positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[mzswizz]

fngrs-cant wait for updates with you.

stacey-the comment about your eggs arent getting any younger made me but it is sooo true. Cant wait until you are able to start poas with us

AFM, im cd14 and my temp is 97.71. DH wentout to celebrate his cousin's 21st birthday last night so i just enjoyed being alone catching up to my shows. I didn't go to bed until close to 2am and DH came home around 3am. So we both fell asleep. Well, dh and i dtd this morning. I must admit it was pretty funny because dh complained that he hasnt received any sex in 2-3 days and its long overdue Well now i have to see what the tww brings because....
I GOT MY POSITIVE OPK!!!!!!! So let's see what happens this cycle. It came as a shock because i was not expecting a positive opk at cd14. I really thought it would've happened later. So with FF having my LP as 11 days...AF is due around June 2nd or 3rd now. So now we shall wait.

 

[staceyj83]

I hope I dont get to poas with you guys i hope that when its time for me to start all of you already have your BFP

 

[mzswizz]

Aww stacey. Hoping we all get our bfps in due time.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Stacey I know what you mean about eggs not getting any younger! I am almost 34 July 17th will be my birthday. DH is already 35..20 cycles, aww that is a long time, you guys deserved to have your miracle after waiting that long. We have been TTC for over a year now (1 yr 2 months). Had one second-tri loss and 2 mc's. After 3 pregnancies and still no baby, I am at the what gives phase...

 

[FngrsCrossed]

fngrs-cant wait for updates with you.

stacey-the comment about your eggs arent getting any younger made me but it is sooo true. Cant wait until you are able to start poas with us

AFM, im cd14 and my temp is 97.71. DH wentout to celebrate his cousin's 21st birthday last night so i just enjoyed being alone catching up to my shows. I didn't go to bed until close to 2am and DH came home around 3am. So we both fell asleep. Well, dh and i dtd this morning. I must admit it was pretty funny because dh complained that he hasnt received any sex in 2-3 days and its long overdue Well now i have to see what the tww brings because....
View attachment 404059I GOT MY POSITIVE OPK!!!!!!! So let's see what happens this cycle. It came as a shock because i was not expecting a positive opk at cd14. I really thought it would've happened later. So with FF having my LP as 11 days...AF is due around June 2nd or 3rd now. So now we shall wait.

Yay for the positive opk! Now it's time to get dancing!! with that 2-3 no dancing, DH should have a healthy reserve to grow a bean! If AF doesn't start for me (DH is on the way with FRER's) then yay! If she does my fertile period starts when your AF is due... I hope the witch doesn't show for you!! I am going to meet her on the highway and beat her up! that way she doesn't show for any of us. I am thinking L.E. is going to ovulate this cycle, you are about to ovulate, I am waiting to know if I am preggers! This all a good day today! And good signs all the way around that we are going to start that first tri thread!

now I am ansty...Hurry Dh oh there he is!!!!brb

 

[staceyj83]

we hit that phase to had DD #1 in 2006 lost a tube and baby in 08 didnt get pregnant again till 2010 and lost the baby at 11 weeks 4 days it was a long wait but she was/is worth the wait sorry for your loss i know its a very hard but i feel it makes us stronger for the blesses we do get

 

[mzswizz]

yay cant wait for your update! also, about bd, just so happens we put ttc on hold so i will be able to go to boot camp when he does because if im pregnant, i cant go until i have the baby. So we werent really TRYING. But we ended up dtd this morning and i was just thinking that since we didnt dtd in 2-3 days...everything may lead to a early bfp. If we get pregnant now then i just got to wait it out before i can enlist and just let him enlist then go station with him and once i have the baby, i go to boot camp etc so i can be active duty officer so it will work out. Just got to wait and see now. Hoping opk is negative tomorrow which would mean i will ov tomorrow!!! And put me at 1dpo on thursday Also, now i dont need to buy any more opks since i got my positive But i am still in shock because i got a positive on cd14. it seems VERY early with my 35 day cycles.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Didn't take pics, no need to, ONE lonely line ( |). Whatever line was there yesterday is gone now. So either failure to implant properly or an evap. Which I know FRER's don't usually give me evaps like that. But hey, that lie works for me. I guess the witch didn't get my letter!! Sorry ladies, only one line. So I wait her out, AGAIN. On to the next cycle we go.

L.E. I am starting a new cycle with you, I guess we wait to ovulate together.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Stacey I am sorry for your losses also. It's hard to go through that. But I reminded myself, when you have a family to care for, and things to do everyday, you aren't allowed to sit and be idle. So that keeps me going.

