positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[FngrsCrossed]

Sometimes when I talk to me, I and myself come up with some good points... The killing part is I know it's coming when the eyes shift toward the ceiling for a few minutes, then the chatting begins.

Well...

Scenario 1 has been hit and has caught flame...burning now aaaaand it's down.

Scenario 2 has just given up the good fight and has surrendered to the fact that the CBE digi was not playing nice.

Scenario 3 ahhh, this one may be it. yay! I surely hope scenario 3 is the one.

Gosh I should chat with myself a little more often. Naaah that cold turn into a pretty bad situation.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

yea i just did a hpt and opk just for hahas i did take a pic at the 2 min mark and i called th doctors about the spotting she asked how much and if i was having to wear a pad or liner i told no its just been in the morning she said it could just be normal spotting that 1 in 3 pregnancy have spotting i told i know all of that she said to just keep my app and if bleeding becomesto where i use more then one pad an hour or i start to have really bad pain to call but to try and take it easy i like my doctor and all but i felt like going off on her to me they should of had me back for a 2nd hcg test

I don't think they know how it feels to be so stressed out and fearful. If a person has never had bleeding or lost a pregnancy before then they have no idea how terrifying it feels. Sure she is medically licensed, but they don't know everything. My theory as blunt as it sounds, is that if you aren't having a healthy pregnancy then no medical personnel cares. They want pregnancies with no issues, as if they aren't going to get paid, and paid well for giving their all.

I don't see why they haven't done another HCG yet. Isn't that suppose to be done 2-3 days after the first? did she give you your numbers from the first one. You probably told us the number in a post already.

With my 2 m/c's I felt like no one really cared at that hospital. It was like oh well.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Well L.E. you are 14 now, so maybe if there is a late implanter, baby bean is trying to multiply that HCG?

 

[staceyj83]

yes she told me my numbers i dont remember them but they were really good a 2nd one should of been done with 48 hours of the first one dh think she didnt do another one because the number were so good i did put a pic up in my last post

 

[L.E.]

Stacey, I think your tests look fabulous!! You almost have no control line on your opk!

 

[staceyj83]

yea that shocked me i was like holy sh*t

 

[L.E.]

Fngrs, Yea I'm actually 15 dpo according to my chart. If I go out to Walmart or Target I'll get another box of FRERs. I think I'll wait til after our anniversary, that way if it is BFN it won't ruin my day.... Well unless my temps go really high, then I won't be able to wait lol.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Stacey, you opk looks lovely...that control line is almost gone! Even you hpt looks great! The test line is darker than the control line. It looks like it's getting ready to start pulling dye from the control line too. I know this is all going to be just fine. You definitely have prayers from our way. I am also going to pray that little baby stops playing these jokes...they aren't funny.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Fngrs, Yea I'm actually 15 dpo according to my chart. If I go out to Walmart or Target I'll get another box of FRERs. I think I'll wait til after our anniversary, that way if it is BFN it won't ruin my day.... Well unless my temps go really high, then I won't be able to wait lol.

Little lady you amaze me sometimes with your self control. I won't even come in an encourage you to do otherwise. The (||) would be a wonderful anniversary gift. So I agree that waiting would be a good deal. What could be better for the both of you than to get a positive hpt on your anniversary?!

 

[L.E.]

Well I don't know about self control. I mean, I did test on 10, 11 and 12 dpo. I know the Pregnancy Sign Analyzer doesn't really mean anything, but I have 80 points. I don't feel pregnant though. Plus I looked it up and some people have had 98 points and got BFNs, so I don't think it's very reliable.

This is what FF says: "The preliminary results show that charts with a display of 80 or more points are 70 to 90% more likely to be pregnancy charts all other factors being equal. Given the statistical nature of this tool though that means that you will find cases of high value with no pregnancy and vice versa. This is an ongoing research that we are still updating and evaluating."

Of course most people probably have the high number earlier in their LP. Dunno. Interesting, but not accurate. I figured once I got to 12 dpo that I was just waiting on AF or I never ovulated. Still waiting on answers. I guess if AF hasn't started by my anniversary and it is BFN I will assume I never O'd and override the cross-hairs and just focus on our move. Some days I spend waaayy too much time on here... like today. Ok going to get a little packing done.

PS- Fngrs, Your chart looks fabulous!!

Oh and Stacey, I have also been praying for you and your little bean. I try to pray for all you ladies at night.

 

[L.E.]

How are you ladies tonight? Had another hungry and tired day... Could easily fall asleep now. Zzzzz

 

[FngrsCrossed]

How are you ladies tonight? Had another hungry and tired day... Could easily fall asleep now. Zzzzz

My night was great...I found it easy to sleep also. Although I wanted to go to sleep by 12:30 I didn't quite make it. So 11 p.m. saw me instead.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Hope you ladies are doing great this morning, and feeling refreshed and rested.

Temp was 97.8 at 5:30 a.m. DH loves waking me. I heard what I thought was a rack of clothing falling this morning. Nope it was just my DH making a serious mess with my container of bracelets and random jewelry. So I just temped and got up for the day. I wonder what he is going to do tomorrow... He is a busy body in the morning. He makes noise, drops things, paces back and forth...(sighs) Plus he has the nerve to snore at night and make falling asleep a living nightmare.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Stacey- I found this to put your mind at ease. I calculated that this chart went up to 12+ weeks.

 

[L.E.]

Fngrs, Your temps look great!

Stacey I see yours went back up some so that's good.

I'm thinking I have to be pre-O still. So I'll test in a few days just in case and just wait for O. Haven't decided yet if I'm still going to temp. I'd really like to see O reflected in my temps with a clear thermal shift, but who knows when that will be.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Thanks L.E. I am hoping this is a Rainbow baby chart for me. I am not sure. don't want to encourage myself to get excited and it ends up being nothing more than a ovulatory cycle. I have taken opks everyday now after ovulation just to see if they are going to get darker or fade out almost completely. Needless to say they haven't faded out completely. They actually have the same line as my last negative opk. Even with this mornings diluted urine, I got a dark enough line. I will post the pic. I am on edge here. I hate the two week wait so much. More than waiting to ovulate. :/ I guess if I keep peeing on opk's I should be fine. At least they (|| ) on them. I don't want to be utterly disappointed if this is another one of those "try again later" cycles, but I think I will be. This all gets so frustrating. Ok, now I am just having a pitty party and complaining. And I don't like doing that. SO it's time to stop and smile; be grateful for what I do have and go on.


I do think ovulation is coming up for you though. Have you gotten more Dollar store test to use with your digi's?

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Nothing can last forever. My TCOYF and FF are not matching. I put in the last + opk and it put me at ovulation the next day. Which is to be expected because the rules are suppose to be FAM rules. So I left TCOYF the way it is and FF the way IT is. If I eliminate the 2 high temps then CD14 is right for ovulation. I mean it is my "36 hours" after the 1 positive. SO I am not sure why TCOYF chooses to use you last opk observation and puts ovulation for the day after. It went negative the night of CD14...hmmm

Any ideas ladies?

 

[FngrsCrossed]

this can't be correct!

Edit: Not my chart...But I think someone was either preggers the cycle before or they are a complete liar about getting a bfp at 4dpo! If that's the case I need to start peeing NOW!!!

 

[staceyj83]

I think it was up due to me being sick as a dog its over 101 now

 

[mommapowers32]

My son woke me up at 445 this morning Ug no fun...!!! I'm super tired this morning lol

Stacey I see you temp went up yay !!

Fngers - your temp still really high

Le. My thermal shifts have been off too ... Blah