PMA

[Sparklebaby]

tudor.....i am praying so so hard for you this cycle. and Heid....in pain? have i missed something? or is that what the flu has done to you? u poor sausage.
Samzi cant get online atm as her system is down. i feel awful for saying without her say so but im worried about her.....SAMZI sorry babes....pleaswe forgive me.
she text me early this morning to say she had a small a mount of blood this morning. she spoke to the Labour ward and they said if still there in hour to call back. I havent heard from her since and cant get hold of her either so pls girls keep your fingers crossed her and bubs are ok. I wont post on her journal about this, il keep it here for now.
Hope ur OK samzi.....

 

[Sparklebaby]

PANIC OVER.....

Samzi had fallen asleep lol. she has felt baby move and had got heartbeat this morning so we hoping all ok.

 

[samzi]

hey

i have never been so scared in my life

course i didnt mind you saying anything, sorry i worried you

 

[dawny690]

You ok Samzi? xxxx

 

[samzi]

yeah, i am now.

just had a scare this morning but had no bleeding since then and shes been kickng me..gone quiet now but thats cos ive been up and down making tea the last hour etc.

 

[dawny690]

OMG samzi darling that must have been really scary have you been checked out? xxxx

 

[samzi]

i called the labour ward and got told to put a pad on and to call back in an hour if id had any more. I hadnt so i didnt call back. Not had aything since and shes been active so im not worrying now. but i was so scared this morning. me and Oh were talking about if the worst happened etc, but told ourselves at least if there was a problem there is more chance of her survivng now than there was a few weeks ago etc. luckily it didnt come to even a trip to the mat unit, so i was pleased about that. deff going to take it easy these last 13 weeks or so though. in a way its more scarier than the first 12 weeks, if that makes sence? knowing that theres a slight possibility it could all go wrong even this far in but anyway im rambling so im gonna disappear.

 

[Kayleigh Lou]

Hey girls,

Havent been on for awhile! Soooooooo busy.

Samzi, glad your okay hun!

Hows everyone??

Okay where do i start. I have never had any probs with my period. Very light on for two/three days. No cramps etc. You could say ive been VERY lucky.

This morning i did my usual trip to the loo, wiped...saw blood. JESUS MARY N JOSEPH i danced for about 5mins around the bathroom!!!!!!!!!!! IVE GOT MY PERIOD BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Been wearing a towels all day (the last time i spotted n wore tampons the period stopped lol) now im getting really bad cramps, back n head ache and the period is REALLY heavy.

How bad have your cramps been girls during periods....i mean im used to nothing so this is horrible for me. Also any hints n tips to ease the cramps BARRING tablets. I dont really like taking them until im dying of pain!!!!!!

 

[Kayleigh Lou]

Hey girls,

Havent been on for awhile! Soooooooo busy.

Samzi, glad your okay hun!

Hows everyone??

Okay where do i start. I have never had any probs with my period. Very light on for two/three days. No cramps etc. You could say ive been VERY lucky.

This morning i did my usual trip to the loo, wiped...saw blood. JESUS MARY N JOSEPH i danced for about 5mins around the bathroom!!!!!!!!!!! IVE GOT MY PERIOD BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Been wearing a towels all day (the last time i spotted n wore tampons the period stopped lol) now im getting really bad cramps, back n head ache and the period is REALLY heavy.

How bad have your cramps been girls during periods....i mean im used to nothing so this is horrible for me. Also any hints n tips to ease the cramps BARRING tablets. I dont really like taking them until im dying of pain!!!!!!

 

[tryingfor#1]

Hi everyone,

Im new at this, and looking for some help with few things on this site and ttc.
My name is Toshea. I'm 21. I am obese. At this moment I dont know my BMI, or my weight at the matter. I have not been to the doctor in a while. Hope to go soon though. Im married, and I have been ttc since I got married a year ago on the 16th of this month. I know one reason is my weight but I know that does not mean I cant ttc. It also might be my husband who has abused drungs for years. But I dont know. Ive tried to read up on how to conceive, but I dont understand all that. Can you ladies help me or just talk to me about things...
Thanks

 

[Sparklebaby]

thanks Samzi - so glad you are ok now darling. I cant begin to imagine how you guys must have felt, but rest assured, seeing blood doesnt always mean trouble.