I wish it were easier to get pregnant though. I mean seriously. Robbing a bank and fleeing the country is easier than getting pregnant! WHY?! I started DH on a series of pills, lol including Ginseng lol so we will see what the next cycle brings. If the witch shows her tardy face tomorrow.

 

[staceyj83]

Didn't take pics, no need to, ONE lonely line ( |). Whatever line was there yesterday is gone now. So either failure to implant properly or an evap. Which I know FRER's don't usually give me evaps like that. But hey, that lie works for me. I guess the witch didn't get my letter!! Sorry ladies, only one line. So I wait her out, AGAIN. On to the next cycle we go.

L.E. I am starting a new cycle with you, I guess we wait to ovulate together.

aww man well like i say you are not out till she shows her mean face

 

[staceyj83]

Stacey I am sorry for your losses also. It's hard to go through that. But I reminded myself, when you have a family to care for, and things to do everyday, you aren't allowed to sit and be idle. So that keeps me going.

I wish it were easier to get pregnant though. I mean seriously. Robbing a bank and fleeing the country is easier than getting pregnant! WHY?! I started DH on a series of pills, lol including Ginseng lol so we will see what the next cycle brings. If the witch shows her tardy face tomorrow.

yea i gave my self 2 days in bed to cry then after i made my self get up and do things with my little girl and things around the house my back yard never looked as good as it did then but it helped me a lot

 

[L.E.]

Thanks for the well-wishes Staceyj! Sorry for your losses but congrats on your newest addition! As nice as you are, I too hope we aren't POAS together. I've been doing this entirely too long.

I feel the timer ticking too. I turn the big 3-0 at the end of the year and I really really really want to be pregnant with a forever baby before then. And my 10 yr anniversary is coming up this summer. It all makes me feel like I'm old and don't have much time left to give DS a sibling.

MzSwizz.... woohoo on a smiley!! How exciting and you didn't have to wait long at all this time!

Fngrs, You could only be 10 dpo and maybe you had a super-sensitive one yesterday. I know when I had the chemical, I had a barely there line around noon and tested again (2 hpts) around 5 pm and a long hold, and there was no line, but it showed up a few hrs later. I did have a line the next day (faint). I really hope you get your bfp, but if not (or it didn't implant well), then I hope you don't get dragged along with light lines and then heartbreak again. As much as we want our BFPs, AF is much easier to handle than chemical pgs. So hugs to you and I hope your sticky bean is just house-hunting trying to get comfy. If not, then you'll get to pee on sticks with me.

For me, I'm still going with the light AF. 2 days in a row my opks were really dark... Not positive, but close. We all know those mean nothing for me, but it makes me raise an eyebrow every time. This is the lightest AF ever. I just hope it stops in the next 2 days and doesn't keep dragging on like the spotting.

 

[mzswizz]

Fngrs-You're not out until AF shows

L.E. yes i know im happy

 

[L.E.]

So I'm thinking the Soy may have stabilized my temps. Do you think that's possible? I think my temps look just lovely! LOL They give me a little hope that maybe, just maybe, I'll get to O before too long. How likely is it that my stable temps mean better hormone balance? I like hope, but be real with me. The truth is more helpful.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

I am not sad at all, but I am going to go look at those tests again. lol Even though the time limit is well over and done with. I guess I have to get more digi's and I could order some wondfo's too! You are right, I could be 10dpo and not 13. Guess we will see what happens. If I am not preggers, I just want to start a new cycle and get going with TTC again. I think my DH was surprised to hear me be so chipper about it, without complaining about how it's SOOOO wrong that I am not pregnant yet. It's going to happen I know it will. Just maybe not this cycle. Hey at least I get to keep my POAS obsession for another cycle.

I honestly do think that the Soy has balanced your hormones. So yea, that's why your temps aren't all over the place. Your chart looks really good! maybe in a couple of days, she will disappear. I also hope she doesn't linger on and on..She had to have read about spot being a problem and you not wanting him there. Obviously she was angry enough to let him stay in your yard without driving by to pick him up last cycle. Hopefully that is what she is doing, coming to get him and going on a nice vacation!!!

 

[L.E.]

I hope she goes on vacation soon... See she can leave tonight if she wants so you can get your BFP, I can O and get my BFP, and MzSwizz is Oing now to get her BFP... We're done with her now. She can leave us all for 9 months if she wants. Mr Storky can replace her and take care of us.

