positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[L.E.]

Ive done my temps back to back and they have been significantly different ... which one do you go with the first or the "better" one :wink: lol

I used to temp back to back and got irritated thinking my thermometer wasn't accurate. I just go with the first one now. If the temp is way different from what I expected, I take it again, and as long as it's relatively close, I go ahead with the first. I don't know if it was Fngrs or somewhere else where I read that the 2nd temp is usually higher because you already "warmed up" the thermometer so it reads higher.

Stacey, I would stay with the old one for now, or use both and chart the old one and note the new one.

 

[staceyj83]

that sounds good to thanks

 

[L.E.]

You know..sometimes we got so caught up in TTC that we fail to pay attention. Sometimes we read things, without reading what is important. Here is another link that completely shows how idiotic we become with TTC...SMH...NO I AM seriously shaking my head

https://www.themommyplaybook.com/forum/showthread.php?t=68171 This is from the mommy playbook website. It talks about things that kill sperm. Read the posts and then click on this-> https://www.quinncarlin.ca/docs/MaleReproIssues.pdf so you will know where the info is coming from.

Understand what they are reading yet? Well look at the letterhead/Tiitle of the pdf on the page... Oh my, it's an old thread but imagine the other women who have read that Am I the only woman who noticed this? AI doesn't just stand for Artificial Intelligence, it stands for Artificial Insemination... Some dogs won't mate with each other, and then the female DOG has to be AI'd....rofl The info they were reading is for Dog breeders and not human conception. They even went on about DH blow drying his testicles, and not one caught on to that. Of course a bredder would blow dry near testicles...They have to bathe their dog ya' know....lmfo

That cracked me up!! Of course I'm sick so it turned into a coughing-snort and DH asked "Are you okay???" LOL I was wondering why they called it your "boy" like a pet name!! And the air bubbles....

 

[mommapowers32]

wow this is crazy!

 

[L.E.]

Fngrs, Do you think it's possible I O'd later in the day on the 31st? And since it was a slow rise and late in the day, the temp wasn't up there yet? I know technically anything is possible, just wondering your thoughts. Or maybe you don't think I O'd at all and my temps are crazy from being sick? Whaddya think? I did take NyQuil the last 3 days and the day I would have expected my temp to be unnaturally high would have been the 5th when it was low, so I don't even know what to think.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

I can just picture the super-hero thing!! Of course you know that while I was reading it, I heard the super-hero voice narrating it LOL.

Well if I kept the BD marked as the 29th, it gives me LOW, so I moved it to the 30th (technically it was the 30th), I get GOOD. I couldn't convince DH to dtd at night on the 30th, and I think the 31st he was really busy and I was tired. DS had some college projects that were over-due and he had to get in.

The EWCM was just a little bit, but no doubting that it was EW or I wouldn't have marked it that way. I think mostly it was just W the rest of the day. Of course there could've always been more up higher. I'm pretty sure it was the slippery kind of wet vs completely watery, if you know what I mean. There's nothing I can do about it now. Either I O'd or I didn't, and either I conceived or I didn't. If I did O'd at all, that's a big victory and I'll definitely do the soy again. Now if all my temps are wacko from being sick, I'll be so saaaaaddd. Feeling like I'm 1/2 way through the 2ww is nice, but if I have to go back to waiting to O or asking for Provera I'll cry!

