positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[mommapowers32]

fngrs-we are all nutcases. Ever since i was playing with ff added 3 temps to see where i would get my crosshairs, i have been poas All negative of course. I was wondering if it was high or low miu too. Thats why im going to test with an ic tomorrow and see what it says. I have my job and everything for the Navy so im really ready to go. It would be a surprise to see a bfp actually. Als oi took the pos opk on cd20 off my chart and it still has my ov day as cd19. In which we bd'd on o-1, o, and o+1 so we are in with a chance which is scary. Also for some odd reasons if you look at my chart..my temps have been in the 97.80s for these past 2 days which is weird seeing that I am suppose to get AF in 2-3 days

That sounds promising !!! Gl!!

 

[L.E.]

If I can trust my chart, we may ALL be in the TWW right now... weird, but cool!! MzSwizz, you BD like crazy so I think you always have a shot!!

Fngrs, the last times I BD were on the 28th around 5 pm and the 29th/30th around 1:30 am... So decent (but not great) timing if my O date is correct for the 1st, and not good if I actually O'd on the 5th. Just going from cm, cp, and drive, I would've guessed O as more like the 29th or 30. Like I said, if the 5th was O day, that was a mean joke because I've been sooo sick and was bleeding. I suppose as long as I O'd I'll be pretty happy, but a BFP would be ideal of course!

MzSwizz, how great would that be to be 12 dpo tomorrow!?

Sorry if I'm skipping things... I'm tired now. Going to try to convince DS to take a nap with me. This sickness is kicking my tail!!

 

[FngrsCrossed]

wouldnt that be something get a bfp when not trying lmao i did put in some fake temps for friday sat. and sunday if it goes back up ill get my crosshairs for o on cd19 and it lowers my coverline if i did o on cd19 i know there is no way i could be prego but im ok with that and i dont wanna get prego in june because then i would be around alices first birthday on the good side i did lose 1 whole lb yay wish it would have been more but oh well we need to see some crosshairs on your chart wait that would mean we would all be in the 2ww at the same time

Stacey- discard CD17 and you should get crosshairs. Then you can uncheck it tomorrow morning so that it can be added in you chart stats. I think we all are in the TWW. I will get crosshairs tomorrow,then they will probably change to ovulation yesterday when I imput my temp in 2 more days. I ovulated earlier this cycle, not sad about that one. I loved my previous ovulation day CD12.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

If I can trust my chart, we may ALL be in the TWW right now... weird, but cool!! MzSwizz, you BD like crazy so I think you always have a shot!!

Fngrs, the last times I BD were on the 28th around 5 pm and the 29th/30th around 1:30 am... So decent (but not great) timing if my O date is correct for the 1st, and not good if I actually O'd on the 5th. Just going from cm, cp, and drive, I would've guessed O as more like the 29th or 30. Like I said, if the 5th was O day, that was a mean joke because I've been sooo sick and was bleeding. I suppose as long as I O'd I'll be pretty happy, but a BFP would be ideal of course!

MzSwizz, how great would that be to be 12 dpo tomorrow!?

Sorry if I'm skipping things... I'm tired now. Going to try to convince DS to take a nap with me. This sickness is kicking my tail!!

Well I guess just ONE more temp and then you will know if it's ovulation on Cd113 or 117. If its CD117 then its quite possible baby can be a little girl. Girl sperm live longer. No discouragement lady...That EWCM is unbelievable when it come to keeping sperm alive. so either way you have a chance. What does your Timing Analyzer say about your intercourse pattern?

 

[mzswizz]

so pretty much everyone is in the tww and just waiting for tomorrow to get crosshairs wow you got to love our bodies we should be team crosshairs!!!

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Ladies I adjusted my early temps on FF to how they look on TCOYF...lol how do they look? lmfo (laughing my face off)!!!! Should I leave them a few days or change them back to my early temps? With them left like that FF keps pushing my OV date back when I add fake temps...As far back as CD15 so far. I imagine if I keep adding temps it will keep pushing it back. Of course I am adding temps .2 higher than the previous at a time. lol

 

[FngrsCrossed]

so pretty much everyone is in the tww and just waiting for tomorrow to get crosshairs wow you got to love our bodies we should be team crosshairs!!!

We SHOULD be team crosshairs!!! This is just too weird! (In my super-hero voice) Is everyone wearing the cycle synchronization belt?! then lets "OVULATION SYNCHRONIZE"!!! (music plays in background as we fly off to buy hpts)

 

[staceyj83]

nope tried it no crosshairs that way hmmm and its raining cats and dogs down here i love it

 

[staceyj83]

so pretty much everyone is in the tww and just waiting for tomorrow to get crosshairs wow you got to love our bodies we should be team crosshairs!!!

