positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[mzswizz]

good for you L.E. Maybe less stress is what you need.

AFM, my cycle sure is passing by without notice. Cant believe 17 days has passed already. Im on cd17 today and there is nothing new going on. DH and I continue to dtd every day in hope of something happening. I only have 2 cycles to try to get a bfp with or else back on the bcps and going to just wait until his first deployment in Spring in which he will be gone for 6 months and then we will try again. If no bfps come between this or the next cycle..I wouldn't be too worried or upset. Just have to be a little more patience I guess. Well, Im thinking of cleaning and then going to the gym to work out a bit Im hoping to atleast get a bfp soon though but we shall see.

 

[L.E.]

Are you going back on BC so you won't be pregnant while he's deployed?

I don't know what's up with FF. It gave me cross-hairs like a month ago, which obviously wasn't accurate and I just ignored it. Today it moved me to 3 dpo. I make sure to mark my Provera as Provera and Progesterone so my chart doesn't think I O'd when I'm on it. I think AF is coming today. I feel crampy and just wiped a little bit of pink.

 

[mzswizz]

L.E. I will be going back on BC so it will help my cycles while he's deployed. And can't wait until AF comes so you can start a fresh cycle

AFM, today is cd18. Hoping my cycle is still the same or close to how it was when I was on the birth control. Im hoping it didn't extend by much if its not close to it. Also, I just received an email saying that im accepted into Bellevue College And also tomorrow is my job orientation So everything is going well. I have been getting on and off cramps so I don't know but just waiting for this cycle to end.

 

[L.E.]

College and a new job... congrats! You'll definitely be a busy lady. DS works full time and is a full time student and he worlds from 8-5, dinner, and then school from 6-midnight or later some days. Hoping it pays of you and for my hubby!

Today is CD1. I'm surprised that it's light, but I'm sure it will pick up. FF changed my O date to a month ago again lol. I like FF but sometimes it's just plain crazy.

 

[mzswizz]

L.E. Thanks and yeah FF can be a pain at times. Im thinking a man created that to drive us women crazy

AFM, im cd19 today. Today is my job orientation. Im here but its a little early so im just wasting time in the car. Also, today was suppose to be hpt test day but i dont think i o'd according to my usual 26 day cycle when i was on birth control so im going to give it another week before I test or wait until July 4th. Dont know yet. Im still doing the process for school so hoping to get everything done so i cn start school in the fall (august). So far, the only thing that has been going on body wise is nipple sensitivity, heavy feeling in my bbs when i walk up and down the stairs, and lots of cm. Oh and also on and off cramping. So i dont know whther its ov, af or i couldve o'd and its implantation or something either way i will find out in time.

 

[mzswizz]

How are you ladies?

AFM, im on cd23 today. I also started my job today. It was pretty much computer based training. I have two days of it and this is my first day so 1 more day of computer based training. Well as a welcome home from work gift from DH, we ended up dtd before he went off to work I have been crampy but we shall see if that's because of ovulation about to occur soon. Well dh and I talked and if we don't conceive this cycle, we are just going to wait until he comes back from deployment to try because atleast we have more months to try in. I will be go back on birth control in the mean time because we always have unprotected sex of course so we don't want to conceive and I end up having to go through the delivery etc myself because he will be away. His deployment is 6 months so it isn't that long of a wait if you ask me. I have started my job and I will be starting school in August so those will keep me busy until we can REALLY get back to ttc with all the opks etc Yesterday, DH bought me a car and I love it and also I totally forgot to post pics of my hair style when I got out the salon The pics are below:

 

[L.E.]

Your car and hair look nice!! I've never had my hair done at a salon... Well I did have a wedding up-do once as a bridesmaid but it was at a regular haircutters not a "salon". One of these days I'd like to do it though.

Let us know what the hpt says. It's so hard to know what's going on without temping. I'd be lost without it. It's so much less stress and wondering, even though sometimes FF and/or my temps do something weird. If you get a bfn, at least you get to be regular those 6 months DH is gone. That's a plus. I'm not going to do anything this cycle as far as Soy, etc. I'm hoping to stay away from the opks. If I were to get a huge dip and fertile cm and cvx then I'd probably get a couple from the dollar store. Otherwise, I'm just riding it out. If and when my spotting/bleeding comes back, I'll do Provera again. Until I do Clomid, that's just how life is going to be and I can handle that. It's better than just bleeding all the time and I at least have a chance of Oing and conceiving that way. Once AF is over, I may start setting my alarm again, but I may not either. My temps don't usually vary much within a 2 hour window. Looks like my AF will be here a week. If it stopped completely tomorrow I'd be surprised and happy, but I'm hoping for Wednesday and back to BD for the 4th of July .

 

[L.E.]

Well it's Wednesday and AF is still here....boo!! It's down to light bleeding (more than spotting), but I'm really hoping to be down to spotting tonight and completely done by tomorrow night.

 

[L.E.]

Fngrs, How'd your appt go today?

 

[mzswizz]

L.E. hoping your AF went away

AFM, well today is 4th of July! So happy Independence Day to all U.S. residents! Also, AF is suppose to arrive today (based on bcp cycle) but im pretty sure AF will not come. Im going to wait 2 weeks because that will make it 6 weeks AF hasn't shown up so then I will test. I am also going to schedule a doc appt soon so I can go and get checked out to make sure everything is okay for ttc. So we shall see. But no AF as of today so that's a milestone Also, my nipples are STILL SENSITIVE. But I don't know if that means im going to ovulate or what.

