nattys
TTC no.2
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It is with a heavy heart I write this post. I wanted to tell my story but fear that I will be judged or worse.
Here it goes ....
on 17th January I went for my 12 wk scan feeling on top of the world. When doing the NT test I was told my baby had a 7.3mm fold & there was a 1:5 chance it had a chromosome problem. The bottom of my world collapsed, not because of the fact that my baby wouldn't be 'perfect' but because I knew of the many health concerns some of these sydromes have. A week later I had a CVS carrried out and futher detailed scans, it was not something I entered into lightly. On 26th January the Dr called & confirmed a diagnosis of Down Syndrome but also a severe heart condition which meant IF I was lucky enough to carry the baby full term it would then have to have major heart surgery as soon as it was born. My husband & I were suddenly faced with the toughest decision we have ever had to make, whether or not to continue with the pregnancy. It was a heart breaking thought as only 2 weeks ago I was on cloud nine! After a long and difficult 2 days we have decided not to continue. I only ever wanted the best for my baby but I don't think it is fair to put him or her through so much pain or either for my family.
I really hope someone understands why I did what I did and don't think to badly of me x
Here it goes ....
on 17th January I went for my 12 wk scan feeling on top of the world. When doing the NT test I was told my baby had a 7.3mm fold & there was a 1:5 chance it had a chromosome problem. The bottom of my world collapsed, not because of the fact that my baby wouldn't be 'perfect' but because I knew of the many health concerns some of these sydromes have. A week later I had a CVS carrried out and futher detailed scans, it was not something I entered into lightly. On 26th January the Dr called & confirmed a diagnosis of Down Syndrome but also a severe heart condition which meant IF I was lucky enough to carry the baby full term it would then have to have major heart surgery as soon as it was born. My husband & I were suddenly faced with the toughest decision we have ever had to make, whether or not to continue with the pregnancy. It was a heart breaking thought as only 2 weeks ago I was on cloud nine! After a long and difficult 2 days we have decided not to continue. I only ever wanted the best for my baby but I don't think it is fair to put him or her through so much pain or either for my family.
I really hope someone understands why I did what I did and don't think to badly of me x