We SHOULD be team crosshairs!!! This is just too weird! (In my super-hero voice) Is everyone wearing the cycle synchronization belt?! then lets "OVULATION SYNCHRONIZE"!!! (music plays in background as we fly off to buy hpts)

LMBO now that is just to dang funny

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Stacey- well it's still waiting for tomorrows temp then. Guess there is no choice in the matter. Just have to wait (blah blah blah), which sucks...FF isn't playing nice today. why can't we just all get our crosshairs today...Ya' know just for show and tell? lol

 

[mzswizz]

fngrs- omg i was dying laughing here at work about the synchronizing ovulation and flying off to buy hpts that was just too funny. Wouldnt it be funny if we ALL get our crosshairs tomorrow?!

 

[FngrsCrossed]

MsSwizz- I think that we honestly all are going to get crosshairs tomorrow. Seriously this is all too weird. I can see the bfp's flying around this cycle. That would be awesome for bfp's! i know you don't want one right now since you are shipping out and all) so I won't wish it on you just yet.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Found this https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/trying-conceive-1/790593-bbt-adjusting-my-experiement.htmland thought ohh maybe I should keep my temps adjusted... I guess I need anything to tell me that adjusting on my FF chart is ok. Even though FF says not to and they can determine ovulation "accurately" regardless. I can't say that I believe FF on that one. Tell me how you are suppose to identify a thermal shift ACCURATELY, with temps taken an hour and 45 minutes before time, then an hour before time the next day?!?! FF has to be kidding me! I don't think so! So I guess I am leaving them until further notice..Translation: Until my temps look like the early temps were the correct ones.
Tell me what you think of the ladies experiment. I thought it was pretty cool. If If I wake earlier than 5 a.m. my temps differ significantly. I have caught on to that one. it makes my thermal shift a headache to identify. That's what makes me glad that TCOYF allows adjusting.

 

[staceyj83]

Im starting to think FF in a man lol wow that is pretty cool ok ? i went out and got a new thermometer just cause mine is old should i keep using the old till af gets me or would it be ok to use the new one

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Stacey is it the same brand? If so then you might be ok. Other than that wait until the old hag shows. Heck you can even give it a test run, take your temp with both back to back or at the same time, and if it gives you the same reading then use the new one.

 

[staceyj83]

yes its the same brand ill try using them both a the same time cant hurt right thank you

 

[mommapowers32]

Ive done my temps back to back and they have been significantly different ... which one do you go with the first or the "better" one :wink: lol

 

[FngrsCrossed]

You know..sometimes we got so caught up in TTC that we fail to pay attention. Sometimes we read things, without reading what is important. Here is another link that completely shows how idiotic we become with TTC...SMH...NO I AM seriously shaking my head

https://www.themommyplaybook.com/forum/showthread.php?t=68171 This is from the mommy playbook website. It talks about things that kill sperm. Read the posts and then click on this-> https://www.quinncarlin.ca/docs/MaleReproIssues.pdf so you will know where the info is coming from.

Understand what they are reading yet? Well look at the letterhead/Tiitle of the pdf on the page... Oh my, it's an old thread but imagine the other women who have read that Am I the only woman who noticed this? AI doesn't just stand for Artificial Intelligence, it stands for Artificial Insemination... Some dogs won't mate with each other, and then the female DOG has to be AI'd....rofl The info they were reading is for Dog breeders and not human conception. They even went on about DH blow drying his testicles, and not one caught on to that. Of course a bredder would blow dry near testicles...They have to bathe their dog ya' know....lmfo

 

[L.E.]

I can just picture the super-hero thing!! Of course you know that while I was reading it, I heard the super-hero voice narrating it LOL.

Well if I kept the BD marked as the 29th, it gives me LOW, so I moved it to the 30th (technically it was the 30th), I get GOOD. I couldn't convince DH to dtd at night on the 30th, and I think the 31st he was really busy and I was tired. DS had some college projects that were over-due and he had to get in.

The EWCM was just a little bit, but no doubting that it was EW or I wouldn't have marked it that way. I think mostly it was just W the rest of the day. Of course there could've always been more up higher. I'm pretty sure it was the slippery kind of wet vs completely watery, if you know what I mean. There's nothing I can do about it now. Either I O'd or I didn't, and either I conceived or I didn't. If I did O'd at all, that's a big victory and I'll definitely do the soy again. Now if all my temps are wacko from being sick, I'll be so saaaaaddd. Feeling like I'm 1/2 way through the 2ww is nice, but if I have to go back to waiting to O or asking for Provera I'll cry!

 

[staceyj83]

Wth lmao