I still stalk this thread... Its one of my favorites! I'm plus size after all... and I hope to get far enough in a pregnancy eventually to have a real bump... but that's neither here nor there. I just had to chime in...
As an adopted child, I just wanted to say thank you to all of you who are looking at adoption, regardless of if you can have biological children. Its an amazing thing to do for a child, and I'm SO grateful! I was adopted at 8 days old, and I can't remember any time that I ever didn't know I was adopted. In fact, one of the first things on the wall of my nursery was a plaque with a poem about being adopted!
"Not flesh of my flesh, nor bone of my bone;
But still miraculously my own.
Never forget for a single minute,
You didn't grow under my heart, but in it."
I'll never forget it, and even typing it brings tears to my eyes. Adoption shouldn't be some big family secret. It should be celebrated as the gift it is. I grew up knowing that my parents CHOSE me! I totally consider my biological father a sperm donor and my biological mother an egg donor/surrogate. I was never theirs! I have the most amazing family in the world, and I'd never, ever change a thing!
Anyway... Didn't mean to write a book... Just wanted to again say thank you!