 

[L.E.]

Happy Independence Day to you too, MzSwizz...extra thanks to all military including your hubby for keeping us a free nation.

Surprisingly, AF stopped last night. I took a shower and *TMI* put a tampon in. It was bothering me an hour or so later and there was blood in it.... went to fireworks for almost 4 hours and was completely done when I came home!! There was no spotting even. That has to be good. I usually trail off with spotting at the end. I think the same thing happened the AF before I O'd in December, but I was on the Clomid then, so we'll see.

I'd wait it out too, MzSwizz. You may just O later and it may take a few cycles off bc to normalize. Hopefully it works for you. You know it never helped me.

 

[mzswizz]

L.E. glad AF is away and thanks for the info. I am scheduling a doc apt tomorrow and see whats the earliest I can get in. I don't think the bc helped at all..especially being low dose.

AFM, okay I don't know whats going on but DH and I didn't have sex at all today but we had sex yesterday. Now im pretty sure all his "soldiers" should've been out by now correct? Well if that's the case.....I'VE HAD WEIRD CM! its thick, stretchy, white/clear and in an abundance. Don't know what that means Any idea ladies?

 

[L.E.]

Sounds like maybe ewcm or transitional cm going towards fertile. Do you have a dollar store to get opks at? Might be worth getting a couple...

 

[mzswizz]

I get paid on the 8th so I was going to wait until then.

AFM, well today I am going to schedule a doc appt. Hopefully I can get in asap. Also, dh and I are going to the pet store to look around. And today I went into work but now I am back home. DH and I dtd yesterday and none of his soldiers came out so I don't know if that means im ovulating or something. Also my nipples are still sensitive and get erect most of the time Hopefully I can finally get some answers soon. Also, dh said his deployment will be in June of next year so if we do conceive soon, he will be here for the pregnancy, labor and delivery, and also a few months of the baby being here so that's good. Let's just see if we do conceive.

 

[mzswizz]

How are you ladies?

AFM, thought I would never have a cycle longer than 26 days for awhile now but currently is cd28 for me. I got my doc appt on Tuesday at 2:30pm So hopefully I get some answers. Also, my nipples are super sensitive still And my cm looks like its drying up. DH's "soldiers" is the only thing that comes out and that's about it. So maybe AF is on her way But im patient enough to see whats going on.

 

[mzswizz]

This thread has been pretty quiet. Hoping you ladies are doing fine


AFM, well it looks like my body maybe back to normal seeing that im getting close to my normal cycles Now I have finally realized that the sensitive nipples are an effect when you stop taking birth control pills. Of course, I had to google it right Which I had a feeling because I took a test a few days ago and it was a bfn but I was still having sensitive nipples so I put it to the bcps. Im happy that I have my doc appt. tomorrow too. I'm going in because I noticed that I have this bulge that is on my left ovary/pubic area side. And when I cough, sneeze or stand etc, I get sharp pains or cramps and I don't know what's going on. Hopefully, its nothing major and its just something can be easily fixed Today, dh and I have been spending time together and we both go into work soon. Good thing im only going in for 3 hrs today. I plan on testing again next week Thursday (the 18th) just in case I did ov a few days ago. All in all..everything is going good..no complaints.

 

[L.E.]

Let us know how the appt goes. I have bulges everywhere lol. Hopefully it's nothing serious for you. I took my temp later than usual and my temp was up quite a bit. Didn't record it because it was out of what I would consider "acceptable" range time-wise, so I'm setting my alarm for the morning to see what it says. I'm sure it was just a fluke.

 

[mzswizz]

L.E. you made me laugh. And thanks hope its nothing serious either. And hoping your temp tomorrow is in normal range. How are you doing today?

 

[L.E.]

Today's temp was normal. Yesterday's was on my high end of normal, but today's confirms that the other day was a fluke, so I guess that's good. I would've been thrilled to O at all, let alone on CD11, but I knew it was too good to be true. So I'm waiting it out as usual. Nothing too interesting around here. I took DS and my niece to see Despicable Me 2 last night. It was pretty cute, though I think it's more of a rental. Our movie theatre has $5 movies on Tuesday, but we saw the 3D so it was $25 for the 3 of us plus popcorn and then ice-cream afterwards, so $40 for what was supposed to be a cheap night lol. Guess that's how it works.

 

[mzswizz]

L.E. yeah that's how the movie theatres get you

AFM, I am cd32 and only 3 days away from my normal AF cycle. After much brainstorming and talking to DH. He wants to continue ttc. We know that I wont get the surgery until next year or so and by then we are hoping to atleast have one child. The doc also gave me the go ahead as scheduling for the surgery is going to "take time" and her husband is the only surgeon in the hospital. So now DH is really on board on trying to have kids. Kids are now his first priority and he also is thinking about getting his sperm count checked to see if he is okay I asked him what about the deployment etc and he said forget every excuse that he had and we are just going to just do it Now I did start taking birth control yesterday and today because I thought he wouldn't want to try so he told me to stop taking the pills and we are just going to try. So im going to start temping..even though it is late in my cycle to do so. Im just going to temp until AF shows. If she shows which im hoping she's not. I don't think my body has fully adjusted yet because my nipples are still sensitive. Oh well we shall see whats in store for us. I started taking the prenatals today