Hey Kayleigh babes.....missed you. go you on your periods too although really we would like to not see them at all but.....its good that it sounds like you have a decent one on your hands.
um, mine were....fairly heavy but i didnt really suffer too much if that makes sense?? but the days i did i tried a hot water bottle, that can help. as too can a bath but the only thing i didnt like about having a bath especially being so heavy was the tampax sucking water up and then me flooding so maybe try the hot water bottle. xx

Hi everyone,

Im new at this, and looking for some help with few things on this site and ttc.
My name is Toshea. I'm 21. I am obese. At this moment I dont know my BMI, or my weight at the matter. I have not been to the doctor in a while. Hope to go soon though. Im married, and I have been ttc since I got married a year ago on the 16th of this month. I know one reason is my weight but I know that does not mean I cant ttc. It also might be my husband who has abused drungs for years. But I dont know. Ive tried to read up on how to conceive, but I dont understand all that. Can you ladies help me or just talk to me about things...
Thanks

aha so thats how u add a quote half way through....
Hi Toshea. Unusal name, where does that originate from?
My Name is Lisa - welcome to BNB and to Tm PMA I started this group after I started to struggle myself, tbh this group had been set up before but slowly died, but i started it up again after taking a break and some of the original PMA girls like me joined me. I am sure they will introduce themselves.
We have the following:
TTC -
Kayleigh Lou
Tudor Rose
Dawny690
BumbleB
Twinks - but hardly ever comes in here now
Other than Bumble and twinks the above girls are more Long term TTC like you.
Pregnant -
Me
Anna
3 Girlies
Samzi
Although I set this as a TTC group we all stick together so we always here if u want us. although we do get the odd quiet day
Anyway....sorry girls gonna be a bit long......

Ok...the one thing i noticed about this forum is there are many ladies that are what I call real women - I too am Obese or should I say my Drs say I am. I was a size 18/20/22 depending where i shopped pre preg. I am now hitting 20stone but do u know what i dont care, I am happy...ish and I am reasonably healthy.
Maybe.....it might be worth you booking a well woman type appt at your drs to get your weigh etc checked out but dont ever think to yourself I can never have a child cause im over weight....ok it dont help but its not impossible.
Trying for a baby sadly doesnt always happen with a click of a finger. I started trying last august and fell april this yr but prior to that I had been NTNP - Not trying not preventing for about a yr before that.
(Happy first anniversary for the 16th )
Can I ask - does your husband still do drugs?? if so then yes for the health of him and your future baby if u guys are serious he needs to be clean from them for a good few months I would say before he even thinks of impreganting you. time for the spermies to renew themselves.
that includes things like spliffs etc.
cut down on booze and try and get a nice healthy diet of fruit and veg, itas important you especially start to take folic acid now.....I used pregnacare as it contained the full quota that you should take. start avoiding things like pate if you can as contains high amounts of vit A which is a no no. that goes for cod liver oil tablets.
Most important thing is to not try too hard.....dont lose the loving spark in your relationship because trust me, TTC can....become a chore.

Well done for getting this far......will update more as we go on. there is never anything thats TMI. This is the best forum i discovered and I hope u are happy here.

 

[Tudor Rose]

:wave: welcome to our new PMA girlie

hey girls how are you? im so tired yesterday took the kids to school nipped in town came home had an early dinner then fell asleep for 2 hours then i was falling asleep on the couch by 8pm!!!!! thw is due at the weekend and i was so proud of my self yesterday i have no HPTs in the houe and walked towards superdrug and walked past it! so i will order some on line and they will be here before the weekend, im not testing to early this cycle im i thing 10dpo! and havent POAS yet

 

[Sparklebaby]

good girl Tudor.....I am keeping those fingers tightly crossed tho......10 dpo....things could be happening and judging by that tiredness.....exactly what happened to me xxxxx what ya up to today hun?? xxxx

 

[dawny690]

Toshea my name is Dawn (everyone seems to call me dawny though ) I am also as sparklebaby says a real woman I also vary between an 18/20/22 clothes size depending what shops I use your very welcome in our group hope it helps you with your pma xxxx

 

[dawny690]

tudor go you not ing hope you get a xxxx

 

[Sparklebaby]

hehehehe exciting init.....
well, i was going to go back to sleep for a bit but ended up tossing and turning.....how can that be seeing as I felt so lol. oh well....film time and no doubt il conk out on the sofa instead lol.

hey Kayleigh....i see u hiding down the bottom there lol xxxx

all round

 

[Sparklebaby]

p.s although ul see me at bottom il be away from the computer for a bit...chow chow xxx

 

[3 girlies]

hi, hows everyone today? xx

 

[dawny690]

Im good thanks Heidi you? xxxx

 

[3 girlies]

im ok, getting my strength back slowly