so the open spaces, horses and cattle help too.
I am 13 dpo right now, no symptoms really.

eeeks so excited for you! no symptoms is not always a bad thing !!

I am so excited, OH has always wanted to live there!

 

[asmcsm]

Just sent hubby to get FRER tests. I will take another of the wondfo tests with my FMU tomorrow and if it's still a BFP then I will use the FRER.

My cycle started 7/28 so does that mean that, even if I have a longer cycle, I am four weeks today? I am not your "average" 28 days, more like around 35 so would I subtract a few days to that four weeks to get a better estimate of how far along I am? Does my question even make sense? LOL

I know that on babymed.com it allows you to enter LMP then the amount of days in your cycle and calculates accordingly

 

[brunettebimbo]

Could pain on my left hand side be ovulation pain? Was slightly painful? I've got ridiculously sore boobs too, they felt like they were going to fall off when I removed my bra

 

[asmcsm]

Lol everyone is having pain on the left side this month and my left boob feels like its gonna fall off today too. Te right one hurts but the left one isWAY worse

 

[brunettebimbo]

They were hardly sore at all in my last cycle which was messed up so hoping its a good sign!

 

[asmcsm]

Sorry, I didn't really answer your question lol. It's possible it was o pain. Have you gotten O pains before? For me it usually feels a lot like AF cramps but more localized to one side and I get sharper pains around my ovaries

 

[brunettebimbo]

Yeh sharp kind of take your breath away for a second kind of pain around the ovary area I think!

To be honest I've only recently started taking notice of my body so not sure!

 

[prgirl_11]

I shared a site last night or the night before that will let you plug in dates and tell you.

Yes! I think it's the babymed.com site Ashlee is talking about.

Thanks ladies!

 

[Cowgirl07]

I know some people that get bb pain around or after ovulation. I never have, sometimes I get small cramping/or a little bit of spotting. I am using a cheap test tomorrow because I have no frers and don't want to buy some

 

[VivianJean]

I just got told off by the nurse at the gyn. I told her we were TTC and she gave me so much sh!t about having a go at it.

*sigh* maybe I'll just adopt.

 

[Cowgirl07]

I hate smartie pants nurses/np. I had one she pissed me off. Just because I am skinny I can't help it! I know it could be harder for me to get pregnant, I just can't gain weight. But don't degrade me.

 

[asmcsm]

I just got told off by the nurse at the gyn. I told her we were TTC and she gave me so much sh!t about having a go at it.

*sigh* maybe I'll just adopt.

Why would she give you shit for trying to get pregnant? People try to get pregnant all the time...she should be used to it working for a gyn

 

[prgirl_11]

I just got told off by the nurse at the gyn. I told her we were TTC and she gave me so much sh!t about having a go at it.

*sigh* maybe I'll just adopt.

I was told I had to try for a full year before discussing infertility. The doctors wouldn't see me before that. Is that what they were trying to tell you? I've read that it can take up to ayear.

 

[RobertRedford]

I just got told off by the nurse at the gyn. I told her we were TTC and she gave me so much sh!t about having a go at it.

*sigh* maybe I'll just adopt.

*sigh* people are annoying. Maybe try another clinic?

 

[VivianJean]

it was the nurse at my gyno doc. Back in Feb I had the cyst and she said no TTC until thyroids were fine, but then saw a fertility specialist to get opinion and he said if thyroid was high it was not ideal but not a risk to the baby and if we wanted to keep BDing sans protection then to go for it. I didn't go back to my gyn between now and then but since then I got the clear from the endo doc that thyroid was fine...

but try explaining that in 10 seconds or less to a nurse who is looking at your patient notes and has decided to be judgmental.

She was like...."what are you doing? the doctor told you not to do any trying until she said so"... I wanted to burst into tears ...

and then she said "well WHAT is your problem then?" when i told her I wanted to know if i should get any tests done before I saw the gyn on tuesday.... I was so upset when I got off the phone.

THEN she said, "well if you are so worried why are you waiting until Tuesday?" (valid question but again, not delivered very empathetically) and I had to explain my work schedule that is not very flexible given I've just started a new job and the schedule is fairly brutal...

I used the term "I'm really anxious" and "I don't know what is going on" about five times to no effect.

So... adoption?

 

[Cowgirl07]

it was the nurse at my gyno doc. Back in Feb I had the cyst and she said no TTC until thyroids were fine, but then saw a fertility specialist to get opinion and he said if thyroid was high it was not ideal but not a risk to the baby and if we wanted to keep BDing sans protection then to go for it. I didn't go back to my gyn between now and then but since then I got the clear from the endo doc that thyroid was fine...

but try explaining that in 10 seconds or less to a nurse who is looking at your patient notes and has decided to be judgmental.

She was like...."what are you doing? the doctor told you not to do any trying until she said so"... I wanted to burst into tears ...

and then she said "well WHAT is your problem then?" when i told her I wanted to know if i should get any tests done before I saw the gyn on tuesday.... I was so upset when I got off the phone.

THEN she said, "well if you are so worried why are you waiting until Tuesday?" (valid question but again, not delivered very empathetically) and I had to explain my work schedule that is not very flexible given I've just started a new job and the schedule is fairly brutal...

I used the term "I'm really anxious" and "I don't know what is going on" about five times to no effect.

So... adoption?

I would wait until your appt to make any changes in regards to ttc. But have you talked to your husband about adoption?
We have talked about it a lot and in length. If it comes down to ivf or something we will adpot.