PND Support Thread

[jenny_wren]

no i buy toys for the same reason lol
i brought her play pen out the other day
just so i could go to the loo in peace!!

hope you start feeling better soon
dont worry i was up last night with a
teething baby too

can i ask you a question ... what's you
oh's name ... he looks just like someone
i used to work with xx​

 

[bumpsmum]

thank god im not the only one! I forced myself to get washed and dressed and feel so much better for it, even managed a light tidy round. OH name is Chris Miller x

 

[jenny_wren]

must be a different person he looks
sooo much like a guy named andy
i worked with years ago

i find doing housework always
make me feel better i may look like
shit but then my place doesn't

xx​

 

[xTaylorsMummy]

hi all..


My HV thinks i have postnatal depression, and tbh so do i. Im so down and emotional for the past 2ish weeks. I feel like i have got double personalty, one min i feel fine the next im snapping at OH, moody, and just feel like i could sit and cry. My mum has cancer and is very poorly and i have a 21month old little girl too. I do all the night feeds as OH dont hear him, and im so knackard but cant sleep in the morning when OH lets me for nothing.
I feel like everything OH does annoys me, when he doesnt do anything! i know im reading into things 100% more then i used to, yet i cant seem to help it?

Just feeling fed up, HV did the questionaire with me and my score was very high, But im so embarssed to go to my docs =[

 

[jenny_wren]

dont be embarrassed! its nothing
to be ashamed about
if you feel bad hun go to the docs
it was the best thing i did tbh atleast
i know im on my way to feeling better

moan time ----

my new pills help me sleep amazingly
but all i can do is sleep and cry on them
i was happier on the other ones

for those who have swapped pills ....
when you swapped over did you feel worse
for a little while?
im thinking maybe it takes another 4-6
weeks for these one to kick in too?
i kinda hoped they would work straight away

hugs ladies ​

 

[xTaylorsMummy]

today has been a bad day tbh, im so peed off with OH for no reason, i havent stoped crying, so went bed for 2hours and feel abit better.

OH really really isnt understanding and think its might fault and being a moody sod. He couldnt give a toss that im feeling down tbh. He shouted out in morrisons after me being moody "you even fucking put on that paper that u was mental yday"

 

[jenny_wren]

sounds like your oh needs a talking too!
mine was like that in the beginning until we
sat down and had a very emotional chat ..

men dont help the situation
its a shame they cant feel what we go through

you really should see a doctor maybe your
oh will start to come around if he hears from
the doctor that you need help and support?

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[xTaylorsMummy]

im really losing the will to live today.

OH really couldnt give a toss about me, aparntly i have a "dease", i even found something i would like him to read for him to help me and he wont. I dont even know if i want to be with him now, hes being so unsupportive, making me feel like im "putting it on". He has been talking to me like crap aswell and i dont know why normally hes so supportive. Im trying to keep this family warm,feed them,clothe them,pay bills,and buy xmas pressents while he doesnt put his hand in his pocket once! AND then he tells me how to spend MY money!

I just want to cry today, He ended up sleeping on the sofa last night, i just dont even want him near me tbh. I asked him to change Dexs nappy last night after i fed him and he wouldnt, he just came back downstairs! He makes me feel sick imo. I really dont like feeling like this.

To make it worse i should be happy, mum had her results back from scan yesterday [she has stomach cancer, cant remember if iv mentioned it] and it hasnt grown anymore, but hasnt shrunk anymore so stayed the same which i suppose is good!

My "so called" best friend has fell out with me, when i let her be there to witness the birth of my son! BECAUSE I DIDNT BUY HER A THANK YOU CARD! so now i have no friends what so ever..

I just need someone to talk to i think =[

 

[jenny_wren]

i actually hate the pills im on

i feel lower than ever ​

 

[Beausmummy]

Hi
Can PND Come back? My son is 1 now and for the last 2-3 months have been feeling worse and worse again. I really don't know what to do. i am so scared. I wake up with my mind racing and feel paralysed by this. I just don;t know what to do and feel that everyone thinks I am playing on it and hate me. I can't stop shaking. Do you think going back on tabs again would help? I feel so sorry for all of you because I have been through some things in my life but nothing like this. Thanks in advance x x x

 

[bumpsmum]

where's everyone gone? Hope everyone managing ok, having another crap week but hay ho thats life I suppose! Weather is totally miserable n just wanna curl up in bed but cant have HV coming round at 12.30 then gotta go get swine flu jag at 2 then DR at 5 for a new sick line busy busy x

 

[carolyn_s]

Hey guys, i havent been on in a couple of weeks because my internet has been playing up and my lot have all had swine flu..
how is everyone?? xxx

 

[Abblebubba]

im back and i think im going to leave my boyfriend
im heartbrokenn
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[carolyn_s]

im back and i think im going to leave my boyfriend
im heartbrokenn
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hey abblebubba, whats happened? try stay calm and dont make any rash decisions xxx

 

[bumpsmum]

hope your ok abblebubble x

how you tonight carolyn ive had a good day for a change despite having a horrible thought in asda x

 

[carolyn_s]

hope your ok abblebubble x

how you tonight carolyn ive had a good day for a change despite having a horrible thought in asda x

All my symptoms seem to have completely changed, im still crying but not as much but OCD is now a big worry for me. Its getting worse and i havent told my HV, OH or Dr yet. I will i just need to pluck up the courage.
Im not crying or being irrational half as much as i was a few weeks ago so i hope things are on the up.

Hows things with you bumpsmum? keep your head up xx

 

[Abblebubba]

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[jenny_wren]

i know the feeling

huge hugs ladies xx​

 

[Abblebubba]

my boyfriend has left me, i feel like someones died im heartbroken so emotionally drained i cried until i physically couldnt breathe anymore, my head is pounding ive cried for 24 hours i have been sicki havent eaten in two days and i cant cope
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[jenny_wren]

im so sorry hun
im not entirely sure what to say but you need
to eat and you need to stay strong for lo xx

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