(In my super hero voice again) Don't Fret, you are pregnant I bet!!! I keep looking at that pattern and thinking that's it!! And I agree about Ovulating. It's not a small victory, it's really a big deal. Just that milestone is awesome. Pregnant or not. I am sure that the soy did make you ovulate. You took it for a while. And to not have any results after all of that isn't possible. I hope and pray that you don't have to "Provera." I was thinking maybe that smiley could have been double ovulation also, I mean you did take that soy and so it's possible since it does act like clomid!


lol I just read your last post to me...Like I said double ovulation or...on the 5th when there was a dip. When I say fouble ovulation I mean you could have ovulated on the 31st. Might have been late in the evening. I just think that you have a chance either way. If you ovulated on the 31st then you could be preggers, and if you ovulated on the 5th sperm could have been there from dancing earlier in the week. Despite the amount of EW, little or a lot. Sperm don't seem to need that much to survive, as long as its fertile. I think we get a misconception going on about fertile CM. ALL cm is fertile, the less fertile is sticky. As long as there is some sort of CM present you are fertile. When I preggers in June 2011 I had zero ewcm, I labeled my chart as watery cm, because I used preseed on those days. And I still got pregnant. Not to mention we danced on only Cd11 and 12 skipped 13 danced 14 and 15. Those last 2 days were obsolete, So we only danced twice honestly.

I remember telling you about a lady only dancing once 7 days before ovulation. She thought she was out. But she got her bfp! So don't worry about the amount that you danced, if she can do it either of us can too! Not to mention you and your DH danced more than once. Anyhow, back to temps for a sec, those first 3 temps are pre-illness so they are reliable. That dip could also be a corpus luteum dip instead of ovulation dip, which mean progesterone cream was kicking in. Or it could be a double ovulation.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

wow this is crazy!

Did you read it? I just may have too much time on my hands. I just had to post it for you ladies, I JUST HAD TO!!! Of course we are all nuts on here Momma. So if you ever feel yourelf slipping or fell the need to loopy, it's ok, we don't judge and we are just as BTW L.E. was right about the temp. I did mention really early in one of these one hundred and some odd pages, that your first temp is the most accurate. By the time you take the second temp, your thermometer is already warm and the temp from your body has already climbed/transitioned to an awake temp and not a "just waking" temp. I feel you though the second temp always feels and looks better on a chart. But I have to say the first is the most accurate.

 

[L.E.]

I was sooo hopeful today... no spotting today and tonight AS SOON as I change from pads to liners, I feel a "Passenger" pass and wipe red blood!

AND I'm losing trust in Wondfo and of course my body and my chart/temps and all that, but Wondfo is really irritating me. I've had too many discrepancies with these OPKs. Look at the ones I just did.... all 3 were dipped in the same urine. The first one had longer to develop (11 mins when the pic was taken). The last one is getting a little darker, but the first one looks almost positive and the middle one is still lighter. I figure once I'm over this cold my temps will drop and my hopes will once again be dashed. Anyway.... off of the pity train lol...

I'm going to find a diaper, take NyQuil and sleep til I have to wake up and get my niece, take more NyQuil and sleep til my temp alarm goes off.

 

[staceyj83]

hmmm that is off so i took my temp with both of them at the same time lmao old one said 98.01 and the new one said 96.50 what the heck guess ill stay with the old one till af shows

 

[FngrsCrossed]

L.E. speechless for a moment..Some of their tests may have more dye than others, which isn't good and not fair to their customers. When consumers buy things we expect them to work properly, and that's the least they can do given they have gotten paid for the tests! Some women swear by them. I never bought them, felt a little reluctant after I got their hpt's and a false positive. Don't know if you remember that. So I won't defend their honor. There is no way a opk is suppose to be positive on one and negative on the next 2 using the same urine! But I understand why you even went with them, they are more economical, given how many times you intend to test. I can't imagine you using CBE digi's to test the way you get to test with wondfo. I am now also disappointed with them especially after seeing this.

So now what are you thinking..maybe the smiley was right? I am wondering if you corsshairs will change to solid and to the 5th for ovulation once you input your temp for today.

BTW I did and edit on my previous post to you.

 

[mommapowers32]

I was sooo hopeful today... no spotting today and tonight AS SOON as I change from pads to liners, I feel a "Passenger" pass and wipe red blood!

