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The past 3 winters I have been pregnant, The first year I was offered it but my MW suggested i didnt have it. We spent awhile discussing the pros and cons and decided as i was due very soon and i probably wouldnt get it in time anyway, and based in my past reactions, that it "wasnt best for me". So i didnt have it, I didnt get flu, which I have never had, people mistake what flu really is, very few people actually get flu and if you do you are indeed poorly.
Last year, i decided i would have it, after a lot of pressure from my mum, but wanted to wait until I was past 12 weeks, but my baby died a few days short of that, im so glad i didnt or i would have wrongly blammed the vaccine for that.
This year I have a new MW who basically didnt know, i have spent time reseraching, speaking to medical professionals, im a nurse, and again have decided its not for me.
As for laying in hospital dying of flu, would i regret it? possibly, i could get the flu jab and still get the flu and die though.
its not about be thinking, oh its some horrible vaccine that will affect me or my babies, its more about just not wanting it. i dont think it will affect my baby, from what i understand its de-activated and doesnt cross the placenta, so babies WONT get any protection from it.
Its more the fact that i do feel ill after having it, im only 30 weeks pregnant but its twins so in reality its any time, but the time i could get the vaccine which is end of NOV my babies WILL be here, so no point, even if i wanted it my babies will be here before, and if i could get it sooner, i dont want to feel ill giving birth.
I have had the flu jab, for many years as a nurse, but ALWAYS felt ill, nothing to do with the vaccine, just my reaction to it.
I dont think its a killer vaccine, i just dont think its right for me due to circumstances each time.
Also, I have had a pregnancy with lots of complications, i had SURGERY at 17 weeks pregnant with these twins, I have had loads of drugs pumped into me, many which are not classed as safe in pregnancy, Ive been very very poorly, but it was life and death and i didnt have an option, hopfully my babies havent been affected.
If I had been due a month later, my desicion may have been differnt.
Last year, i decided i would have it, after a lot of pressure from my mum, but wanted to wait until I was past 12 weeks, but my baby died a few days short of that, im so glad i didnt or i would have wrongly blammed the vaccine for that.
This year I have a new MW who basically didnt know, i have spent time reseraching, speaking to medical professionals, im a nurse, and again have decided its not for me.
As for laying in hospital dying of flu, would i regret it? possibly, i could get the flu jab and still get the flu and die though.
its not about be thinking, oh its some horrible vaccine that will affect me or my babies, its more about just not wanting it. i dont think it will affect my baby, from what i understand its de-activated and doesnt cross the placenta, so babies WONT get any protection from it.
Its more the fact that i do feel ill after having it, im only 30 weeks pregnant but its twins so in reality its any time, but the time i could get the vaccine which is end of NOV my babies WILL be here, so no point, even if i wanted it my babies will be here before, and if i could get it sooner, i dont want to feel ill giving birth.
I have had the flu jab, for many years as a nurse, but ALWAYS felt ill, nothing to do with the vaccine, just my reaction to it.
I dont think its a killer vaccine, i just dont think its right for me due to circumstances each time.
Also, I have had a pregnancy with lots of complications, i had SURGERY at 17 weeks pregnant with these twins, I have had loads of drugs pumped into me, many which are not classed as safe in pregnancy, Ive been very very poorly, but it was life and death and i didnt have an option, hopfully my babies havent been affected.
If I had been due a month later, my desicion may have been differnt.