 

[mzswizz]

Fngrs-I see you have a temp drop today but AF still hasnt showed her face yet so thats good And you know what about being nonchalant and chipper about the whole situation, the same is happening with dh and i. i told him if i get pregnant this cycle then good and if i dont then just going to whip out the opks once we get stationed..its no biggie. He was shocked but happy that im not going to be disappointed about the whole situation.

L.E. yes Mr. Storky can replace her any day! She needs to take a vacation!

AFM, im cd15 today and my opk is negative which means....ov day is today My temp dropped significantly from 97.71 to 97.14 So i am definitely ov'ing today which means I will be 1dpo tomorrow yay This cycle, even though on my chart it has the prenatal vitamins, i haven't been taking them routinely. So i missed A LOT of days. I think i have taken them probably 3 times or so It would be pretty funny if I do get pregnant because of the fact that my mind and DH's mind has been sooo focused on the Navy that we were willing to put TTC on hold. Either way it goes...we are still going to go to the Navy. Our plan is if im not pregnant then we go to boot camp together etc. But if i am pregnant, dh continues the enlistment process, i move when he gets stationed, and by then I should be almost ready to give birth so it will work out fine. Then once i have the baby, i think i will wait maybe 6 months and then continue with my enlistment process so we both can be active duty officers So i think it will work out fine for us. I know one thing i got to work on is swimming. Im a pretty okay swimmer. I dont get to swim alot but i can swim. I just got to practice more. Now my dh can swim like a professional and im more on the novice level So got to practice that because swimming from one side of the olympic pool to the other in 14 mins and floating for 5 mins is part of boot camp and they will only do that once. So i just have to practice so i wont psych myself out and fail. Well now its all a waiting game now

 

[FngrsCrossed]

L.E. She does need to leave us all. Heck I guess she has to show first in order for her to leave me...lol lol lol she still isn't here. I am guessing tomorrow she will be here. Your chart is still looking good!

MsSwizz I think being non-chalant has been easier because of all of the bfn's and TTC for so long. we have definitely been part of the other percentage (75%) that won't get a bfp in that cycle. It will happen when it happens. Hopefully before I reach 35. I did have a temp drop this morning, it's still way above my CL. Want her to show and go already! BTW that swimming and floating en-tells a lot of clothing. I think you may have to do that while in your camo and boots. (?) So that may be a little on the tricky side. I am sure you are going to do good though.

Stacey- Where have you gone?


Ladies I have already made my plan for this incoming cycle. Got my Flaxseed oil ready. Those pills are huge. I think I'd rather swallow a liquid. All of my supplements are huge horse-pills. Last night, I dreamed one of my pills was 6 inches long! lol I remember refusing to take it, because I knew I would choke to death. lol I even have Cinnamon supplements. That's suppose to metabolize sugar better. Not a diabetic (runs in the family though) just thought, why not? DH came home this morning from working overnight and was amazed with his supplements. He said he wasn't tired at work at all. Now he can see what I have been telling him about how they should make him feel. So the Vitamin C, Ginseng, B-12, and Men's 1-a-day have been doing their job.

 

[mzswizz]

Fngrs-Well atleast now you are well equipped for your new cycle even though we are all hoping for a bfp for you.

AFM, i cant stop looking at my chart because i still cant believe the major temp dip Well i will have work to keep me occupied later on. I go in for 4.5 hours today thank goodness. DH is heading home early from work so atleast i get to spend time with him before i go to work.

 

[L.E.]

Fngrs, did you test any more? I see your temp dropped. I still think you O'd later than FF says. Maybe your egg had a hard time popping out, hence all the ferning.

MzSwizz, that is a beautiful O dip! How exciting!

For me, I slept terribly last night but I think my temp is accurate anyway. I'm not sure if today will still be AF or spotting so I'm waiting to update that part of my chart. I'm ready for the witch to leave and take Spotty with her!

Do you ladies have plans for this holiday weekend? We're going out of town to visit my Mother-In-Law and any other people on DHs side we happen to see. We haven't been there since Christmas and it's only a 3 hr drive. Of course she could come visit us too, but you can't tell her that. Actually she did come up for DS' birthday in November. It was the 1st time she'd been up and we'd lived here almost 3 yrs then. But she very rarely visited when we lived in the same city, so we're not surprised. DHs family thought I was the bad guy when we moved here (this is my hometown), but hopefully they realize that I make ALL the plans to visit, and if I didn't, DH would never decide on his own to go visit them.

Well I went off on a tangent LOL. But you should be used to that by now.