AND I'm losing trust in Wondfo and of course my body and my chart/temps and all that, but Wondfo is really irritating me. I've had too many discrepancies with these OPKs. Look at the ones I just did.... all 3 were dipped in the same urine. The first one had longer to develop (11 mins when the pic was taken). The last one is getting a little darker, but the first one looks almost positive and the middle one is still lighter. I figure once I'm over this cold my temps will drop and my hopes will once again be dashed. Anyway.... off of the pity train lol...

I'm going to find a diaper, take NyQuil and sleep til I have to wake up and get my niece, take more NyQuil and sleep til my temp alarm goes off.

You know right before IAF I get really strong not positive opks these last two cycles and this cycle my opks have not gone back down. They are not positive but still very visible second line

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Ladies..DH is off today, yet he didn't disable his alarm this morning..smh so at approximately 4:19 it woke me up. I temped because I wasn't sure if I would be able to go back to sleep. It was 97.38, I fell back to sleep and temped at 6 a.m. and got 97.71. So this morning I input my temp in the adjuster just to see what it would be. And it gave me 97.71!!! All I could say is, "Shut the Front Door"!! So I guess adjusting isn't a bad thing and it is accurate. So I am going to leave my temps adjusted on FF. I was amazed thought at how accurate it was.

So now I have my crosshairs! and I know you ladies will be getting them this morning also. for us and the TWW to end in 's!!!

Edit: So I put my temps back and tinkered with them. No matter what I input it says I ovulated on Cd13. So that is a good thing. So I guess I will leave them adjusted for now.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Stacey- I got it!!! discard CD12! You may get crosshairs! Those temps are such a big difference I would definitely just use the old one til' she shows.

 

[mzswizz]

shut the front door...we all got our crosshairs today

Fngrs-About the bfp...i wouldnt mind if i get one this time or not

How are you lovely ladies doing today?

AFM, im cd31 and my temp is at 97.87. FF has finally put crosshairs on my chart and is saying I am 12dpo. If i take off the opks, it would say i o'd on cd28 and im only 3dpo BUT looking at cd19 and cd28 ov for cd19, i had a .5 temp rise the next day and for cd28, i had only a .38 temp rise so im thinking cd19 was the actual ov day. What do you ladies think? Also this is the 3rd day my temps have been in the 97.80s. Actually it went up from 97.83 to 97.87 today Also FF has labeled my chart as triphasic That's a first. Im not taking any progesterone either so its a huge shock. Plus, i looked at my chart to see when i had the right ovary pain which was the same day dh said it could be possible implantation, and it was on 8dpo which is when i got my first dip and it stayed low the following day and since 10dpo, my temps have been in the 97.80s sooo im freaking out because what if i am pregnant But we shall see. I will take a test the next time i have to pee and see what happens. Well, dh and i got to get everything in order before he leaves so we know what to do and whats going on. I start my new job on the 25th so thats really going to help out alot. So everything is falling into place as we speak. Now, if i am pregnant, Im just going to do what we planned and I enlist after the baby is born like around when the baby is 6 months or a year so no problem. Im just excited about everything actually so we shall see how everything plays out. What do you ladies think about my chart?

 

[staceyj83]

yayyy yall got the crosshairs that is great ill try it




nope still no crosshairs for me oh well

 

[mzswizz]

i hope you're next for crosshairs stacey

 

[staceyj83]

me to me and dh need some QT the work of trying to miss o is nuts looks like implanting could of happen 8dpo and if it did you should get a BFP with in the next day or 2 i know with dd #1 i didnt get a bfp till 16dpo i think she took hold late and i know with my 3rd pregnancy i started testing at 12dpo and didnt get my bfp till 17dpo

 

[mzswizz]

stacey-im thinking 8dpo too. i am going to test today to see what happens.

 

[staceyj83]

I know you have your plans but i really want you to get a bfp you have been trying for far to long all of you gals have

 

[mzswizz]

stacey-i dont mind if i get pregnant now because im still going to enlist after baby is born