emalou90
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(i dont want this to become an 'i hate my oh' thread but i need a rant)
so he picks me up from work without me asking (as i find it hard to walk home now with my bad back and hip aches)
we go to asda to get some food shopping without any problems,
but as soon as we get home it starts...
oh - 'right lets put the food away before we do anything'
me - *running upstairs* 'need a wee, be down in a sec'
(meanwhile i return downstairs)
me - 'oh *giggle* you put the shopping away, well i'll put the milk and cereal away'
oh - 'thought i'd let you do them'
me - 'erm well okay thats fine, no worries '
(meanwhile OH sits on his bum with laptop out paying no attention that im putting shopping away or having a tidy)
oh - 'oh can you clean up your rubbish'
me - 'oh wait? i thought you wanted me to put the shopping away? don't worry i'll pick up my CRISP PACKET after this'
(while he hasn't put his two beer cans, pepsi can, microwave meal tray, mug and fork in the bin/washed them up! which have also sat there for two days)
me - 'right i'll just put a curry in, oh and i need a sit down, my back is killing'
(after sitting down...)
oh - 'put me a curry in too'
me - 'okay'
oh - 'a chicken one, oh no wait, a beef one, actually, chicken'
(meanwhile mine pings and i get it out and put his in with no fuss, even though i havent sat down since i got in and after being at work standing up for 4/5 hours)
oh -'the cat stinks'
me - 'oh why is that? because the litter tray isn't clean?'
oh - 'well mmhh'
(he was the one who offered to clean the cat tray from now on, its not like its hard ladies, is it? just grin and bear it)
After dinner and Eastenders -
oh - *flicking through channels* 'fuck sake'
me - 'what? what..?'
oh - 'theres never anything on'
me - 'oh i suppose, there's road wars on?'
oh - 'no its shit' (gets up, tutting a sighing picks my fork out of my curry tray)
me - 'look, what's wrong?'
oh - 'nothing'
me - 'well obviously something is else you wouldn't be tutting'
oh - 'i just want the kitchen done, im just tired of living in such a shithole, its taking bloody ages'
me - 'you know what, i'm not even going to bother'
(i walk upstairs to avoid me snapping into confrontation about how we're just moved in and building a new kitchen takes time and a bit of chaos including having boxes in our living room with kitchen stuff in)
i just can't take this anymore, why is he being like this? i've confronted him but he always says something like 'im not being like that' blah blah. so then i feel bad to have asked him/told him whats bothering me!
i'm the one who's pregnant and having to live of unhealthy microwave meals because we have no kitchen BUT i don't make a big fuss about it, i just try and fit in veg and healthy things around our evening meal.
but whatever, im now, for the second night, because i don't want to snap at OH, sitting in our bedroom with my cat, feeling a bit upset and alone.
sorry girls for adding another rant about a wonderful OH but needs to be done when i cant speak to anyone about this
so he picks me up from work without me asking (as i find it hard to walk home now with my bad back and hip aches)
we go to asda to get some food shopping without any problems,
but as soon as we get home it starts...
oh - 'right lets put the food away before we do anything'
me - *running upstairs* 'need a wee, be down in a sec'
(meanwhile i return downstairs)
me - 'oh *giggle* you put the shopping away, well i'll put the milk and cereal away'
oh - 'thought i'd let you do them'
me - 'erm well okay thats fine, no worries '
(meanwhile OH sits on his bum with laptop out paying no attention that im putting shopping away or having a tidy)
oh - 'oh can you clean up your rubbish'
me - 'oh wait? i thought you wanted me to put the shopping away? don't worry i'll pick up my CRISP PACKET after this'
(while he hasn't put his two beer cans, pepsi can, microwave meal tray, mug and fork in the bin/washed them up! which have also sat there for two days)
me - 'right i'll just put a curry in, oh and i need a sit down, my back is killing'
(after sitting down...)
oh - 'put me a curry in too'
me - 'okay'
oh - 'a chicken one, oh no wait, a beef one, actually, chicken'
(meanwhile mine pings and i get it out and put his in with no fuss, even though i havent sat down since i got in and after being at work standing up for 4/5 hours)
oh -'the cat stinks'
me - 'oh why is that? because the litter tray isn't clean?'
oh - 'well mmhh'
(he was the one who offered to clean the cat tray from now on, its not like its hard ladies, is it? just grin and bear it)
After dinner and Eastenders -
oh - *flicking through channels* 'fuck sake'
me - 'what? what..?'
oh - 'theres never anything on'
me - 'oh i suppose, there's road wars on?'
oh - 'no its shit' (gets up, tutting a sighing picks my fork out of my curry tray)
me - 'look, what's wrong?'
oh - 'nothing'
me - 'well obviously something is else you wouldn't be tutting'
oh - 'i just want the kitchen done, im just tired of living in such a shithole, its taking bloody ages'
me - 'you know what, i'm not even going to bother'
(i walk upstairs to avoid me snapping into confrontation about how we're just moved in and building a new kitchen takes time and a bit of chaos including having boxes in our living room with kitchen stuff in)
i just can't take this anymore, why is he being like this? i've confronted him but he always says something like 'im not being like that' blah blah. so then i feel bad to have asked him/told him whats bothering me!
i'm the one who's pregnant and having to live of unhealthy microwave meals because we have no kitchen BUT i don't make a big fuss about it, i just try and fit in veg and healthy things around our evening meal.
but whatever, im now, for the second night, because i don't want to snap at OH, sitting in our bedroom with my cat, feeling a bit upset and alone.
sorry girls for adding another rant about a wonderful OH but needs to be done when i cant speak to anyone about this